Journals
Friday,Apr 27 2007, 06:11:58 PMI LOVE THEE,I LOVE THEE NOT!
I LOVE THEE NOT!
Marriage is between two people,
two cultures,
two families,
two backgrounds,
two languages,
two kinds of food,
two thoughts,
two actions,
two core beliefs,
two different worlds!
I am sure you all can understand
what I am trying to say,right?
LOL.
Below are three stories
about
MARRIAGES.
There will be more to come
as the BLOGGER is now
very much into the subject
matter as she is deeply in love
FOR THE FIRST TIME
in
HER ENTIRE LIFE!
YES, ME!Lmao.
I am just doing my proper
research and development
so as to make a wise choice,
without being too emotional,
with both my four pair of eyes
wide open
(I am very short sighted!)
with ALLAH S.W.T's
UNCONDITIONAL LOVE
AND
WISDOM.
AMEEN.
Marriage is the greatest gift
given to mankind,
EVER WONDER WHY
we kept on making mistakes?
Could it be because,
we all do not truly understand
or maybe do not care to understand
HOW TO MAKE THE MARRIAGE
WORKS......
My grandmother used to tell me that
MARRIAGE IS SUCH A SIMPLE MATTER,
WITH LOVE,
NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE.
With 10 children,she sure had a valid point.
Let us try to understand
WHAT ACTUALLY WENT WRONG
as
BEHIND ALL JOKES,
THERE IS A DEEP MESSAGE,
DON'T JUST READ,
THINK!
Always,
~*~ShAkirA~*~
~***~**~***~
MARRIAGE WITHOUT ANY PREJUDICE
All about MARRIAGE without any prejudice
Man: Is there any way for long life?
Dr: Get married.
Man: Will it help?
Dr: No, but the thought of long life will never come.
Why do couples hold hands during their wedding?
It's a formality just like two boxers shaking hands
before the fight begins!
Wife: Darling today is our anniversary,
what should we do?
Husband: Let us stand in silence for 2 minutes.
It's funny when people discuss
Love Marriage vs Arranged.
It's like asking someone, if suicide is better or
being murdered.
Aadmi shaadi kyon karta hai?
Takee vo marne ke baad agar
Swarg jaye to achcha feel kare
aur agar Nark jaye to homely feel kare...
Why do Bride & Groom exchange
varmaala during wedding ?
To tell each other affectionately. ..
Sweetheart U R Dead!
There is only one perfect child in the world
and every mother has it.
There is only one perfect wife in the world
and every neighbor has it.
NO RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT EXPECTATION
Having expectations in our culture is expected.
We are brought up that way.
Having great expectations sounds great
however when the expectation is unfulfilled,
we b***h, we moan, we become disappointed.
That is a problem for most people.
For example, if I expect you to love me a certain way
and your love doesn't show up that way for me,
I will most likely be disappointed.
A better way might be to strive to get the need
of being loved fulfilled by allowing your love partner
to love you the way they love you.
Your need to be loved a certain way
is not a healthy need, it is only and always
an unrealistic expectation.
Another disappointing thing about expectations
is that they often do not come true.
One love partner knows the expectation.
The other love partner doesn't know
the expectation of the other.
Expectations are in the eye of the beholder.
Can you see the problem?
Needs must be communicated.
Expectations are rarely ever communicated.
Needs can be cussed and discussed.
You must give careful thought to what needs
must be fulfilled for you to know you have
a healthy love relationship.
"Expect the best," is certainly a better attitude
than the alternative.
Some say, "If you always expect the best
for your relationship, everything will work out better."
This is a myth.
It will work out the way it works out
and you will be disappointed because
it didn't work out the way you expected it to.
You don't always get what you expect.
We often expect our love partner to make
the best choices for themselves and our relationship
and when they are not our choices,
we often get angry or disappointed. . . or both.
Most people call this situation a problem:
a problem we create by our expectations.
Try this: "No expectations, fewer disappointments!"
It's that simple. Not easy. Simple.
By considering a new point of view,
by changing our thinking about expectations,
we open ourselves up to whatever good the 'us'
of the committed you and me may be working
on together at the time.
Since we are detached from the way things
need to work out, we may be surprised by the result.
Even when we imagine the very best,
we are often surprised, because if there were
shades of doubt present in our imaginings,
things may turn out better than we imagined. . . or worse.
Once we learn to identify our own individual,
healthy needs, we must also learn not to be
attached to the expectation of how those needs get fulfilled.
This will always generate lots of surprises.
That is when the adventure begins;
the adventure the heart was crying for.
Surprises create a sense of adventure;
surprises you can enjoy together;
surprises that create new and exciting
possibilities for the two of you to experience.
Some of the surprises may show up as
challenges for the relationship.
They bring couples together and give
them something to share.
When two people really love each other
and are committed to work together,
those kind of surprises create the kind
of conversation that empowers both
love partners to continue to self-inquire,
to investigate their curiosities about what
they can do to stand together,
to be challenged by the surprise
and know that everything is going to be okay.
Problems are not to break us.
Working together on problems makes us strong.
While there is something to be said about
"expecting the best," we must remember that
disappointment comes from unfulfilled expectations.
This does not mean that when your
expectations do not get met,
that the results are always bad.
It only means that if your expectations don't get met.
Disappointment usually follows.
By thinking in terms of needs instead of expectations,
we create vulnerability.
Having needs with no expectations about how they
will be fulfilled causes us to feel vulnerable.
We have more to lose because now
we know what we want. The outcome is less predictable.
There is some risk involved. And we have a responsibility
for getting our needs met.
Never give yourself away in the relationship.
By "give yourself away," I mean making sacrifices
that conflict with what you need from the relationship.
Never sacrifice your own personal integrity
with regard to getting your needs met.
The healthier image you have of yourself,
the less likely this will occur.
There is a difference between duty and responsibility.
When duty does not meet our needs,
it is something to be avoided.
For example, if there are children in the relationship
you have a responsibility to take care of them.
When it feels like duty, you have a responsibility
to take care of your need to not have it feel like duty.
We all experience the need to have healthy choices
exercised and when they don't show up in
our relationship, we either choose to have
conversations about them or not.
If the choices are abusive and therefore unacceptable,
we begin to think about making a responsible choice
to leave the relationship.
However, always picking our lover apart because
their choices are not the ones we would make can
only point the relationship in the wrong direction.
If we could accept the notion that everyone is doing
the best they can, regardless of whether their choices
are our choices, our attitude about our relationship
would improve and perhaps the relationship we have
would become the relationship we enjoy being in.
We must learn to distinguish between
expectations and needs.
Everyone has a need to be loved, to be understood,
to be accepted and to be forgiven when necessary.
For us to have expectations about how those needs
get fulfilled can only cause disappointment.
The number one problem in relationships is
undelivered communication.
It's the things we don't communicate because
the last time we did, it caused a confrontation,
argument, anger, frustration and we want to avoid
these feelings so we stuff them.
The next thing you know is, your partner didn't take
out the garbage and you want a divorce and
it's not about the garbage.
In my opinion, the number two problem in relationships
revolves around unfulfilled expectations.
So, how do you sidestep the disappointment
that always comes from unfulfilled expectations?
Who wins the "expectations versus needs" dilemma?
Needs, of course!
You focus on your needs and make a commitment
to never have any undelivered communication
about them. Talk about what you need with your partner.
Express your needs with love.
Unfulfilled expectations always cause problems.
We often call things that happen that cause
disappointment, problems.
To avoid disappointment or problems. . . as best you can,
have no expectations, good or bad.
When you have expectations there are never
any surprises because the outcome is almost
always predictable.
Disappointment follows unfulfilled expectations.
The predicaments that follow are predictable.
If your relationship is not full of surprises,
it is most likely very boring and may border
on being unhealthy.
Having healthy needs is a natural and
creative attitude to embrace.
It is important to allow your love partner the freedom
to fulfill your needs in their own best way.
What you can be with in life lets you be!
When you know what you need from your relationship
and can express those needs to your partner
and be okay with allowing them to love you the way
they can love you, you will see a shift in your relationship
that goes far beyond what you ever could have imagined
PERFECT MARRIAGE
1. Two times a week, we go to a nice restaurant,
have a little beverage, good food and companionship.
She goes on Tuesdays, I go on Fridays.
2. We also sleep in separate beds.
Hers is in California and mine is in Texas .
3. I take my wife everywhere.. ...
but she keeps finding her way back.
4. I asked my wife where she wanted
to go for our anniversary.
"Somewhere I haven't been in a long time!" she said.
So I suggested the kitchen.
5. We always hold hands. If I let go, she shops.
6. She has an electric blender, electric toaster
and electric bread maker.
She said "There are too many gadgets
and no place to sit down!" .. So I bought her an electric chair.
7. My wife told me the car wasn't running well
because there was water in the carburetor.
I asked where the car was;
she told me "In the lake."
8. She got a mud pack and looked great for two days.
Then the mud fell off.
9. She ran after the garbage truck,
yelling "Am I too late for the garbage?"
.... The driver said "No, jump in!"
10. Remember: Marriage is the number one cause of divorce.
11. I married Miss Right. I just didn't know her
first name was Always.
12. I haven't spoken to my wife in 18 months.
I don't like to interrupt her.
13. The last fight was my fault though.!
My wife asked "What's on the TV?"I said "Dust!"
Friday,Apr 27 2007, 06:09:20 PMSAND AND STONE
SAND AND STONE
I do not know whether it is the sand
or something that got
into my eyes as I am crying
like a baby
when I read the story below.
In our lives, we encounter
a lot of challenges.
Some are just very simple ones,
some are nothing to begin with
but some can take away
a person's whole life time
of pure and honest living.
All most of us want to do is just
to survive in this world
without wanting to be bothered
or a burden to anyone.
However,somehow,somewhat,
just overnight, with just one action,
one word, a series of actions or words ,
can turn your whole whole
upside down and inside out.
You wonder,what went wrong.
What actually happened or even
how it happened.
Most of the time, most of us
in this category will think,
"It must be something that
I have done to get this
PUNISHMENT from GOD".
Ironically,we will truly,
whole heartedly believe in it
and just accept our faith
and make the best of it.
Life is very SIMPLE hence,
WHY COMPLICATE THINGS?
Do you think that EVERYONE
who is looking good is
truly feeling good?
Do you have time to ask?
Dare you ask?
NO, it is very rude and
unbecoming of one
to ask a stranger or anyone
such a personal question.
Do you think that by
saying the truth,
whole truth and nothing
but the truth
is truly uphold by everyone,
especially the court?
The enforcements OR authorities?
When things go WRONG,
we will first turn to our love ones,
our family or spouse,correct?
What if the ones who hurt you
and do things which are
irreversible are either
your family or your spouse?
Aren't they suppose to be
your best of all best friends?
Family support is very much
taken for granted and
very much over rated.
As for spouse,ever heard
of the saying that
"The WAR really begins
the day YOU GET DIVORCED?"
Just imagine that everyone
who are closest to you,
betray you and leave you to die,
can we really count on our friends?
People who we barely know,
whom we are too polite
to tell them our problems
and risk our self dignity,
which is probably
the only thing left in you?
I have my shares of too many
of these sort of situations.
Honestly, at the end of the day,
there are really very few decent
people left in this whole wide world.
I am blessed with aplenty,
I have a few great friends,
I have no family members
who care about me,
whom I have accepted
long ago is my life path and
crying is not going to change
that SIMPLE FACT,will it?
I am blessed with a late father
who brought me up with
much love and wisdom ,
taught me a lot since I can crawl,
trying to protect me against the evil
in the family and outside world.
When he passed away, again,
I was left all alone
with all kinds of mess
which I have to deal with
as my late father has
never ever taught me
how to say "NO"
or
even how to 'LOVE MYSELF".
Saying "NO" and learning to
"LOVE MYSELF" save me f
rom this insane world.
I am very close to GOD,
I feel HIS LOVE and
PRESENCE all the time,
when I am down and almost
going "out of my mind"
I will hold fast to the fact that
"I HAVE BEEN A GOOD PERSON"
"I HAVE BEEN A GOOD DAUGHTER"
"I HAVE BEEN A GOOD FRIEND"
"I HAVE BEEN A GOOD WIFE"
"I HAVE BEEN A GOOD MOTHER"
"I HAVE BEEN A GOOD NEIGHBOUR"
I have been all that because
I know that only GOD'S LOVE
is MOST CRUCIAL to me
as my simple presence i
n this world is BECAUSE OF HIM
and HE IS ALL KNOWING.
"IT TAKES A LOT OF LOVE
TO FORGIVE,
AND
A LOT OF STRENGTH
TO FORGET"
If only LIFE is as simple
as the story below
and friends can be THAT reliable.
I am so bless as I am still able
to write these notes and post this up
and of course, I have my good friend,
Mike K to thank for this good email.
I am so bless as I still have a lot of
people who care about me,
who truly love me in their own ways.
GOD, who LOVE
US ALL UNCONDITIONALLY,
has finally answered my prayer
as now I have found
much inner strength
and love in my best friend
and soul mate,
DIDI.
GOD TAKES CARE OF THOSE WHO
TAKES CARE OF OTHERS
BESIDES THEMSELVES
AND
HE IS ALL KNOWING AND LOVING.
HE IS THE ONLY ONE
WHOM YOU CAN FULLY RELY ON
AS HE IS OUR CREATOR.
AMEN.
SYUKRON ALHAMDULILLAH,
MAY WE ALL LIVE A BETTER LIFE
WITH HIS ENDLESS LOVE
AND BLESSINGS.
AMEEN.
YA RABBIL ALA MEEN.
Always,
~*~ShAkirA~
~***~**~***~
TWO FRIENDS WERE WALKING
THROUGH THE DESERT.
DURING SOME POINT OF THE
JOURNEY, THEY HAD AN
ARGUMENT; AND ONE FRIEND
SLAPPED THE OTHER ONE
IN THE FACE.
THE ONE WHO GOT SLAPPED
WAS HURT, BUT WITHOUT
SAYING ANYTHING,
WROTE IN THE SAND:
TODAY MY BEST FRIEND
SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE.
THEY KEPT ON WALKING,
UNTIL THEY FOUND AN OASIS,
WHERE THEY DECIDED
TO TAKE A BATH
THE ONE WHO HAD BEEN
SLAPPED GOT STUCK IN THE
MIRE ! AND STARTED DROWNING,
BUT THE FRIEND SAVED HIM.
AFTER HE RECOVERED FROM
THE NEAR DROWNING,
HE WROTE ON A STONE:
'TODAY MY BEST FRIEND
SAVED MY LIFE '.
THE FRIEND WHO HAD SLAPPED
AND SAVED HIS BEST FRIEND
ASKED HIM, 'AFTER I HURT YOU,
YOU WROTE IN THE SAND AND NOW,
YOU WRITE ON A STONE, WHY?'
THE FRIEND REPLIED
'WHEN SOMEONE HURTS US
WE SHOULD WRITE IT DOWN
IN SAND, WHERE WINDS OF
FORGIVENESS CAN ERASE IT AWAY.
BUT, WHEN SOMEONE DOES
SOMETHING GOOD FOR US,
WE MUST ENGRAVE IT IN STONE
WHERE NO WIND
CAN EVER ERASE IT.'
LEARN TO WRITE
YOUR HURTS IN
THE SAND AND TO
CARVE YOUR
BENEFITS IN STONE.
THEY SAY IT TAKES A
MINUTE TO FIND A SPECIAL
PERSON, AN HOUR TO
APPRECIATE THEM, A DAY
TO LOVE THEM, BUT THEN
AN ENTIRE LIFE
TO FORGET THEM.
SEND THIS TO
THE PEOPLE YOU'LL NEVER
FORGET.
I JUST DID.
IF YOU DON'T
SEND IT TO ANYONE,
IT MEANS YOU'RE IN A
HURRY AND THAT YOU'VE
FORGOTTEN YOUR FRIENDS.
TAKE THE TIME TO LIVE!
DO NOT VALUE THE THINGS
YOU HAVE IN YOUR LIFE, BUT VALUE
WHO YOU HAVE IN YOUR LIFE !
AND IF I HAPPEN TO GET IT BACK,
THEN I KNOW MY PLACE IN YOUR LIFE
~***~**~***~
Friday,Apr 27 2007, 06:05:56 PMI AM SO THANKFUL!
BLESS IS THE ONE
WHO
IS THANKFUL.
Blessings come
in
many forms!
Below are two poems.
Entertaining with a doze
of reality.
Do enjoy reading them.
HAVE A GREAT DAY.
Always,
~*~ShAkirA~*~
~**~***~**~
STORY NO.1
I AM THANKFUL:
FOR THE WIFE WHO SAYS IT'S HOT DOGS
TONIGHT, BECAUSE SHE IS HOME WITH ME,
AND NOT OUT WITH SOMEONE ELSE
FOR THE HUSBAND WHO IS ON THE SOFA
BEING A COUCH POTATO, BECAUSE HE IS
HOME WITH ME AND NOT OUT AT THE BARS.
FOR THE TEENAGER WHO IS COMPLAINING
ABOUT DOING DISHES BECAUSE IT MEANS
SHE IS AT HOME, NOT ON THE STREETS.
FOR THE TAXES I PAY BECAUSE IT MEANS
I AM EMPLOYED .
FOR THE MESS TO CLEAN AFTER A PARTY
BECAUSE IT MEANS I HAVE BEEN
SURROUNDED BY FRIENDS.
FOR THE CLOTHES THAT FIT A LITTLE
TOO SNUG BECAUSE IT MEANS I HAVE
ENOUGH TO EAT.
FOR MY SHADOW THAT WATCHES ME
WORK BECAUSE IT MEANS I AM OUT
IN THE SUNSHINE
FOR A LAWN THAT NEEDS MOWING,
WINDOWS THAT NEED CLEANING,
AND GUTTERS THAT NEED FIXING
BECAUSE IT MEANS I HAVE A HOME .
FOR ALL THE COMPLAINING I HEAR
ABOUT THE GOVERNMENT BECAUSE
IT MEANS WE HAVE FREEDOM OF SPEECH. .
FOR THE PARKING SPOT I FIND
AT THE FAR END OF THE PARKING LOT
BECAUSE IT MEANS I AM CAPABLE OF
WALKING AND I HAVE BEEN BLESSED
WITH TRANSPORTATION .
FOR THE PILE OF LAUNDRY AND IRONING
BECAUSE IT MEANS I HAVE CLOTHES TO
WEAR.
FOR WEARINESS AND ACHING MUSCLES
AT THE END OF THE DAY BECAUSE IT MEANS
I HAVE BEEN CAPABLE OF WORKING HARD.
FOR THE ALARM THAT GOES OFF
IN THE EARLY MORNING HOURS
BECAUSE IT MEANS I AM ALIVE.
AND FINALLY, FOR TOO MUCH E-MAIL
BECAUSE IT MEANS I HAVE FRIENDS
WHO ARE THINKING OF ME.
SEND THIS TO SOMEONE YOU CARE ABOUT.
I JUST DID VIA THIS BLOG!
STORY NO.2
My friend,
An elderly Chinese woman
had two large pots,
each hung on the ends of a
pole which she carried across her neck.
One of the pots had a crack in it while
the other pot was perfect and
always delivered a full portion of water.
At the end of the long walks from
the stream to the house, the cracked
pot arrived only half full.
For a full two years this went on daily,
with the woman bringing home
only one and a half pots of water.
Of course, the perfect pot was proud
of its accomplishments.
But the poor cracked pot was ashamed
of its own imperfection, and
miserable that it could only do half of
what it had been made to do.
After two years of what it perceived
to be bitter failure, it spoke to
the woman one day by the stream.
"I am ashamed of myself, because
this crack in my side causes water to
leak out all the way back to your house."
The old woman smiled, "Did you notice
that there are flowers on your
side of the path, but not on the other pot's side?"
"That's because I have always known
about your flaw, so I planted flower
seeds on your side of the path, and
every day while we walk back, you
water them."
"For two years I have been able to pick
these beautiful flowers to
decorate the table.
Without you being just the way you are,
there would not be this beauty
to grace the house."
Each of us has our own unique flaw.
But it's the cracks and flaws we
each have that make our lives together
so very interesting and rewarding.
You've just got to take each person
for what they are and look for the
good in them.
SO, to all of my crackpot friends,
have a great day and remember to
smell the flowers on your side of the path!
Thursday,Apr 19 2007, 03:57:12 PMI LOVE YOU SO MUCH!
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH
~***~***~***~
I am SO BLESS to have you as
my husband for you are TRULY
my BETTER HALF.
How I have survive for so long must
be BECAUSE OF YOU..
and I am so
happy that FINALLY ,
ALLAH S.W.T
decides that I DO
DESERVE TO MEET YOU and
with HIS LOVING BLESSINGS,
we are now COMPLETE
as HUSBAND and WIFE.
AMEN.
Just
want to share these
wonderful words with you
and
to let you know just
how much
I DO REALLY
WHOLESOMELY LOVE YOU,
NOW &FOREVER MORE.
LOVE IS NOT A UNION MERELY BETWEEN TWO CREATURES-
IT IS A UNION BETWEEN TWO SPIRITS
by Federick W.Robertson
MARRIAGE IS A SERIOUS BUSINESS
BUT
LOVE TURNS THE GREY OF LIFE
TO GOLD
by Mariam Osborne
SHE THAT IS LOVED IS SAFE,
AND
HE THAT LOVES IS JOYFUL.
by Bishop Jeremy Taylor
A HAPPY MARRIAGE IS
THE BEST THING
LIFE HAS TO OFFER.
IT IS BUILT UP
BRICK BY BRICK
OVER THE YEARS
AND
CEMENTED AS MUCH BY
THE MOMENTS OF TENDERNESS
AS THOSE OF IRRITATION.
by Jilly Copper
WHAT A HAPPY AND HOLY FASHION
IT IS THAT THOSE WHO LOVE ONE ANOTHER
SHOULD REST ON THE SAME PILLOW.
by Nathaniel Hawthorne
COME WHAT MAY,
AS LONG AS YOU LIVE,
IT IS DAY.
AND IF I IN THE WORLD
MUST ROAM,
WHEREVER YOU ARE
THAT IS HOME.
WHEN YOUR LOVING VOICE I HEAR,
THE FUTURE'S SHADOWS DISAPPEAR.
by Theodor Storm
I who will always love you,
in the best and worst of times,
no matter what,come what may.
Amen.
by Shakira ChoongKwok
ALL MY LOVE,KISSES, HUGS & MORE ALWAYS,
Your wifey
~***~***~***~
Tuesday,Apr 17 2007, 09:09:11 PMDedicated to LOVE
AN IMPORTANT NOTE:
THIS WAS WRITTEN BEFORE I GOT MARRIED IN MARCH THIS YEAR. YES, I AM NOW A VERY HAPPILY MARRIED WOMAN.I LOVE YOU SO MUCH ALWAYS,DARLING A! YOURS ONLY,YOUR WIFEY
~***~***~
DEDICATED TO ALL THOSE WHO ARE IN LOVE,
GOING TO BE IN LOVE,
ALL OUT OF LOVE
(TRUST ME, OXYGEN IS MOST IMPORTANT! SO, KEEP ON BREATING!!!!),
and so the never ending story.....
I think I am OVERDOSE with LOVE!!!
Most
of all......
to both my assistants and lovely daughters, JASMINE & AMIRAH, who have been most patience and thanks for helping me as I am not that good at this yet......
love all you guys most and much as I love you, PLEASE DO GET MARRIED......
WE ALL DESERVE THE BEST and with ALLAH S.W.T's LOVE&BLESSINGS & as we all DO LOVE ALLAH THE MOST.......
WITH ALLAH'S BLESSINGS (INSYA ALLAH).......
WE SHALL ALL FIND OUR YET TO BE FOUND LOVE!
ALLAH KNOWS BEST!
AMEEN.
WITHOUT YOU, WHO AM I?
LOVE
is a very powerful yet destructive if abuse. So.......this is just part
of a series of the UPS and DOWN of LOVE, I want to just share it with
all you wonderful people. I TRULY BELIEVE EVERYONE NEEDS TO BE LOVED
AND LOVE OTHERS....... THE ENDLESS CIRCLE OF LIVE &
LOVE ........yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhooooooooo!!!!!
tu tu tu!!!! NEVER GIVE UP ON LOVE BUT
DONT EVER MAKE IT AN OBSSESSION. Can you just imagine being loved
OBSSESSIVELY???????????? Wakakakakkakkakkka......LMAO. Lets just LOVE
in a MODERATE WAY. Just like
FIRE,if you LOVE TOO MUCH, YOU WILL SURELY GET BURNT!!!!!! ( someone
please call 911!!! ). Hope you guys have as much FUN reading this as I
have writing this..... hey,I am still just trying to write......just
learning ......BE KIND! Peace to all of you always
PLEASE
GRANT ME WHATEVER
The Wondrous and Power
of
LoOOOOooooVe3e3E3eE3E3
TO ALL MY POTENTIAL SOUL AND EQUAL HUSBAND TO BE,
Thank you for your curiousity but wonderful reply.
I am just TRYING to get back to writing.
Its not easy as I think I overdid it some years back and being semi retired and a mother with two wonderful crazy daughters, aged 12 and 14.
I am trying my best to reassure myself that
I can’t be doing much harm as compared to them, I drove my parents half
nuts! LOL
Please don’t ask me for more pictures as I love taking pictures and somehow along the way, I have allowed time and pleasing others to override my own interests….guess that’s what happened when I was trying so hard to keep my marriage intact as I have never really fail in anything I have done before.
Its tough when you think YOU CAN BEAT GOD !
I am not proud of it but it was meant to be and I know I am rediscovering myself and learning very hard to LOVE MYSELF.
Hence, LOVE is not just a four letter word for me.
It is my ultimate goal in this half of my
lifetime to find the one who I can fall in love with and be in love
with and vice versa til death do us apart.
However, I wont die for love as mine is an UNDYING LOVE. ( I am a hopeless cheeky person…..but don’t get me wrong, I am not into SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP and I am not here to play any games).
So, do pls delete me if you find me TOO HONEST (Honesty is my middle name,LOL).
I am here because of GOD (with much thanks to my parents too of course!) and only HE has the SOLE RIGHT to take me away, to return BACK to HIS side! Ameen.(in case you don’t understand what I am talking about , it is just another world for DYING, PASSING AWAY OR GONE TO A MUCH BETTER PLACE……).
Of course on the brighter side, YOU HAVE THE SOLE RIGHT TO YOUR OPINION too,dear.
Lets have a WIN-WIN situation here.
The world
really is not in need of any more SUPER HEROES!LMAO
Although, I had a few most unpleasant experiences of name callings…...lol ….from MEN WHO WILL DIE FOR LOVE!
This I PROMISE YOU…….I really don’t like confrontations and I am not PERFECT.
Just a simpleton who has been through a lot.
I am very POSITIVE and if you are not, I wont bother you
if you don’t bother me. FAIR????
BDW, I am talkative when I am nervous but I am a very good listener if you got the time.
I have my own therapists (my two “smart alex but honestly too blunt” daughters and nerdy me!LOL) but you can always DELETE me if you don’t like me.
DON’T NEED NO RUDE UNCALLED FOR REMARKS.cOOl???????
My friends and kids got me the whole gift ….from the picture taken to it being posted without me knowing.
They actually even help me choose you GUYS, LMAO!
All my computers are on line all the time……so, you could be saying some real XXX stuffs to my young gals who actually think you guys are nice!
All up to you.
I am here as I am and I am not here to be rated a 10 but the ratings and flowers are lovely.
Thank you sincerely.
On the brighter side, most of the ones who responded are nice enough and I thank them all for sharing themselves with me and I love the laughter too.
Rare gems and all my pleasure although it caused me some sleepless
nite. LOL (just for your information, the whole world hasn’t agreed to
share the same time zone yet!......WHAT A WONDERFUL WORLD!!!!!!)
Whatever you are doing and whomever you are, you are all special unique people.
Keep safe and take care.
Here are just some poems I like to share with you:
The Past are EXPERIENCES
The Present are EXPERIMENTS
The Future are EXPECTATIONS
Use your EXPERIENCES in your EXPERIMENTS to ACHIEVE your
EXPECTATIONS!
YESTERDAY it was YOU.......
TODAY it is YOU too.......
TOMORROW it will be YOU still....
MATES FOREVER............
Thats my PROMISE to YOU........
Hope you wake up EVERYDAY with
SUNLIGHT in your HEART......
SUCCESS in your PATH......
ALL ANSWERS to your PRAYERS....
and
THAT SMILE......
ALWAYS there in your eyes........
SOMEDAY when the pages of my life ends, I know that YOU'LL BE ONE of its MOST BEAUTIFUL CHAPTERS.....
IF I get to read it, I'll open it on the page that I met YOU,dear
(this
was actually a dedication to ME, a truly honest,humble,thoughtful and
such a romantic guy friend. These are the little things that MAKE MY
DAY!)
AN APPLE A DAY may keep the Handsome Dentist on CALL
A GOOD NITE SLEEP may ENHANCE the QUALITY of your LIFE,
BUT...
LOVELY MESSAGES will make YOU SMILE SILLY FOR SURE!!!
I really need to go .......I am dead tired!
LOTSA VIRTUAL HUGS AND KISSES.....
SHAKIRA