Journals
Thursday,May 31 2007, 05:04:59 PMSmall univac gathering =p
The wierd thing bt human being is that sometime u just wish to understand what each other is thinking but u just cant. But then again, this is the interesting bt it....
Sometimes even things that ppl say, u'll kinda wonder if its true... & of coz there are things that ppl do that might also give u wrong impression...
I believe that a few of my 'she' frens will agree tat they've heard ppl telling them, "... i like u", "... I love u", "...我喜欢你", "...我爱你" etc etc. But how true is this? That'z the question coz very freq ppl who say those stuff are just joking & they dun take it to heart... even I myself is also guilty of this charge coz sometimes, when my frens ask who I like, I'll just cheekily reply that ans or ill just anyhow name some1 n another 1 and another 1 n another 1 n so on n so forth.... Guess this is the simple reason why I dun believe in such words & if the same words used on me, I'll just end up discharging it as a joke (tink this called karma...). & of coz there's cases where the i just heard the words out of a sudden n I might have heard wrong. So i guess laffing over (or sometimes pretend i didn hear it or saying "ya la ya la ...." ) would be a better way... cause u'll nv know if the person who said it meant it or its meant to be sth to tease u.
I guess things aint the same as the past where when some 1 says that he likes u r stuff, he can be taken seriously.
I've seen friends who are so close such that many ppl will think they are couples but they aint... Somehow, I realised that there is a limit to how close 2 ppl of opposite sex can be. But i guess different ppl have got different parameters for that. Different hugs n diff kisses mean different things... Bear hugs are meant for friends. But apparantly, some ppl might get the wrong meaning... So actually best is dun hug unless u noe the person just treats u like a fren. =p As for kisses, like wat her best fren says, kissing at different locations mean diff things... Sometime kissing at wrong places intentionally might cause misunderstanding. But then this doesnt matter to Arte coz she only kiss gurls *Bleah* But then again, to tink bt it... Normally kissing in the more traditional context means a more or less form of liking. It is the most obvious way to tell a gurl u like her. But then hor Arte got ask her gurl frens b4. If a guy our of no gd reason kiss them, they'll give the guy 1 big fat "5 dollar". So I guess most smart normal guys wont try kissing anywhere on a gurls face w/o asking fer permission or out of no gd reason to confess coz Arte believe that the 5 dollar payment will be wat most guys will aft doin it. =p
& of coz there this thing called flirting with hair n face n all the poke at the waist etc etc... Nowadaes this is sth normal n acceptable but some times "暧昧让人变得贪心 直到等待失去意义". The limits get pushed such that things end up in the grey region. Even if it does not, there are ppl who will get the wrong signal. Coz Arte got kanna both b4, Art's learnt n not to anyhow let ppl to play with her hair & face, except very occasionally when she couldnt be bothered by it or its her old old pals. On the contrary, she kinda enjoys playing with other ppls's hair n face... Opz* & she finds poking on the waist still more toleratable then the hair n face... wierd Arte *Diaoz* (then again, mayb its coz her waist too much fat... Immune to it liao~ whahahaha)
Actually Arte got friends like herself who happen to encounter a lot of ppl who like to play with them like play with a small sis... Like tease them n use toys to tease them such. Coz long long ago Arte also got kanna those b4 n get wrong idea so Arte will realise that, when it comes to playing ppl dun tink too much n she'll end up Arte realising that she's tinking too much...
cause its more like a norm for ppl to play wit Arte, it really takes a lot to let this gurl here to know that the person aint just fooling with her & is serious bt it.... But then again, she oso doesnt really play tat much coz she dun wanna give ppl wrong idea. Alamak die sia tink she'll really end up as nun... Wahahahahaha
Ok now telling my fren got a fren sometime early morn msg me. Now even this gurl tinks that the guy likes Arte when the guy is goin aft some other gurl. Diaoz no guy will be so kuku to tell a gurl he likes that hes aft another gurl coz it will just kill his chance with the gurl he likes. Coz if aft tat he wanna change target, (for Arte) she'll just tink the guy just trying to catch fish.
Ok nuff bt those.... Bt today.
Was early in mtg the Rowena, Hk & A Hai... ended up goin to the temple. To Arte's surprise, she realise today is Vesak Day (& she totally 4got bt it over the nite...) So coincidental. (Rem last yr when she was in china the same thing happened... She hap to go to the temple where they normally needed entrance fee. But tat day the fee was free (tink she n buddism really got 缘... Ops*)
Aft goin to temple, Arte still had time so she went window shopped a bit. ended at the F-shop. Picked 3 pieces 2 tops, 1 skirt. tried it on. OMG LUV IT SO!!!! but too bad nv buy coz no $$... Sobz*
Aft tat was the mtg with Row, HK & Hai. HK was late. 1st thing he reached, everyone ask whether the rumor bt his 1st bb issue is true not. Whahahahah~ rumors can be so decieving. Anyway, Lunch was at Sakae. HK's treat coz he kanna promoted to manager~~~ Saved $$ Whahahaha
Aft tat was a free trip to TPY for Hai & Arte fr nice HK while Row cont to wait for her rmie at bugis. Arte settle some stuff & headed home. =p
Aret rem last time her sup face black black... Now realise that a bk cant be judged by its cover... Her sup is actually quite nice last time still will make her sit down to teach her thing fr the start... Now tink tink mayb its coz Arte is not very approachable ba =p
Thursday,May 31 2007, 01:36:56 AMAwake!
Cant believe it! Arte slept fr 7 plus last nite till 945am. A full 12 hours (ops meant 13 or mayb 14...)... really sounds like a piggy~~~ Oink oink* Ops!
Aft yesterday's chatt session journ, Arte hopped onto bed to watch tv. Less than 15 mins, she drifted to dreamland...
Been feeling that there's no nice shows on tb liao (coz Arte's already know then ending of the current drama's that shes aft...) Bored bored....
Plans for today. Only lunch with the Sh colleagues whos back in sg... Aft tat most prob is home. What a boring Thursday....
Mayb there'll be another update when Arte's back fr lunch to quench her boredom... =p
Wednesday,May 30 2007, 11:19:54 AMSwimming session & Lappi servicing
This is the 2nd time im writing this journ coz blur Arte gong gong go close wrong window... anyway back to events of the day.
Met Yee at TPY. Nice Seng picked us up to go to (dunno bedok or tampines) swimming pool. Met up with TK & Kimm. Swam till bt noon.
Lunch was at this jap place nearby.
Aft lunch, Seng dropped Yee, Kimm & Arte at tpy. The three cont to make their way to Funan at cityhall.
On the train, Kimm's "Wah" stunned Yee & Arte. They turned & lked at his direction & saw JX right behind Arte. JX's heading back to office aft mtg his client. Chat till Cityhall.
Met up with Momo & GH at Funan. Yee & Arte sent their lappi for servicing followed by a short la teh session & a little walkign round to find Lan card & an "Apple" shop....
Every1 headed home aft tat so Arte too headed home... dropped by TPY to settle sth but pek chek coz the issue has yet to be settled.... Came home & suddenly recalled that daddy n Mama's at Bright Hill this nite so Arte cant get them to soon bian buy dinner... but then Arte's not exactly tat hungry so mayb its a gd thing coz they wun ask Arte what she wans fer din.
Face's a little red... gotta feeling that the scalp might have kanna-ed sunburn once again... Ohhhhh~~~~
Was talking to Fang. She says min tinks she lks a bit diff... Tink she kinda lk slimmer & prettier liao... Hmmm... Shows that she's well taken care of over there. =p
Tuesday,May 29 2007, 07:01:35 PMHome day.
Been home whole day...
Got some own things to settle b4 flying.
Nice Seng dropped by to pass Arte her PS2 b4 goin to mt fren in town. Arte really has very nice frens around.
Table's in a mess again (when i've just cleared it like last wk or so...). Managed to piece back my desktop. Didn really expect it to work coz it's left to collect dirt for more than a yr. Kinda tot it's dead aft failing to restart a few times.... Then suddenly there was a loud 'pop' & it started to run.... (a burnt smell drifted out fr the comp though) Anyway, as long as it works...
Selected some pics for developing... Somehow looking thru pics nv fails to make me notice that a lot of ppl have changed sicne I've known them...
saw Fang's blog... sth written for a gd fren of ours...
"nothing is always smooth in life, there is bound to have difficulities
for u to overcome.. instead of thinkin it is a difficulities, treat it
as a challenge for u to overcome.. coz once overcome, good things will
also come along the way to pamper u for all those hard works tat u hav
put in."
Arte's nv gd with words... Sometime there are things Arte wishes to say but she really dunno how to say it.... If only there's sth that allows transmission of feelings n tots without using words... Well, mayb there is.... ^_^
tatz bt all 3.21am. Time to go to bed.... Nite readers~
Monday,May 28 2007, 05:11:06 PMMovie movie
Had a packed day ^_^
Was late in mtg Qy fer lunch at raffles place. Took quite some time finding china sq food court...
Aft lunch was heading down to vivo to mt cy, e 3 musketeers, momo & jie. Was supposed to meet at 2 for Pirates of the carribean. Movie starts at 225. Ended up taking cab down n running thru the 2nd floor to the cinema like a siao char bo. Managed to reach exactly on time for the movie. Saw GH & this gurl (tink shes called si ying) there. the thing (dunno wat u call tat) b4 the movie was super long. Movie ended at bt 545.
The rest left for din while Arte cont to meet wit HS. Was feeling a little tired so didn shop, only sat at the seat n ppl-watched...
Met HS bt 645. Got tics for Next. Shopped round a bit. Didn realise the maternity shop sells so many cute stuff... Arte wants the big red strawberry!!!! ARGH!!!! Aft tat was dinner at BK and went to top lvl to enjoy the senery n chatted (Arte even tot the merlion was a clock tower wahahahah). According to HS, theres fireworks there everyday aft 7. Arte oso wan to see!!!!Chat till bt 915.... & proceeded for movie.
Show ended. Took 131 back... Bus was so super wols... Road no car oso move like snail... esp when its reaching the terminal. Faintz*
Just finished watching the last episode of Venus & Mars~ Touching~~~
The 14 bucks today was well spent. Pirates of Carribean was very funny & the last part with showing the back of orlando & the gurl at the beach was kinda lomantic (but then again, this is sth that is a rather predictable...) Next's cool. It's kinda unpredictable... Then theres this part which the guy made paper flower for the female actress then it flamed n turned into real flower was so cool. Wah if got guy thats so full of surprised then gd liao~!~!~! =p
Argh~!~! Arte wanna go you yong!!!! =S