How to Be a Good Girlfriend


So, you've landed the guy of your dreams. Finding a great boyfriend is hard. Now that you've found him, make sure that you are a great girlfriend, so that you can make him happy and he can enjoy the relationship with you.


Steps





   1. Take it slow. Don't cook a three-course meal for the first date. Don't push him to call you his girlfriend after a couple dates. Don't start talking about marriage and children. Just allow the process to take its course and enjoy it!
   2. Be honest. While being honest to your mate is very important, to the point of being paramount, it is equally important that you be honest to yourself. And, yes, in a mature relationship, honesty is the best policy.
   3. Have a positive attitude. If everything you say around him is a criticism or an attack, he will not look forward to seeing you. However, you don't always have to agree with him just because he is your boyfriend. Tactfulness is a better strategy in mature relationships. No matter what, have a sense of humor. Have inside jokes together. Be spontaneous. Be happy.
   4. Communicate regularly. Do not talk his ear off. However, make sure that if you have any problems that will affect your mood, he is made aware of the reasons for your problems and mood, so that you do not appear to merely be a fickle and cranky creature.
   5. Make your desires, needs, and opinions known, even when they may conflict with his. Acting like you exist solely to please him will get you no respect and may even make him bored with your company. Showing that you are your own person with your own needs, desires, and approach to life will keep him interested in getting to know and understand you as a person.
   6. Be consistent. What exasperates men most in a relationship is having to go back and forth between moods, and having to tolerate irrationality.
   7. Be patient. Don't automatically think he didn't hear you when you said 'i love you.
   8. Take an interest in his interests. You don't have to act like you love football, but at least try to understand why he's such a fan. Take an interest in his disinterests, too. He might be disinterested in what you like, so at least try to understand why he is not interested and respect it.
   9. Buy him simple, unexpected gifts for no special reason once in a while. The thought is always appreciated and it makes the guy feel as if you really do care and love him. Some good gift ideas could be a new music CD he's been dying to get, a book or something else that he'll really like and will be surprised by. Guys like to be surprised with little gifts too.
  10. Make him something. A paper flower, an artsy heart, something creative that reflects your personality, so whenever he looks at it he'll think of you and smile.
  11. Let him live his life. If you feel entitled to all of his time and attention, learn how to not be an obsessive girlfriend. Remember that he doesn't need you for everything and that you are separate people as well as a couple. When he needs some space, don't take it personally.
  12. Remember to always be there when he needs a hug, or a kiss. Body contact is very important, and always warms up a relationship. But if he wants to do things you don't you absolutely have to tell him. If he cares about you, he will respect this!
  13. Don't ask about past relationship! That is a huge turn off. Guys don't want to get their past involved with their future (YOU!).
  14. Be yourself. play around with him and have fun!!


Tips


    * Remember, it's better to give than to receive. The major religions got this right, and for a good reason: mysteriously, you gain more in the long run by giving than by getting. While love isn't all you need, it's the most important thing.
    * Keep in mind: the road will be difficult and he won't ask directions. As in any healthy relationship, you will have your share of conflicts, some tiny, some big. Remember to be true to yourself, and try to abandon any significant selfishness. A relationship is a matter of team work and a symbiotic relationship, not a parasitic one where a party gives and the other one just takes without giving enough back.
    * Don't stop spending time with your girlfriends, they are necessary as to provide shoulders to cry on when you feel like your relationship is slipping away. If you and the boyfriend break up, they will still be there to say "We're here for you", so don't neglect them. Plus, spending some time apart will make him that much more glad to see you when you DO get together.
    * Dress sexy once in a while. Don't do this too often but surprise him now and then with a hot outfit, which you buy with your own money. Nothing pumps a man's ego more than knowing that he's got a pretty girl by his side.
    * If your boyfriend is acting Passive towards you when starting a new relationship (like not buying you stuff or not saying sweet things to you or not kissing you) it doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't love you. It most likely means he is shy and has never been in a relationship before and just doesn't know how to act. To solve this problem you can talk to him about acting that way, perhaps he's expecting you to take more initiative because you have had more experience with relationships than he has.
    * Avoid having a "one track" relationship in which the bond revolves around one thing. Keep your relationship strong by bringing variety and diversity into the relationship. Try different and new things together. Relationships are about having fun together, learning together and growing together.
    * Forgive him. Guys mess up a lot, it's just the way they are. Learn to forgive and forget, and that's when your relationship will truly blossom.
    * If he says he loves you more, argue over that! It's a simple way of flirting with him. It'll prove that you really do love him.


Warnings


    * Don't cheat,this will surely cause him to break it off with you,or in the least create major trust issues for the future.
    * If you ever feel like cheating, remember: when you're older and wiser, you won't be thinking about some one night stand with a random guy from a pub/club, you'll remember your sweet boyfriend who's always been there for you.
    * Also, don't cheat on him expecting that it will cause him to pay more attention to you. He'll just dump you.
    * If you have already cheated on your boyfriend, tell him before he finds out later from someone else.
    * Don't conduct "secret tests" on your boyfriend to see what he'll do. It's humiliating, disrespectful and unfair, and you wouldn't want him to do that to you.
    * It's fine to share things with your girlfriends when talking about him, but remember to be respectful of him by not sharing things that are embarrassing, confidential or rude. (Don't kiss and tell!) You can keep your girlfriends "updated" on how the relationship is going, but keep them from getting involved in your relationship, unless abuse or other dangerous activities are taking place (which are never your fault), in which case tell them everything.
    * Don't be clingy!
    * Jealousy is a very dangerous thing. Don't intentionally make him jealous. That will result with a lot of problems and difficulties within your relationship. Remember, that you need to avoid jealousy as well.oh and if he has girls that are his friends don't get jealous

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How to Act Silly With Your Boyfriend


Going nuts with your boyfriend is so fun!! Here's an interesting guide that might help you to show affection in nutty and immature ways.


Steps





   1. Take silly pictures together making dumb faces!
   2. Sit on the couch with your boyfriend. Make sure he's distracted by the TV or something.
   3. Cuddle up nice and snug and rest your head on his shoulder.
   4. After a few minutes, randomly start playing with his hand and start examining his nails obsessively, or kiss them while smiling all cutesy.
   5. Wrap your arms around him, and smile widely.
   6. Sink your teeth firmly into his shoulder and act like a crazed Chihuahua wrestling a large chew toy. Make growling sounds.
   7. Talk to him like he's your darling wittle sweetheart, and cover his face with smoochy kisses, especially on his cheeks.
   8. Nibble on his eyebrows, using moist lips only. Some guys find this extremely ticklish, and will squirm!!
   9. Find new ticklish spots!
  10. If you guys are on the floor, grab his leg(s) and attempt to drag him somewhere.
  11. Braid his hair, or try grooming it like a monkey!
  12. Feed him snacks by hand, or make him play catch!
  13. Pull his socks and shoes off, then start examining his feet. Tickle them! Just don't keel over from the smell.
  14. Act out a scene from a funny movie, without him expecting it.
  15. Massage his feet and use a girly scented lotion.
  16. Play with his leg hair if it's really long, and pretend to pull it out.
  17. Stare at his peach fuzz/moustache and touch it with one finger, repeatedly, saying, "Something's growing on your face...etc."
  18. Apply your makeup while sitting there, and then offer to draw little designs on his face with your eyeliner.
  19. Throw your arms around him and smile your cutest smile, and in your cutest voice, tell him how much you adore him, while adding a silly nickname.
  20. Pretend to pass out in his arms, and don't move until he gives you the kiss of life.
  21. When he gives you the kiss, surprise-attack him with your tongue and say, 'MMMMMMM!!!!" Add a joke at the end, when he's breathless.
  22. Wrestle him to the ground, copying one of those wrestlers on TV. (Do it playfully, not rough!)
  23. Talk in an French accent.
  24. Talk in any accent you want.
  25. Tickle the back of his neck very lightly. It will drive them nuts. Try using a feather if you have one.
  26. Nibble on his ears, it will make them crazy and want you more.


Tips

    * It's helpful to put on your cute behavior to show you're playful, and not 'getting any ideas'.
    * This works with easygoing guys, the kind that don't mind whatever stuff you do to them.
    * If he or you gets bored, quickly switch actions to drive him or yourself even more nuts.
    * You don't have to do all these at one time. Be as lovable as possible. The key is to not be annoying.
    * If he likes your behavior, give yourself a pat on the back!

Warnings

    * May contain suggestive themes. You decide where you want it to head, whether it's a moment on the sofa or a tickle fight.
    * Don't bite him too hard unless he's okay with it.
    * Might cause embarrassment if you two are not alone.
    * This could weird some guys out. If hes just looking at you strange, stop.

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How to Catch a Cheating Boyfriend


Some guys just can't keep their hands out of the cookie jar. Here is how to recognize if yours is one of them.


 Steps





How to salvage the relationship

   1. Realize that if it's gotten to the point that you seriously suspect he's cheating, your relationship is already on thin ice.
   2. Remember that honesty is the best policy. Talk about it. Don't try and catch him secretly. Just ask him up front. If he won't tell you the truth, then even catching him red-handed won't save your relationship. Ask him to explain his whereabouts or whatever else is troubling you. Don't take a simple yes or no answer.
   3. Remind him that you've entrusted him with your heart, and how much he means to you. Tell him how proud you are of him and your relationship - how strong and honest it is. If he gets uneasy or quiet, he might be hiding something, and the guilt will eventually push him to the edge.
   4. Tell him that you would never keep secrets from him, and mean it. Share with him a secret that you've kept from him; it might encourage him to admit any secrets he may be keeping, and will deepen your relationship.


Extreme measures


   1. If you're serious about catching him and you're willing to breach his privacy, consider the following:

    * Spy software or monitoring programs may catch him in the act and get real evidence.
    * Get the password to his myspace or facebook account. If he's cheating on you he's probably talking to the other girl on myspace without you knowing about it.
    * Check his mobile phone for text messages from other girls.

   1. Listen to what he says. If he begins to point out the negative aspects of your relationship, that could be a sign that he is becoming or has already become unfaithful. Watch for comments like "Something is missing".
   2. Observe his actions. If he seems nervous for no reason or on edge, the odds are that he has done something he shouldn't have. He also may seem disconnected from you, or less fun to be around.
   3. Listen to what other people say. If he cheated on you, the odds are that someone knows. Gossip can be a very untrustworthy source - don't base your next move on this alone.
   4. If you're really this insecure about your boyfriend and you can't trust him, perhaps consider that you aren't ready for a relationship. If he loves you and you love him, you can work through any difficulties and there's no need for spying or hacking into his myspace/facebook/aim/msn, etc.


Tips

    * Stay calm and collected throughout, even if you find out that he is cheating.
    * Remember that he was the one who blew it. Don't blame yourself for what he did.
    * Don't go after the girl who he cheated with. You can tell her off, but ultimately your boyfriend holds the moral responsibility. Don't resort to violence because that will just make you seem immature.
    * Has he accused you of cheating? Was it out of the blue and completely unrealistic? (This doesn't apply if you were being shady or acting suspiciously.) Sometimes he will accuse you of cheating because he's become paranoid from his actions and is projecting.
    * If he is being suspicious and seems to be hiding behaviors you may just want to consider breaking things off. Even if he isn't cheating he clearly doesn't respect you.
    * Don't smother him or try to monopolize his time to limit the chance of him cheating, he might be more likely to cheat if you do this.
    * Never accuse him of cheating. If you do he could clean up their behavior or start covering up more carefully. You won't be able to catch him if you give him warning. Just be observant.


Warnings

    * Don't make accusations until you gather the proper evidence.
    * Private investigators are expensive and probably not worth the money for non-marital relationship.
    * There is a risk if you follow him or invade his privacy. This may ruin the relationship even if he is not cheating.
    * If you are in a long term adult relationship and financial property is involved you should consider consulting an investigator.

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How to Keep a Boyfriend


When a guy breaks up with you, it can be heartbreaking, especially if you still really like him. Here are a few ways to make sure you stay together for as long as possible.


Steps

 

 

   1. Always be confident around him. Guys love girls who are confident in themselves.
   2. Cuddle. Bury yourself in him. Make his warmth your warmth.
   3. Take care of yourself. Don't do things that could compromise the way you look or feel.
   4. Take an interest in his friends. They may become your friends.
   5. Try having some deep conversations with him. If he is a deep thinker he will react well and find you more interesting instead of someone who always talks about the same shallow subjects.
   6. Communicate (talk) with him, be open with him, about anything and everything.
   7. Trust him in every way. Whether it's about cheating or confidentiality.
   8. Always be honest with him. Never ever lie to him or keep secrets from him.
   9. Support him through thick and thin. Just be there for him in any way you can.
  10. Respect him the way you wish to be respected. Don't hurt, abuse, or neglect him in any way.
  11. Make time for him.
  12. Have your own personal time, separate from him, when you pursue your own passions. Don't compromise this time or your time with friends for your boyfriend. It will show him that you are interesting and respect yourself.


Tips

    * Laugh a lot. But don't be fake. When you laugh, mean it
    * Be yourself. Don't change after you start going out. He asked you out for you, not the other girl.
    * Smile! Always be happy, otherwise he might think you're not happy to be with him.
    * Still flirt; don't give up just because you think you have him for good.
    * If you become friends with his friends, don't flirt or let them flirt with you. When a guy sees this, it makes him insecure and he worries if one of his friends is giving you dirt on him. Friends ( but not real good friends)of him will occasionally covet you and want you for their own. A guy will try to hide that he is angry at that friend, and it will cause complications in your relationship. If one of his friends has the hots for you, completely ignore them. The boyfriend is not mad at you, but the friend.


Warnings


    * Don't crowd him, and be paranoid, and constantly call. Let him call you.
    * Don't be whiny or needy.
    * Don't tell him you don't like his friends. He'll choose them over you.
    * Don't expect him to know what you're feeling. Express yourself.
 

 

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How to Support Your Boyfriend


Supporting your boyfriend is key in a relationship. Everyone wants to be supported and needs it at points in their life. Guys need girl support the most.


 Steps

   1. Make sure that you're there for them. Guys need our help, they go through things too. Make sure that when he has been through something stressful, you ask him first, don't be egotistic and wait for them to hint you to ask them.
   2. Be all eyes and ears. Guys want to know that you care. Don't fidget or switch the topic right away, let them know that you're going to listen to EVERYTHING they have to say. Pay attention to their body language. Men tend to keep some things underwrap. Paying attention to what he isn't saying can help you understand what he's trying to explain a lot better
   3. Give them some love after. Show that you're understanding and not give them attitude after. Hug them or kiss them and make sure they have some support, so they'll come to you again next time.
   4. Make your guy feel respected and let him know that you want the same in return.


Tips

    * If your guy is telling you something that is hard for them to say, or to re-live again, take their hand (though some men might not like this so make sure that you know that hes comfortable with you doing this)
    * Rephrase- repeat what they said in your own words and add, "Right?" (that can get annoying, but shaking your head works too)
    * Tell them that it's okay, and it happens, and we can get through this together.


Warnings

    * Don't let the guy take advantage of your support 24/7. If they're going to say something just to get your support, make sure there's a limit
    * there is always give and take in a relationship just make sure that it is semi equal
    * MAKE SURE YOU GET SUPPORT BACK!

How to Be the Most Romantic Boyfriend

Steps

   1. Send flowers to her office (For no reason at all!). Flowers anywhere are good!

   2. Put your arm around her waist when you walk; don't do the casual "arm around her shoulder". And hold her hand more often.

   3. Make love to her. Have music playing, lights dimmed, rose petals, and lingerie.

   4. Give her little gifts or surprises. Little things mean the most.

   5. Play with her hair, but don't be annoying.

   6. Put your arms around her waist when you are standing behind her.

   7. Sleep with her when you can.

   8. Don't just kiss her on the lips; Her cheeks, forehead, shoulders, neck, arms, stomach, and chin are great, too!

   9. Make eye contact with her as much as possible.

  10. Tell her she is beautiful, not hot.

  11. Plan a perfect "date". Something other than the cliche Dinner and movie.

  12. Tell her you love her (But only if you really do, Don't lie they hate liars). Write her love notes, too.

  13. Be sensitive to her needs.

  14. Make her feel special around her friends and other people.

  15. Make her birthday special.

  16. Plan something big for Valentine's Day.

  17. Make her feel like she is the most important thing in the world to you.. (at least once in a while or something.)

  18. Give her a massage for no reason at all and without her having to ask!

 
Tips

 

    * Don't be too serious. Girls love a guy with a sense of humor.
    * Remember little things she says in conversations with you and bring them up later. She'll be flattered that you would remember.

 

How to Get Your Girlfriend to Kiss or Hug You More Often

 
- Many men in relationships feel that their other half rarely makes romantic gestures. This can be very detrimental to their self esteem and happiness in the relationship. However, the problem has a very simple solution which can be mastered by anyone.


Steps

   1. Show her affection, when walking in the mall, hold her hand, or hold her hand in the movies. When you greet her, give her a kiss, show her you care about her. Snuggle next to her on the couch, with your arm around her, and your fingers playing with her hair. When you give affection, you will get it. Bend down and give her a soft kiss, and she will return it.
   2. Be lovable! Make her want to be around you. Have a good sense of humor, and do not complain to her about things that bother you. Discuss things that you both have in common. Become lovers, and show her you care!
   3. Wear a pleasant scent cologne or after shave, so she will enjoy having your cheeks next to each other. Many women find certain scents to be annoying, so check and see if she likes it first. Practice good hygiene, and wash your clothes.
   4. In order to receive affection, you must give it as well. Do not wait for her to do it first or it becomes a game. If you are not comfortable with each other, don't laugh at things, or don't enjoy walking hand in hand, then you will never get affection from her because she just will not care about you.
   5. Compliment her when she does something nice. Do not just be false in your words. Be honest and she will enjoy you more. Do not prepare a script of how to have her show you affection. Do not plan it. It is a normal act, that is displayed when one truly cares for the other. Just be yourself, be fun to be with, enjoy her company and show it in little ways.
   6. Bring her something special when you go to meet her. It doesn't have to be anything big, it could be a candy bar, or a funny card. Its a nice gesture to show that you are interested in her, and want to please her.

      
Tips

    * Show her affection, and she will return it.
    * If you are nervous about giving the first kiss, be ready for her too; if she leans in to kiss and you back away without knowing she's trying to kiss you, you look like a fool.
    * Make sure she is actually interested enough to go to that stage with you over something like the movies or cinemas. Some girls might see that as something to take slow and not to rush. Keep that in mind.
    * Comment on her lips/eyes/hair.
    * Try kissing her on the neck. Some girls will absolutely love it and will respond with affection. You can tell if she likes it because she will tilt her head to allow you better access or make a small sound in her throat. If she hunches her shoulders, cringes or moves away, she doesn't like it.

      

How to Buy Your Girlfriend the Perfect Gift


-Having trouble buying the perfect gift for your loved one? Well, not anymore! Read on and you'll see a happy face when she opens the box!

Steps

   1. Think about what she likes: jewelry, games (PS or even boardgames), clothes. Pay attention to what she does when you're together, what movies she says she wants to see, what kind of food she chooses to eat, what colors she tends to wear, what music she tends to listen to. This should give you an idea of her general tastes. If you don't have any idea of what she likes, try asking. But don't make it too obvious that you're asking because you want to buy it for her.
   2. Think about what she does in her spare time and if she has any hobbies you could get her something for. For example, if she's into drawing, you could get a very nice sketchbook and pencils from an art store, or a drawing tablet.
   3. Try to recall past conversations to see if she made any hints about presents or stuff she would like to buy.
   4. Get something practical that she could use while reflecting her own personal style, such as a handbag or a laptop case.
   5. Consult her friends or her mother. Usually a friend or parent has a really good sense of her tastes from knowing her a long time and would be more than happy to help.
   6. Go out and buy it; if you don't have enough money, buy it for her another time. Or just buy her something else she likes that is less money! It is the thought (and effort) that counts, generally more than the object it self. If she knows you tried your best, then she will still appreciate it.
   7. Sometimes, the simplest things work. Buy her a simple flower, and if you are close to where she lives, leave it on her step. Also leave a little note saying something like "Im thinking of you" or other nice things. Even if the girl doesnt like flowers, she will like that fact that you're thinking of her and think it's kind of romantic.


Tips


    * Pay attention! She's going to give subtle hints, so listen up.
    * Smile at your loved one while you give her the gift (women love this).
    * Gifts don't always have to be on a special occasion (like her birthday). You could give her a gift just because it's Tuesday! [Giving random gifts shows that you really care]
    * Jewelry is always a good idea [but it depends on the female in question, and also can be costly, depending on her tastes]. Not every gift of jewelry has to be platinum and diamonds. Listen and observe carefully. If you rarely see her wearing gold, or diamonds, they wouldn't be a good pick for her. Watch what colors she wears, and even submit to walking through the jewelry department of a store. The pieces she looks at the most are often the ones she finds appealing, and even if they are expensive, you can always try to find something similar. Be careful with trying this unless you know her well, or have someone else's opinion who knows her well. Stick with gifts you can afford. If you KNOW your girlfriend isn't that picky or shallow, then get her a little cute thumb ring or something simple yet pretty.
    * You might need a friend with you to pick out pretty things that she likes but make sure your girlfriend isn't in the same store or she'll think your cheating.
    * Locket + Chocolate = Perfect gift for almost any girl/occasion.

 
Warnings

    * Don't persistently ask your girlfriend what she likes. If she won't tell you, you will have to guess.
    * Avoid buying clothes, as she will analyze the possible meaning of the clothing. If you pick a size too big, she might think you think she is fat. And if you get it too small she will probably think you want her to lose weight to fit in to it.
    * Cash is never, ever a suitable gift.
    * Gift cards are generally frowned upon, as it shows (whether true or not) that you don't know her likes or dislikes very well.
    * Be careful with combined likes and dislikes, as well. If she loves penguins, but hates knick-knacks, try to avoid knick-knacks, even if they are penguins.
    * Never ever buy a cleaning item(i.e. vacuum, iron, etc.)
    * You CAN ask her family members for advice to what she likes because it doesn't matter if a girl finds out what she's going to get! Most non-shallow girls will appreciate that you took the time to find out!

 
Things You'll Need

 
    * Love
    * Money
    * Common sense
    * A Good buddy to help
    * Good judgment

      

      
How to Not Lose Your Girlfriend

 
-A bunch of little mistakes can lead to you losing the girl of your dreams. Here's how to avoid that.

 
Steps

 
   1. Try not to look at other girls, especially when she's around. Not only will she be unhappy with you, but you probably won't be getting much feedback from her for a while.
   2. Go out with her to dinner, the movies, shopping, whatever. Don't let other things stop you from showing affection, especially your friends. If your friends say anything about it, they are either jealous or they aren't your friends.
   3. Show affection Kisses don't have to be on the lips to prove you love her. They can go anywhere. Examples: cheek, forehead, hand, in sexy places like her neck, etc. Hugs make her feel safe and loved, kind of like a kiss would. Always hug and kiss her at the end of the day, or at the end of a date. Always!
   4. Give gifts that come from the heart and have meaning to her. Don't just go to the store, see something you think is cool, and get it for her. Also, you can make things -- Teddy bears, cards (with a gift), pictures of you together, anything that comes from the heart. Also, give her something that belongs to you. Highly recommended is one of your sweat shirts, and if you have one, a stuffed animal is even better and spray your cologne on it!!! (If you do this, whenever she even smells the stuffed animal she'll think of you.)
   5. Be honest! It's very bad to lie to your girl. Not only will you know (and if you love her enough you will feel guilty), but if she finds out, all hell will break loose. Little white lies are closer to the edge than usual because she likes to know everything.
   6. Find a song you both like and make it "your song". You don't have to look for one, but if you both hear a song that represents you, or you both particularly like, make it yours.
   7. Pay for everything you can unless she makes good money.
   8. Be with her as much as possible, and do whatever it takes to do this. Verbally say "I WANT to spend time with you" and possibly name a time and place to be together. It lets her know you care for her.
   9. Know everything about her. If she asks you to get her some candy, your question to her should be only "how much?" not "what kind? Adding to the above, Chocolate. Most girls love chocolate, especially when they are feeling down.
  10. Take care of her when she's sick. Bring a can of soup, a movie, and a big warm blanket and be with her. Don't just drop it off and leave. Make the soup, pop in the movie, and curl up with her under the blanket. Show her that you're not afraid of getting sick or that you're grossed out by it - comforting her is more important!
  11. Let her fall asleep in your arms, and be there when she wakes up.
  12. Tell her she's beautiful! "Hot" or "sexy" is not the same as beautiful. This is in the top five most important things to say to her along with "I love you", which is number one. Brag about her. If she finds out you brag about her, you're about to be loved to death. Even better if someone else tells her you do it, not you yourself.
  13. Say you're sorry when there's a problem. It will not solve the problem alone, you need to talk to solve it.
  14. Stick up for her- always! Always do this. Don't let people talk badly about her.
  15. Don't push her! NEVER try and push her into doing things she does not want to. Respect that if she doesn't want to do something, that it doesn't mean she doesn't care about you.
  16. Comfort her!! If she is down and some how you find out do not just blow it off!! Find her and give her a hug. Tell her she can talk to you about it.
  17. When she is upset about something, hold her, Talk soft and comforting in her ear, let her know she is safe.

 
Tips

    * Respect is very important for both of you.
    * Combine these and others to make a relationship last.
    * Don't have her just for when you get time real relationships are something to be cherished forever.
    * If a fight starts, be the one to stop it. Don't let it grow.
    * If your girlfriend hangs up on you during a fight, call her back, never leave her hanging, because 9 out of ten times she'll be waiting by the phone crying."
    * Both of you should have equal "power" in the relationship. If she wants a little more than you, let her have it anyway.
    * Girls have this thing where they all think they are fat, which is usually not true, but when she says "I'm fat." you never ever agree with her. Argue it. Don't fight about it, but let her know you don't think she is fat.
    * Do what she asks...it'll make her happy.
    * Always say "I love you" but only if you mean it completely. The worst thing to do is to say you love her just so she will quiet up. If you love her, let everyone know. Don't be shy. Literally scream it to the world.
    * Like (or try to like) her friends. You don't have to have close relationships with them, just like them.
    * NEVER try to pressure her for sex! If you want it while she doesn't, it'll push her away-fast. When she wants it, she will let you know.
    * IF she says she wants nothing for her birthday, don't believe her!! What she is really saying is "Surprise me! If you know me you know what to get me!"
    * Wrap your arms around her and kiss her on the forehead, it will make her feel safe.
    * Some people need space sometimes. Even if you are going out and want to spend every day with her, she might want some time alone with her girlfriends. It doesn't mean she likes you any less, but face it, you're just not a girl (and please don't try to be!). 
 

Warnings

 
    * Don't tell others her personal secrets.
    * The absolute worst thing to do is to get uncontrollably upset, especially in front of her. Tell her your feelings, then try to be her friend. This can really seriously help you even more than you think it will.
    * Don't ever ever ever ever slap, smack, hit, punch, kick, push, etc. her. Ever. If you do anything to physically hurt her and its not on accident, you don't deserve her and you need professional help.
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                o if she is mad at you say you're sorry!!! Even if you don't know what you did! Buy her some flowers, chocolate, and say your sorry.

 

 
How to Keep Your Girlfriend Happy

 
 - This is how to keep your girlfriend happy all the time


Steps

 

   1. The first rule to keeping your girlfriend happy is to always call back when she asks you to.
   2. Always get a small gift on every holiday. Not like Presidents Day but like Easter and Halloween. (just a Hershey bar is fine)
   3. Tell her secrets.
   4. Don't tell her about other unrelated girls.
   5. Don't lie to her EVER.
   6. If a friend is teasing her take her side or no side.
   7. Always show up for a party 20 min. early.
   8. Tell her how much you care about her often.
   9. Don't flirt, she will find out.
  10. Make her laugh,try at least every time you see her.
  11. One way to her heart is through her friends too, so try to make them happy.
  12. Take her out to eat and not let her pay for anything.
  13. Try to spend as much time with her as possible.
  14. Always tell her she is beautiful.
  15. Just be yourself.


Tips


    * Be sure to spend time alone with your girlfriend.
    * Listen to what she says, period!
    * Gifts don't need reasons to be given. Give her gifts on normal days. If you have no idea what gift to be given, send her a letter (begin with the least affection).
    * Do little things, she will be thankful for them; things like opening doors for her or pick up her pencil when it falls.