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AracTech's Homepage http://www.zorpia.com/AracTech Mon, 06 Oct 2008 16:42 EDT Mon, 06 Oct 2008 16:42 EDT Zorpia.com Sometimes.... http://www.zorpia.com/AracTech/journal/1813472 I heard someone said: "Sometimes, things don't follow prearranged patterns. Yet, it takes disappointment to motivate you to greater things and achievement of dreams (though some memories stay on for a very long long time!)". Whatâ€™s ur take on this, reader? Some experiences teaches us endearing lessons. Both our reaction to them and the decisions we make tells how much we have learnt 4rm them. Yeah, life does take different turns but the way we align ourselves dictates how much we can go. You know, Oprah Winfery once said: "Challenges are special gifts to help US find a new centre of gravity. Don't fight 'em. Just find another way to stand." Personal http://www.zorpia.com/AracTech/journal/1813472 Tue, 17 Jun 2008 02:24 EDT THE TEST OF A SUCCESSFUL PERSON IS NOT AN ABILITY http://www.zorpia.com/AracTech/journal/1769847 The test of a successful person is not an ability to eliminate all problems before they arise, but to meet and work out difficulties when they do arise. We must be willing to make an intelligent compromise with perfection lest we wait forever before taking action. Itâ€™s still good advice to cross bridges as we come to them. <img class="smiley" src="http://v2.static.netlog.com/v2.00//s/i/smilies/smile.gif" /> <img class="smiley" src="http://v2.static.netlog.com/v2.00//s/i/smilies/smile.gif" /> Hey, A smile is the light in your window that tells others that there is a caring, sharing person inside! Religion & Ethics http://www.zorpia.com/AracTech/journal/1769847 Tue, 29 Jan 2008 16:00 EDT EMOTIONS..... http://www.zorpia.com/AracTech/journal/1769846 Emotionsare the next frontier to be understood and conquered. To manage our emotions is not to drug them or suppress them, but to understand them so that we can intelligently direct our emotional energies and intentions....It`s time for human beings to grow up emotionally, to mature into emotionally managed and responsible citizens. No magic pill will do it. <img class="smiley" src="http://v2.static.netlog.com/v2.00//s/i/smilies/love.gif" /> <img class="smiley" src="http://v2.static.netlog.com/v2.00//s/i/smilies/love.gif" /> SEX IS..... Sex is a conversation carried out by other means. If you get on well out of bed, half the problems of bed are solved. Personal http://www.zorpia.com/AracTech/journal/1769846 Tue, 29 Jan 2008 15:56 EDT HOW TO READ A WOMAN`S MIND http://www.zorpia.com/AracTech/journal/1769845 How often have you felt that you don`t understand women? Well, I know a lot of men/guys who are sailing in the same boat as you are. Women, they tell me, are a complicated breed. It is tough to know what`s going on inside her head. Although, I can`t claim to be an expert on the subject, yet, i'd dare say I quite understand the mechanics of a woman`s mind; afterall, i've got female colleagues/friends even a sis. To know your woman better, you need to really be able to "listen" to her. And when I say "listen", I mean using not just your auditory senses, but using your other senses as well. A woman communicates by using more than mere words. Usually, she speaks with body language, eyes, and sometimes even through touch. If you were really cued in to your woman, you would be able to read her mind quite easily. Personal http://www.zorpia.com/AracTech/journal/1769845 Tue, 29 Jan 2008 15:52 EDT I don't like her but will I help her? http://www.zorpia.com/AracTech/journal/1769843 There is an employee at work that you do not like; she never talks to you but she talks to other people. You found out that she has been falsely accused of making a mistake at work that could cost her her job. You know, for a fact, she didn't make the mistake because she was not even in your work area at the time. She has told the boss that as well but he doesn't believe her. He feels she just doesn't want to admit that she was responsible for making the mistake, because it is actually her work that has been affected by this error. Now, you have the power to tell the boss the truth and you know he will believe you. Do you tell the boss the truth or remain silent? The woman will never ask you for help, she doesn't talk to you; yet you know from other people she is very worried about losing her job. Will you tell the truth or remain silent? Religion & Ethics http://www.zorpia.com/AracTech/journal/1769843 Tue, 29 Jan 2008 15:48 EDT Why Do So Many People Only...? http://www.zorpia.com/AracTech/journal/1769842 Why do so many people only read the title of a discussion, and not the contents? I have seen many discussions, where the comments were way off base, because the one commenting did not bother to read the contents of the discussions! Some discussions get really heated for no reason at all, only because people see the heading and go no further. Even some that don't get heated up, become unnecessarily re-directed by participating commentors; thus, making the subject lose its value/relevance. Do you read the contents? Or do you only read the heading? Gossips & Jokes http://www.zorpia.com/AracTech/journal/1769842 Tue, 29 Jan 2008 15:44 EDT Why havin a sense of humor is important 2 ur .... http://www.zorpia.com/AracTech/journal/1769840 Why havin a sense of humor is important 2 ur relationship... When life hands you problems, are you able to take them in stride and laugh off the inevitable, unavoidable hassles and annoyances that come your way? Very well, dear, some of the tricks to being successful in life are useful in encouraging romance in your marriage or relationship, too . . . and one of those important romantic ideas is having a sense of humor! We cannot laugh off every serious problem that life hands us. Illnesses and threats to your relationship (or marriage-if u are) are hardly humorous, and laughing in the face of serious problems such as these would be silly. Yeah. But having a sense of humor does mean that you allow yourself to see the lighter side of situations that you canâ€™t change . . . and let yourself laugh off your challenges every now and then! But, taking smaller problems and annoyances too seriously is giving outside influences more control over your happiness than they deserve. Now, i know u don't wanna do that. By developing a thicker skin and laughing at minor challenges, you rob them of their power to control your life . . . and you make your romance even stronger! So the next time you feel like getting upset over something that really has no consequence, try laughing at the annoyance instead; or, smile at best. Youâ€™ll be surprised at how much it improves your life, your romance . . . and you! Romance & Relationships http://www.zorpia.com/AracTech/journal/1769840 Tue, 29 Jan 2008 15:35 EDT CHERISH..... http://www.zorpia.com/AracTech/journal/1763672   Cherish your visions cherish your ideals cherish the music that stirs in your heart, the beauty that forms in your mind, the loveliness that drapes your purest thoughts, for out of them will grow delightful conditions, all heavenly environment of these if you but remain true to them, your world will at last be built. Personal http://www.zorpia.com/AracTech/journal/1763672 Wed, 09 Jan 2008 01:03 EDT TRUE LOVE.... http://www.zorpia.com/AracTech/journal/1763664 True love does NOT behave indecently. True love does NOT pressurise one into doing things that are really indecent. True love respects the other's viewpoint(s). True love does NOT rush romance. True love care just as much for the other's welfare and happiness as it does its own True love does NOT let unrestrained overpowering emotions destroy good judgement. True love considers stuff realistically. True love is NOT selfish and self-centred. True love IS reasonable and has lotta respect for the other person. True love is NOT based on the physical but the inner beauty of the other True love IS chaste; does NOT have a disorganizing effect on one. True love settles disagreements by talking them out and NOT by a kiss! True love IS willing to give and share wholesome stuff. True love HAVE positive influences, NOT negatives Above all, True love IS God-fearing. Romance & Relationships http://www.zorpia.com/AracTech/journal/1763664 Wed, 09 Jan 2008 00:16 EDT Money Is NOT Everything. http://www.zorpia.com/AracTech/journal/1763662 Money can buy a bed but, it CANNOT buy Sleep. Money can buy position, but it CANNOT buy Respect. Money can buy book, but if CANNOT buy Knowledge. Money can buy a house, but it CANNOT buy a Home. Money can buy food, but it CANNOT buy Appetite. Money can buy medicine, but it CANNOT buy Health. Money can buy sex, but it CANNOT buy Love. Money can buy insurance, but it CANNOT buy Safety. Money can buy blood, but it CANNOT buy Life. Money can buy some basic needs, but really, true satisfaction from those needs/wants comes from something more than money! Would you wanna know? Can you tell?? Religion & Ethics http://www.zorpia.com/AracTech/journal/1763662 Wed, 09 Jan 2008 00:08 EDT ACTS OF KINDNESS http://www.zorpia.com/AracTech/journal/1763661 One act of kindness can mean so very much, just a pleasant smile or a gentle touch. Maybe an encouraging word at the right time could end one's depression and make their eyes shine. Reaching out to others is what it's all about. It can be done quietly, there's no need to shout. When you perform an act of kindness youâ€™ve dropped a pebble in a stream, the ripples can keep spreading out forever, it may seem. The person whose life you touched may reach out to touch their brothers, and those brothers may reach out to touch the lives of many others. God wants us to share our kindness and our love; He gave each of us the capacity. It came from up above. It feels good to help someone, to reach out when they are down, to put a smile on a face where once there was a frown. Remember, God is watching; He sees everything you do when you perform acts of kindness, God sends many blessings to you.   Religion & Ethics http://www.zorpia.com/AracTech/journal/1763661 Wed, 09 Jan 2008 00:03 EDT