AracTech's Journals
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I heard someone said: "Sometimes, things don't follow prearranged patterns. Yet, it takes disappointment to motivate you to greater things and achievement of dreams (though some memories stay on for a very long long time!)". What’s ur take on this, reader? Some experiences teaches us endearing lessons. Both our reaction to them and the decisions we make tells how much we have learnt 4rm them. Yeah, life does take different turns but the way we align ourselves dictates how much we can go. You know, Oprah Winfery once said: "Challenges are special gifts to help US find a new centre of gravity. Don't fight 'em. Just find another way to stand." |
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The test of a successful person is not an ability to eliminate all problems before they arise, but to meet and work out difficulties when they do arise. We must be willing to make an intelligent compromise with perfection lest we wait forever before taking action. It’s still good advice to cross bridges as we come to them. |
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Emotionsare the next frontier to be understood and conquered. To manage our emotions is not to drug them or suppress them, but to understand them so that we can intelligently direct our emotional energies and intentions....It`s time for human beings to grow up emotionally, to mature into emotionally managed and responsible citizens. No magic pill will do it. |
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How often have you felt that you don`t understand women? Well, I know a lot of men/guys who are sailing in the same boat as you are. Women, they tell me, are a complicated breed. It is tough to know what`s going on inside her head. Although, I can`t claim to be an expert on the subject, yet, i'd dare say I quite understand the mechanics of a woman`s mind; afterall, i've got female colleagues/friends even a sis. To know your woman better, you need to really be able to "listen" to her. And when I say "listen", I mean using not just your auditory senses, but using your other senses as well. A woman communicates by using more than mere words. Usually, she speaks with body language, eyes, and sometimes even through touch. If you were really cued in to your woman, you would be able to read her mind quite easily. |
I don't like her but will I help her?
Tuesday,Jan 29 2008, 06:48:01 PM (Last updated: Tuesday,Jan 29 2008, 07:04:14 PM)
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There is an employee at work that you do not like; she never talks to you but she talks to other people. You found out that she has been falsely accused of making a mistake at work that could cost her her job. You know, for a fact, she didn't make the mistake because she was not even in your work area at the time. She has told the boss that as well but he doesn't believe her. He feels she just doesn't want to admit that she was responsible for making the mistake, because it is actually her work that has been affected by this error. |