In a fantasy we hide what we need. We imagine what would nuture us, excite, and make us feel good. we fantasize to compensate for what we missing in our life. Fantasies do not satisfy....because we do not have to change. If we have fantasies we need not change. they give us relief...but the real relief is is about giving and recieving our needs.
I only escaped from one illusion to another. I refuse to escape to another.