Monday,Feb 7 2005, 05:16:29 AMMy father passed away on last thursday ......

My father passed away on last thursday ...     accident .... I was working in the hospital as an IT support assistant ever since 1st Feb, on my 3 rd day of work , I received a call from my mother, telling me my father met with an accident during his work. He was sent to the hospital I was working in , initially , I had thought of it as a minor injury. When I went down to the A & E department, one of the senior technician

asked me to lead the way for him,and hence I returned to the office , which in turn caused me to lost even a last chance to speak to my father. When I returned to the A & E dept , everyone from my family was there, we were told by the work site manager that my father had just injured his leg which was not true at all. We waited calmly until the nurse came out and told us , my father might not make it, his pelvic bone was badly fractured, causing excessive internal bleeding. All at once, sadness and panic fills our heart, we were too shock, tears were flowing down our faces.

We were told his heartbeat has stopped for 30 mins before they manage to get it back, even if they manage to save him , he will be paralysed. We waited for another 1 hour, then we were told to proceed to ICU, which whereby one bloody nurse or doctor came out and ask if we wanted to give up as his heartbeat has stopped again, of course we want them to try their best to save him but 2 mins later she came and told us we can go in to take a last look at him, he's gone.

We went in, his body was all cold, come to think of it, he slogged and toil to earn money for our daily expenses, he was a very humourous person until recently, he seems very depressed, he seems to know his end is near, I recalled him telling me alone that he will be leaving us soon, at that time I do not know what it means.

Even till now, we can't accept the truth but we just have to live on, with the pain of losing someone so close to us, it's real heart wrenching pain, so everyone out there , treasure your family, no matter what bad stuffs they did, if possible , discuss and forgive, cause no one knows what is going to happen and when it's going to happen , LIFE IS SHORT .

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Friday,Jan 21 2005, 12:53:47 AMTimes are getting more difficult to pass ....

Times are getting more difficult to pass . Here I am trying my best to apply for whatever admin or other coordination job , and every night I have to face my father lamenting that I have been jobless for too long. I guess with the skin allergy and asthmatic problem , I am out of the technical industry , almost all that I have applied requires wearing those cleanroom suit and contact with chemicals. How I wish that I can get into a new trade , but times are bad , there's an interview on Monday for a IT temp job again , I will take it , this is just an ...

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Tuesday,Dec 21 2004, 05:41:19 AMI have been relocated to a workplace that's...

I have been relocated to a workplace that's too far from my home and since I can't make it on time and there's no possibility to request fro transfer, there's no point staying on the technical assistant job , I tendered my resignation ...

Ever since the first week of november , I have been job hunting again , managed to get a IT technician job near my house. Initally I was very happy , but eventually when I discovered that the boss was not going to pay us at all for OT and we are required to worked OT everyday , I tried to reason it out with the boss ...

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