Saturday,Oct 30 2004, 09:49:51 PMA BIT THE (Contributed by Stella) A Singlish...

A BIT THE (Contributed by Stella) A Singlish phrase meaning 'very', always said in a clearly sarcastic tone. 1. " Wah, you a bit the late, hor!" 2. "Piang eh, your shirt a bit the short, man!" See also: Very The

ABOURIT Sloppy pronunciation of "about it". Aiyah, this kind of small thing, don' worrage abourit.

ACT (ADJECTIVE) BUAY (ADJECTIVE) To fail miserably at affecting a pose.?Substitute any adjective of your choice. See also: Act Cute Buay Cute Act Lian Buay Lian

ACT BLUR To play innocent I know you know who did it, so don抰 act blur! See also: Buat Bodoh Bedek Wayang N.A.T.O.

ACT CUTE (Contributed by Yong Kuan) A phrase which describes behaving in an exaggeratedly cute or adorable fashion. Can be used as both verb and adjective. Usually performed by females who appear they cannot escape their childhood. 1. "Eh, Ah Lian is always so act cute one! She trying to be smurf, is it?" 2. "Ah, ignore her, lah. She's just acting cute again."

ACT CUTE BUAY CUTE/A.C.B.C. (Contributed by Angus) Literally describes the common occurrence of a Singaporean girl trying to pander to a guy's wishes, but failing miserably. "Ee-yurr. I tell you, I damn buay tahan watching Ah Lien try to get Ah Beng to go kwa meenite with her. Damn ACBC one."

ACT LIAN BUAY LIAN, ACT BENG BUAY BENG/AI LIAN BUAY LIAN, AI BENG BUAY BENG (Contributed by Woogie) To fail at being an Ah Lian or Ah Beng, despite trying. "Wah lau, Johnson is damn condemn. Act Beng buay beng. Si beh hopeless." See also: Act Cute Buay Cute

ACTION (Contributed by Terry How) Arrogant and haughty. Basically the same as "Ya Ya' and "Dao". Also sometimes used to mean "full of hot air." "You don'ch talk so much, action only!" See also: Ya Ya Dao

ADOI A Malay exclamation of disgust or pain, similar to "alamak", but used to denote a lesser degree of exasperation. See also: Alamak

AGAIN? A much more economical way of saying, "I beg your pardon?" See also: Say Again?

AGAK TAREK (Contributed by Patrick Wong) A Malay phrase literally broken down as 'estimate' (agak) and 'pull' (tarek). It means to "hold back" or "be charitable" or "not to go too far". "Don't talk so bad about him. Agak tarek a bit and give him some face, lah."

AGAK-AGAK (ah-ga抙, ah-ga抙) Malay term meaning "to estimate". See also: Agaration

AGARATION (ah-gah-ray-shun) The noun form of the Malay verb "agak-agak", which means to estimate. "I arrived at the number through agaration." See also: Agak-Agak

AH BENG An unsophisticated Chinese boy, usually Hokkien. Stereotypically, he speaks gutter hokkien and likes neon-coloured clothes, spiky, moussed hair and accessories such as handphones or pagers, all of which are conspicuously displayed. He also likes to squat, even when a seat is available. "Wah lao eh, why you so chao ah beng one?" (Goodness, why are you such an ah beng?) See also: Ah Huay Ah Kow Ah Lian Ah Seng Beng Chao Ah Beng/Ah Lian

AH BENG AH SENG A group of Ah Bengs. "Why you go and make friend with those Ah Beng Ah Seng?" (Why are you associating with those Ah Bengs?) See also: Ah Beng

AH CHEK "Uncle", a generic name used to address an older man.

AH HUAY A pet-name which literally means, "Flower". Interchangeable with "Ah Lian".

AH KAH AH CHEW (Contributed by Jonathan Ng) (' kah ah' chew) Hokkien phrase literally meaning "duck legs, duck hands". Used to describe someone's extremely poor coordination. "Ah Kah" and "Ah Chew" can be used separately. 1. "Don't go and ask him to help you set up the stage. He's very the ah kah ah chew." 2. "Wah lau, like that also cannot score! The player is damn ah kah, one!"

AH KONG Hokkien for 揋randpa.?

AH KOW A pet-name which literally means, "dog." A generic name given to the sidekicks of the Ah Beng, as well as dogs. See also: Ah Beng Ah Beng Ah Seng

AH LIAN A pet-name which literally means, "lotus flower". The female equivalent of an Ah Beng - an unsophisticated Chinese girl. Stereotypically dresses in neon colours, wears a huge ribbon perched on the top of her head, and carries a tiny basket. See also: Ah Beng Ah Huay Chao Ah Beng/Ah Lian

AH LONG Hokkien for 搇oan shark? An illegal moneylender who imposes exorbitant interest rates and abbreviated payback periods, usually to make up for the borrower抯 complete lack of collateral.

AH MM (ah-umm) Generic name used to address an old woman.

AH NIA Hokkien for "Pretty, Beautiful". Term used to refer to a pretty girl. See also: Ah Huay Ah Lian

AH POOI Generic name given to a fat person. Ah Beng's sidekick. See also: Fatty Bom Bom

AH QUAH (ah-koo-ah) An offensive term for an effeminate man. The Singlish equivalent of 揻aggot?or 揻airy? See also: Pondan

AH SENG Ah Beng's sidekick. Also a generic pejorative term used to denote 'anybody'. As in "Tiu Lei Ah Seng", meaning "Fuck You". See also: Ah Beng

AH SOH Generic name used to address an older (though not necessarily old) lady. Sometimes used as a pejorative term for a sloppily-dressed woman. "Our CEO is damn powerful, but she always dress like Ah Soh one."

AH THEN?/ ARBO/ARBUTHEN (Contributed by trashkore) The Singlish equivalent for "of course" or "duh!". "Ah then?" is the sarcastic response given to blindingly obvious questions or statements. Somehow, it evolved into "arbuthen" sometime during the 1980's (possibly a deliberate mispronunciation of "Ah, but then?"), and has now become "arbo". 1. Ah Beng: "Eh, your void deck so clean and new, your constituency kena upgrading, ah?" Ah Seng: "Ah then?" 2. Ah Lian: "Wah, see you got wear so swee-swee... confirm you tonight go pak tor, lor!" (Judging by how prettily you're dressed, you must have a date tonight.) Ah Hway: "Arbuthen?" 3. Ali: "Eh, your exam finish oreddy, ah? I see you like very free lai dat." Ah Lee : "Arbo!"

AH TONG AH SENG Equivalent to the English phrase "Tom, Dick and Harry". Possibly of Cantonese origin. "Every Ah Tong Ah Seng also got handphone today."

AI PEE, AI CHEE, AI TUA LIAP NEE (Contributed by K. Ang) Teochew saying which literally translates as ' Want cheap, want pretty, want big breasts!' It is used to describe someone who wants the earth, ie. someone with unrealistic or unreasonable desires or expectations. 揝ingaporeans all very hard to please, one. They all ai pee, ai chee, ai tua liap nee.?/font>

AI SI Literally, "want to die". Courting disaster. "Ai si, ah?" (Do you want to die?) See also: Chuay Si

AI TZAI A Hokkien exhortation to calm down. 揟he exam is not counted one. Ai tzai!?(The exam results are not taken into account. Relax!) See also: Steady Tzai

AK KAH CHIEW JI (Contributed by Half-Cocked) Literally, to be as close to someone as two testicles. "Don'ch worry, I ak kah chiew ji with this feller. If I ask, he sure help?you one."

AK KAH LIAO/AK (ah-kah-leow) To be good and intimate friends with someone. 1. "Ah Beng and the boss are damn ah kah liao, so he sure can find you lobang one." 2. "I didn't know you and your CEO were so ak."

AKAN DATANG Malay for "coming soon". Seen in movie trailers and some advertisements, but less so nowadays. "Be more patient OK, akan datang"

AKASAI (Contributed by Shaun Mathew) A pejorative description of something or someone as extremely cutesy and girlish. Possibly a contraction of "act cute until like sai". (act cute until like shit) "Aiyoh, Priscilla wear the Hello Kitty hairclips, so akasai!"

ALAMAK Of uncertain provenance, a general Malay exclamation that has long been rumoured to mean "Allah's mother". This has not been confirmed, and in any case, the term has since become a common expression of dismay or incredulity. "Alamak! Why you go and do this sort of stupid thing?"

ALI BABA (Contributed by Jonathan Ng) To steal or cheat. 1. "You don' act blur, okay! I know you ali baba my fries when I went to the toilet!" 2. "Don't try and Ali Baba, okay! I saw you take another ace of spades out of your pocket!"

ALL FART AND NO SHIT Used to describe someone who's full of empty promises. "Ah, shaddup lah. Everyday say you wan' to treat me go lunch. You all fart and no shit only."

AMACAM (Contributed by Mat) (ah-much-ahm) A contraction of the Malay greeting, "Apa Macam" which is the Malay equivalent of "What's up?" or "What's happening?" "Eh, Ramli! Long time no see! Amacam?"

AN CHUA (ahn-choo-ah) Hokkien for "What's the matter?", "What's up?" or "How are things?" Heard very often as the first or second phrase used on a mobile phone. "Hallo? Ah Kow? An Chua?"

ANG MOR GAO (Contributed by Michael Witty) Hokkien for "red haired monkey", a reference to Caucasians. See also: Ang Mor Mat Salleh Orang Putih

ANG MOR/ANG MOR NANG Hokkien for 'red-hair'. A pejorative term used to describe Caucasians See also: Mat Salleh

ANG TAO CHULOOT (Contributed by revolushun) A graphic reference to the fully erect male member. The phallic shape of the cigar has not gone unnnoticed by Hokkien speaking Singaporeans. Probably originated from a bastardized pronounciation of the English word cheroot for cigar.

ANGKAT BOLA Malay term meaning to curry favour or be sycophantic. Literally, to "carry balls". See also: Sah Kah

ANONEH (Contributed by Ayam Goreng) (ah-nor-neh) A Japanese expression similar to "Well..." or "If that's the case...", in Singlish this has come to be a generic term for any Japanese girl. 1. "Wah lau, see that anoneh! Her dressing damn solid one." 2. "I got some char bor friends in Pasir Ris, they are all anoneh working for airline one."

APU NEH NEH (Contributed by lanmao) Childish and racist term for an Indian man. (To a child): " Don't go out by yourself , skarly the Apu neh-neh catch you then you know!"

ARGLY The correct pronunciation for "ugly". "Wah lan, check out Ah Beng's shirt. It's damn argly."

ARROW To delegate somebody to perform a task. Generally used only if the task is unpleasant or boring. Derives from the Army or civil service practice of stamping a tiny arrow next to the name of the person in official documents. "I don't know why I always kena arrow by the Inche to wash the jamban."

ARROW (Contributed by Half-Cocked) Another term inherited from the Army. It means to be tasked with something, usually unpleasant or troublesome. 1. "Wah lau, I kena arrow clean toilet!" 2. "So suay, I was just in the office, den he come and arrow me type his document."

ARSE LUCK Used to describe extremely bad luck. Originally idiomatic in England, but very popular in Singlish. "Ah Hock just got his driving license and straightaway kena caught for speeding. What arse luck!"

ATAS (ah-tahs) Malay for "upstairs", it describes someone as snobbish, hoity-toity, affected or arrogant. "Wah, you nowsaday do'wan to eat ikan bilis, only eat caviar. Become damn atas oreddy."

AYAM Malay for "chicken". Used to describe someone as hopeless or easily intimidated. "Man U. sure win. The other team damn ayam one."
[edit]
B

B.G.R. Acronym for “Boy Girl Relationship”.

BAK CHEW TAK STAMP (Contributed by Sian Tao Ong) Classic Singlish hybrid of Hokkien and English. Literally translates as "eyes have been pasted over with a stamp", meaning to be blind. "How can you step right onto that big pile of kao sai (dog shit)? You bak chew tak stamp, is it?"

BAKERO (Contributed by UMC-Nazzster) (Bah-kay-row) A Singapore corruption of the Japanese swear word "baka yarou", which loosely means "stupid neanderthal". Often erroneously thought to mean "bastard". "Wah lau, the principal is a damn bakero, man!"

BALIK (bah-le’h) Malay for “to return home”. “5 o’clock and you balik-ing orreddy ah?” See also: Tsao

BALIK KAMPONG (Contributed by Terry How) Literally, Malay for "return to the village". Used in the sense of "fuck off" or "get lost", or most accurately, "go back where you came from." Chants of "balik kampong" can usually be heard at the National Stadium by Singaporean fans trying to scare the visiting soccer team. But we ALL know who's really going to "balik kampong" in the end. "Aiyah, why you go and listen to him? Just tell him to balik kampong, lah!"

BALU A Hokkien term, but derived from the Malay word "baru", meaning "recently". "This handphone balu bueh eh and oreddy koyak." (I bought this handphone only recently and it's already broken."

BANG Onomatopoeic term denoting exasperation or frustration. Similar to "Pek Chek". "I expected to win the lottery, instead I kena fine. Damn bang, man." See also: Bang Balls Lum Pah Pah Lan Pek Chek

BANG BALLS Essentially the Anglicized version of the Hokkien phrase "Lum Pah Pah Lan". "Wah lan! When I heard I kena saman that time, I damn bang balls, drop on floor, bounce three times!" See also: Bang Lum Pah Pah Lan

BANGALI See Mungalee Bhai

BANGLA (Contributed by Andrew Yong) Racist abbreviation of "Bangladashi." "Those two Bangla very hardworking, day in day out never stop working one."

BARANG BARANG (Contributed by Jonathan Ng) Colloquial Malay for "chattels", or "personal property or belongings". Sergeant:" OK, soldiers. We are moving off to Peng San Hill in 10 minutes time. Have you all got your barang-barang ready?"

BASKET (bahs-kate) Nothing to do with woven receptacles. A term of uncertain origin, but the general consensus is that it was once a euphemism for "bastard". Nowadays, it is an exclamation denoting frustration. "Basket! Five minute only, oreddy kena saman! No coupon!"

BAYI See Bhai

BECAUSE THE SKY IS SO HIGH, THE BIRD SHIT IN YOUR EYE (Contributed by Edwin) This phrase is essentially an annoyed retort to being asked "why", and conveys the meaning that the questioner ought to mind his or her own business. Popular in the mid-70's, its usage began to decline in the early 80's and is rarely heard these days. Sally: " Eh, Jasmine, how come I never see you with Roger anymore?" Jasmine: " We oreddy break up, lah!" Sally: " Why?" Jasmine: " Because the sky is so high, the bird shit in your eye!"

BEDEK/ACTION BEDEK/BEDEK KACANG (Contributed by Lixing) (bay-deh') A Malay word meaning "to aim at", it is used to describe someone who is acting dishonestly or disingenuously, or who is full of hot air, or who pretends to be capable but is in reality a failure. Can also be used as a verb in the sense of "to bluff" or "mislead". Tagging on "action" or "kacang" (peanuts) is merely for emphasis. 1. "Oi, you make sure you can really do it, ah! Don't anyhow bedek me, okay!" 2. “I saw you pontang school today, you don’t come and bedek kacang with me, okay?” (I saw you playing truant today, don’t you act innocent with me!) 3. ""Wah! That S-League player really want to score, sia! But open goal still can fall down! So action bedek one, man!" See also: Act Blur; Buat Bodoh; Wayang


BEH TAH HAN (bay tah hahn) A hybrid Hokkien-Malay term meaning, "I can't stand it" or "I can't deal with it". (Hokkien for cannot is "beh" and "tahan" in Malay is "endure".) 1. "Why must he speak with that accent? Damn beh tahan!" 2. "Aiyah, sometimes I really beh tahan him!"

BEH/BUAY (bay/bway) A prefix meaning “not”. Either pronunciation is acceptable. “He damn beh pai say one.” (He’s not ashamed.)

BELAKANG MARI (Contributed by James Chong) Literally, Malay for "going by the rear". Used to describe situations where an alternative (often covert) approach is employed when the obvious has failed. "Wah, that guy super saht man! Cannot get in first time, then belakang mari second time can orreddy!" ("Wow, he's cool! He couldn't get in the first time, but by acting sneaky the second time, he managed to do it!")

BENG Contraction of “Ah Beng”. “Why you dress so beng one?” See also: Ah Beng

BENGKOK (beng-kohk) Malay for 'bent' or 'crooked'. "Adey! Your shirt a little bengkok leh. Latest style or what?" See also: Senget

BERAK (Contributed by Andrew Yong) (bay-rah') Malay for "to shit". (The Malay word for faeces is "tahi".) "Eh, you all wait awhile for me, hor, I need to berak."

BHAI SI MI SEK “Bhai What Colour?” A racist game played by churlish Chinese people. It involves pinching your companion whenever you spot a Sikh gentleman, and not letting go till your companion shouts out the colour of his turban. See also: Bhai

BHAI/BAI (bah-yee) Racist way of addressing a Sikh gentleman. The term “bhai” in Punjabi is innocuous and means “brother”. But this has since taken on racist connotations in Singapore.

BIN CHOW CHOW Hokkien phrase literally meaning, "smelly face". Used to describe someone with a grumpy look and sour disposition. "I do'wan to talk to him, lah. He always so bin chow chow one."

BISING (bee-seng) Malay for "noisy". "Alamak, every Saturday night, my upstairs neighbour throws a karaoke party. Damn bising, sia!"

BLANCO To apply white correction fluid over an error. "Blanco" is actually the trademark name of a long-established whitening liquid. "No need to get me a new form. I'll just blanco over the old names."

BLANJAH Derived from the Malay word "belanja", meaning "expenditure". In Singlish, it means to give someone a treat or to pay for someone else. "If I get promotion, I sure blanjah you all lunch."

BLARDER Ah Beng pronunciation of “Brother”. Contrary to popular belief, does not mean “bladder”. “Ah Beng is my blood blarder. We both have the same tattoos.”

BLUR Used to describe someone as rather inept or in a world of his own. May also be used to describe the feeling of being dazed. A common usage is "Blur like sotong". 1. “Such a simple thing also cannot do. You damn blur!” 2. “Wah lao, I do maths, do until blur, man.” See also: Concuss

BLUR LIKE FUCK The rude version of “blur like sotong”. See also: Blur

BLUR LIKE SOTONG See Sotong

BLUR TOAD A common variant of “Sotong”. Of uncertain origin. See also: Sotong

BOBO/BOBO KING/BOBO SHOOTER (Contributed by imayoda and Daniel Hong) Used to describe a soldier who frequently misses his shooting target. Derived possibly from a military term frequently used at the shooting range, W/O W/O (wipe-out) for no hits at all. 1. "Eh, it's that bobo shooter again, always cross lane one." 2. "Recruit Beng is super bobo king one. Last time at the range, he accidentally shot his OC."

BODOH Malay for “stupid” or “fool”. “Salim is such a bodoh. When he lit his cigarette, he set his eyebrows on fire.”

BOH When placed before any word, it turns it into the negative. The Hokkien equivalent of "not" or "un". Thus, "Boh Chup" is the negative of "Chup", and "Boh Chee" means not to have any "Chee".

BOH BAH TI Hakka for Mm Tzai Si See also: Mm Tzai Si

BOH BEH CHOW (Contributed by Kevin) Hokkien term which literally translates as "no horse running". It is used to describe something or someone which/who is so exceptionally good that there's no competition. "Wah lau eh, that chio bu really boh beh chow man! Si peh tok kong ah!"

BOH CHEE (Contributed by AA) Hokkien for "no balls". "Eh, like dat also don'ch dare try. He damn bo chee, lah." See also: Boh Lum Par Chee

BOH CHIAK PNG (Contributed by Henry Tan) Literally, Hokkien for "have not eaten rice". Used to describe someone as physically weak. "Wah lau, like that also cannot carry! You boh chiak png, ah?"

BOH CHUP Nonchalant; relaxed; phlegmatic. Can be used as both adjective and verb. 1. “He’s very boh chup about his work.” 2. “Aiyah, boh chup him, lor.”

BOH ENG Hokkien term literally meaning "not free". Used to convey how busy you are. "Go East Coast to swim? Boh eng lah!" See also: Mana Ooh Eng? Chia'h Sior Eng

BOH HER HAE MAH HO A Hokkien proverb which translates as "If there are no fish, prawns are just as good." It is unclear if this is a statement said in resigned acceptance of one's second choices, or if it is a cheerfully pragmatic way of dealing with situations where you do not get what you originally intended. Perhaps both. "You couldn't get tickets to the Anita Mui concert, so you bought us seats for the Bukit Pantat Community Centre Angklong Orchestra Performance? I guess boh her hae mah ho."

BOH HEW/DON'T HEW (Contributed by Henry Tan) Hokkien for "don't give a damn". It's not entirely clear what "hew" translates to on its own, but it's invariably used in the negative. 1. "Aiyah, this small-small thing, just boh hew, can oreddy." 2. "It's not worth fighting him over this sort of thing. Don't hew him, better." See also: Boh Chup

BOH LANG AI/BOH NANG AI Hokkien for "nobody wants", meaning "useless". "This sort of free gift, boh lang ai, one lah."

BOH LIAO (Contributed by AA) Hokkien for "nothing better to do". Dangerously idle. In Mandarin, it's "wuliao". "What for he go and do that sort of thing? Must be damn bo liao."

BOH LUI (Contributed by Yong Kuan) Hokkien phrase literally meaning "no money". Commonly heard from students, NSmen, and people aspiring to Murchidis Bendzes. 'Eh, tonight cannot treat you all to karaoke. I boh lui liao!'

BOH LUM PAR CHEE (Contributed by Sian Tao Ong) Hokkien for "no testicles/balls/guts", it is used to admonish someone for being a coward. "You don't dare print this Lexicon entry, you boh lum par chee." See also: Boh Chee

BOH PIAN Hokkien for "Can't do anything about it" or "No choice." "Must pay cover charge. This one boh pian one."

BOH SAY (Contributed by AA) Hokkien phrase meaning "doesn't have the look". That kind also can be occifer ah? Damn boh say, leh!" See also: Ooh Say

BOH TAH BOH LUM PAR (Contributed by Woogie) Literally, Hokkien for "If it's not dry, you've got no balls." A dare given to someone to drink up something unpleasant. "You say you can tahan spicy food? Then drink that whole bowl of laksa, lah! Boh tah, boh lum par!"

BOH TAI JI Hokkien for "Nothing's the matter" or "nothing's wrong". "Here everything boh tai ji, why you itchy backside come and listurb?"

BOH TAK CHEK Hokkien for "no schooling". "You ah, boh tak chek one, how can get cheng hu kang?"

BOH TAU BOH BUAY Hokkien term which literally translates as, "no head no tail", meaning "incomprehensible". "Wah lau eh, that movie was damn boh tau bo buay."

BOH TSENG HU A Hokkien term literally meaning, “to lack governance”. Means lawlessness or chaotic. “Wah, boss go on leave, this whole place boh tseng hu orreddy.” (With the boss on leave, the office is without control.)

BOH TUA BOH SUAY (Contributed by Sian Tao Ong) Hokkien phrase literally meaning "no big, no small". Used to admonish someone for not knowing his place. Famously used by PM Goh Chok Tong in a National Day Rally speech. "You talk like that to your father? Si noong kia! Damn boh tua boh suay!"

BOLEH (Contributed by AA) Malay for "can" or "possible". "You do my way, sure boleh one."

BORAK Malay, to bluff or to talk idly "Dun borak me man, you oni pay two dollar for this!" See also: Talk Cock

BORROW For some reason, “to lend”. “Eh, can borrow me your book?”

BOSS Nothing to do with one's superiors, this is a deliberately sloppy pronunciation of "balls". Used at the end of sentences for emphasis. Interestingly, it does not add any obscene overtones to the sentence or subject. 1. "Did you see the shirt Ah Beng was wearing? Can go blind, boss." 2. "I just read that book by the opposition politician. Fierce, boss."

BOTAK/BOTAK HEAD (Contributed by SinnerLee) Malay for bald. "Botak head" is used to describe a bald person, a skinhead or even someone with a short crew-cut. "Which one is Mr. Tan? He's that botak head sitting over there."

BUAT BODOH (bua’h bodo’) In Malay, literally, "to play dumb". To feign ignorance. See also: Act Blur

BUAY GAM (bway gahm) A Hokkien term describing something as inconsistent, or being an imperfect match. “Why did I break up with Ah Lian? Aiyah, she and I just buay gam lor.”

BUAY HIAO BAI (Contributed by J Tai) Literally, not to know what ugliness is. Not embarrassed easily. "His voice cannot make it still go and sing so much, damn buay hiao bai."

BUAY KAN (Contributed by half-cocked) Hokkien for, literally, unable to fuck. An especially crude term used to describe an utterly incompetent person. Applies only to extreme cases. "Wah lau eh, this fella so buay kan, if we put him in charge, sure cock-up one."

BUAY KANTANG (Contributed by ketchup) Literally meaning "to sell potatoes", this phrase means that there is more than meets the eye in a given situation. it is a hybrid of the Hokkien phrase "buay kan tan", meaning 'not easy' and the Malay word 'kentang', for potato. "Don't anyhow rush. This sort of thing, ah, buay kantang one."

BUAY KIA NANG TU LAN (Contributed by Jonathan Ng) Hokkien phrase which means to do things unabashedly, or unashamed of doing things others might disapprove of. "Wah lau, this sort of voice also can cut album. Damn buay kia nang tu lan!" See also: Buay Pai Seh

BUAY KUM GUAN Hokkien for "unwilling" or "reluctant". "Aiyah, ask him to help you damn no use, lah. He sure damn buay kum guan, one."

BUAY PAI SEH (Contributed by Ch'ng Tuan Wee) Also "thick-skinned". Literally translated as "not shy". Means not ashamed/embarassed by one's own actions, usually connotes insensitivity. "Wa lao, you everyday let her buy you drink, buay pai seh one ah?" See also: Pai Seh

BUAY SAI (Contributed by K. Ang) Hokkien for ‘cannot’ or ‘incapable’. Can be used in many forms. 1. “You want Ah Beng to help you with your maths? Buay sai! (“Impossible!” or “You can’t!”) 2. “You want Ah Beng to help you with your maths? He damn buay sai one!” (“He’s incapable!”) 3. “Ah Beng buay sai help you with your maths.” (Ah Beng cannot help you with your maths.”) See also: Cannot Make It

BUAY SONG Hokkien for “not satisfied”. Usually used in a vaguely belligerent tone. 1. “You stare at me for what? Buay song ah?” 2. “Ah Beng is supposed to be my good friend, yet he treat me like this. Now I damn buay song him.”

BUAY SWEE/STEADY (Contributed by Willy Ng) Hokkien phrase literally meaning, "not beautiful" or "unsteady", it is used to denote a person's action as biased or unfair. " Wah lah eh! Langgar still can pass driving test. Damm buay swee/steady man!"

BUAY TZAI Hokkien for “not calm”. Used to describe someone as nervous and unsteady. “Do this sort of thing is very easy. Why you so buay tzai one?”

BUAY TZE TONG (Contributed by Andrew Yong) Hokkien phrase referring to an inconsiderate person who lacks initiative. Literally, "does not know how to move by oneself." "He see the girl got so many things to carry then still dunno how to go and help. Damn buay tze tong, leh!"

BUAYA Malay for “crocodile”. Means “lothario” or wolf, i.e. sleazy pick-up artist. May also be used as a verb. 1. “Johnny’s after Jane, even though he’s supposed to be with Jenny. What a chao buaya.” 2. “Look at Johnny buaya-ing Jane.”

BUNG KAH TIO LUM PAR (Contributed by Foo Woon Huan) Literally meaning "mosquito biting the testicles", it is a term used to describe a painful dilemma, where all options carry dire consequences. Similar in spirit to the English "Hobson's Choice", meaning no real choice at all. Believed to have originated in rural China, by farmers who had to relieve themselves in mosquito-infested fields. "I don'ch whack him, he sure damn ya-ya one. I whack him, he sure report me to police. Wah lan eh, this is damn bung kah tio lum par!" See also: Lum Pah

BUSOK (boo-soh') Malay for "smelly" or "rotten". Used to accuse someone of being a cheat or playing dirty. "I don't friend you, you play mah-jong very busok one" See also: Chao Kuan Chao Kah Mungsat

10 Views | Post Comments | Share with Friends | Recommend

Sunday,Oct 17 2004, 09:59:17 AMWhat would u do if ur girlfriend is 2 timing...

What would u do if ur girlfriend is 2 timing you ?

What would you do if you cannot seem to trust her ?

What would you do if people reported that she was seen kissing another man ?

What would you do if she was seen in a hotel with another man ?

what would you do if she admits somethings but not all , and has absolutely no remorse about it ?

What would you do if your initial inclination is to smash and destroy but has absolutely shattered heart and no more will to cause chaos n entropy ?

What would you do if these happened when u just lost your job within days ?

What would you do if she still contacting him , still with him despite repeat denials ?

What would you do if she says its over between them , she wants to be with you , but she's still seeing the other party ?

What would you do ?

8 Views | 15 Comments | Share with Friends | Recommend

Sunday,Oct 17 2004, 02:50:01 AMhe Misunderstanding (Shed a tear or two...) >

he Misunderstanding (Shed a tear or two...)
>
> > > >This is a true story, taken from "Family" (dictated by LD, edited by
> >LSX,
> > > >translated by SaFe).
> > > >
> > > > > Cruel misunderstandings one after another disrupted the blissful
> > > >footsteps
> > > >to our family. Our original intend of having Mother enjoy some quiet
> >and
> > > >peaceful moments in her remaining years with us went terribly wrong as
> > > >destiny's secret is finally revealed at a price, everything became too
> > > >late.
> > > >
> > > > >
> > > > > Just two years after our marriage, hubby brought up the idea of
> >asking
> > > >Mother to move from the rural hometown and spend her remaining years
> >with
> > > >us. Hubby's father passed away while he was still very young. Mother
> > > >endured
> > > >much hardship and struggled all on her own to provide for him, see him
> > > >through to a university degree. You could say that she suffered a
> great
> > > >deal
> > > >and did everything you could expect of a woman to bring hubby to where
>
> >he
> > > >is
> > > >today.
> > > > >
> > > > > I immediately agreed and started packing the spare room, which has
> a
> > > >balcony facing the South to let her enjoy the sunshine and plant some
> > > >greeneries. Hubby stood in the bright room, and suddenly just picked
> me
> >up
> > > >and started spinning round and round. As I begged him to put me down,
> >he
> > > >said: "Lets go fetch mother."
> > > > >
> > > > > Hubby is tall and big sized and I love to rest on his chest and
> >enjoy
> > > >the
> > > >feeling that he could pick me up at any moment put the tiny me into
> his
> > > >pockets. And whenever we have an argument and both refuses t! o back
> >down,
> > > >he would pick me up and spin me over his head continuously until I
> > > >surrender
> > > >and beg for mercy. I became addicted to this kind of panic-joy
> feeling.
> > > > >
> > > > > Mother brought along her countryside habits and lifestyle with her.
> >For
> > > >example; I am so used to buying flowers to decorate the living room,
> >she
> > > >could not stand it and would comment: "I do not know how you young
> >people
> > > >spend your money, why do you buy flowers for? You also can't eat the
> > > >flowers!"
> > > > >
> > > > > I smiled and said: "Mum, with flowers in the house, our mood will
> >also
> > > >become better."
> > > > >
> > > > > Mother continues to grumble away, and hubby smiled: "Mum, this is a
> > > >city-people's habit; slowly you will get use to it."
> > > > >
> > > > > Mother stopped saying anything. But every time thereafter, whenever
>
> >I
> > > >came
> > > >home with flowers, she would ask me how much it costs. I told her and
> >she
> > > >would shake her head and express displeasure. Sometimes, when I come
> >home
> > > >with lots of shopping bags, she would ask each and every item how much
> >they
> > > >cost, and I would tell her honestly and she would get even more upset
> >about
> > > >it.
> > > > >
> > > > > Hubby playfully pinched my nose and said: "You little fool, just
> >don't
> > > >tell her the full price of everything would solve it." There begins
> the
> > > >friction to our otherwise happy lifestyle.
> > > > >
> > > > > Mother hates it most when hubby wakes up early to prepare the
> >breakfast.
> > > >In your view, how could the man of the house cook for the wife? At the
> > > >breakfast table, mother facial expression is always like the dark
> >clouds
> > > >before a thunderstorm and I would pretend not to notice. She would use
> >her
> > > >chopsticks and make a lot of noise with it as her silent protest.
> > > > >
> > > > > As I am a dance teacher in the Children's Palace and is exhausted
> >from
> >a
> > > >long day of dancing around, I do not wish to give up the luxury of
> that
> > > >additional few minutes in the comfort of my bed and hence I turned a
> >deaf
> > > >ear to all the protest mother makes.
> > > > >
> > > > > From time to time, mother would help out with some housework, but
> >soon
> > > >her
> > > >help created additional work for me. For example: she would keep all
> >kinds
> > > >of plastic bags accumulating them so that she sell them later on, and
> >that
> > > >resulted in our house being filled with all the trash bags; she would
> > > >scrimp
> > > >on dish washing detergent when helping to wash the dishes and so as
> not
> >to
> > > >hurt her feelings, I would quietly wash they again.
> > > > >
> > > > > One day, late at night, mother saw me quietly washing the dishes,
> >and
> > > >"Bam" she slams her bedroom door and cried very loudly in her room.
> >Hubby
> > > >was placed in a difficult position, and after that, he did not speak
> to
> >me
> > > >for that entire night. >
> > > > >
> > > > > I pretended to be a spoilt child, tried acting cute, but he totally
> > > >ignored me. I got mad and asked him: "What did I do wrong?"
> > > > >
> > > > > Hubby stared at me and said: "Can't you just give in to her once?
> We
> > > >couldn't possibly die eating from a bowl however unclean it is,
> >right?"!
> > > > >
> > > > > After that incident, for a long period of time, mother did not
> speak
> >to
> > > >me
> > > >and you can feel that there is a very awkward feeling hanging in the
> >house.
> > > >During that period of cold war, hubby was caught in dilemma as to who
> >to
> > > >please.
> > > > >
> > > > > In order to stop her son from having to prepare breakfast, mother
> >took
> > > >on
> > > >the "all important" task of preparing breakfast without any prompting.
>
> >At
> > > >the breakfast table, mother would look at hubby happily eating his
> > > >breakfast
> > > >and cast that reprimanding stare at me for having failed to perform my
> >duty
> > > >as a wife. To avoid the embarrassing breakfast situation, I resorted
> to
> > > >buying my own breakfast on my way to work.
> > > > >
> > > > > That night, while in bed, hubby was a little upset and asked me:
> >"LD,
> >is
> > > >it because you think that mum's cooking is not clean that's why you
> >chose
> > > >not to eat at home?" He then turned his back on me and left me alone
> in
> > > >tears as feeling of unfairness overwhelmed me. After some time, hubby
> > > >sighed! : "LD, just for me, can you have breakfast at home?" I am left
> >with
> > > >no choice but to return to the breakfast table.
> > > > >
> > > > > The next morning, I was having porridge prepared by mother and I
> >felt
> >a
> > > >sudden churn in my stomach and everything inside seem to be rushing up
>
> >my
> > > >throat. I tried to suppress the urge to throw up but I couldn't. I
> >threw
> > > >down the bowl and rushed into the washroom and vomited everything out.
> >And
> > > >just as I was catching my breath, I saw mother crying and grumbling
> >very
> > > >loudly in her dialect, hubby was standing at the washroom doorway
> >staring
> > > >at
> > > >me with fire burning in his eyes. I opened my mouth but no words came
> >out
> > > >of
> > > >it, I really didn't mean it.
> > > > >
> > > > > We had our very first big fight that day; mother took a look at us,
> >then
> > > >stood up and slowly made her way out of the house. Hubby gave me a
> >final
> > > >stare in the eye and followed mother down the stairs. For three days,
> >hubby
> > > >did not return home, not even a phone call.
> > > > >
> > > > > I was so furious, since mother arrived; I had been trying my best
> >and
> > > >putting up with her, what else do you want me to do? For no reason, I
> >keep
> > > >having the feeling to throw up and I simply have not appetite for
> food,
> > > >coupled with all the events happening at home, I was at the low point
> >in
> >my
> > > >life. Finally, a colleague said: "LD, you look terrible; you should go
> >and
> > > >see a doctor."
> > > > >
> > > > > The doctor confirmed that I am pregnant. Now it became clear to me
> >why
> >I
> > > >threw up that fateful morning, a sense of sadness floated through that
> > > >otherwise happy news. Why didn't hubby, and mother who had been
> through
> > > >this
> > > >before, thought of the possibility of this being the reason that day?
> > > > >
> > > > > At the hospital entrance, I saw my hubby standing there. It had
> only
> > > >been
> > > >three days, but he looked haggard. I had wanted to turn and leave, but
> >one
> > > >look at him and my heart soften, I couldn't resist and called out to
> >him.
> > > > >
> > > > > He followed my voice and finally found me but he pretended that he
> > > >doesn't
> > > >know me; he has that disgusted look in his eyes that cut right through
>
> >my
> > > >heart. I told myself not to look at him anymore, and hail a cab.
> > > > >
> > > > > At that moment, I have such a strong urge inside me to shout to my
> > > >hubby:
> > > >"Darling, I am having your baby!", and to have him lift me up and spin
>
> >me
> > > >round in circles of joy. What I wanted didn't happen and as I sat in
> >the
> > > >cab, my tears started rolling down. Why? Why our love couldn't even
> > > >withstand the test of one fight?
> > > > >
> > > > > Back home, I lay on the bed thinking about my hubby, and the
> >disgusted
> > > >look in his eyes. I cried and wet the corner of the blanket.
> > > > >
> > > > > That night, sound of the drawers opening woke me up. I switched on
> >the
> > > >lights and I saw hubby with tears rolling down his face. He was
> >removing
> > > >the
> > > >money. I stared at him in silence; he ignored me, took the bank
> deposit
> > >
> > > >book and some money and left the house. Maybe he really intends to
> >leave
> >me
> > > >for good. What a rational man! , so clear-cut in love and money
> >matters.
> >I
> > > >gave a few dried laugh and tears starting streaming down again.
> > > > >
> > > > > The next day, I did not go to work. I wanted to clear this out and
> >have
> > > >a
> > > >good talk with hubby. I reached his office and his secretary gave me a
> > > >weird
> > > >look and said: "Mr. Tan's mother had a traffic accident and is now in
> >the
> > > >hospital." I stood there in shock.
> > > > >
> > > > > I rushed to the hospital and by the time I found hubby, mother had
> > > >already
> > > >passed away. Hubby did not look at me, his face was expressionless.
> > > > >
> > > > > I looked at mother's pale white and thin face and I couldn't
> control
> >the
> > > >tears in my eyes. My god, how could this happen? Throughout the
> >funeral,
> > > >hubby did say a single word to me, with only the occasional disgusted
> >stare
> > > >at me. I only managed to find out brief facts about the accident from
> >other
> > > >people.
> > > > >
> > > > > That day, after mother left the house, she walked in dazed toward
> >the
> > > >bus
> > > >stop, apparently intending to ! go back to her old house back in the
> > > >countryside. As hubby ran after her, she tried to walk faster and as
> >she
> > > >tried to cross the street, a public bus came and hit her...
> > > > >
> > > > > I finally understood how much hubby must hate me, if I had not
> >thrown
> >up
> > > >that morning, if we had not quarreled, if... In his heart, I am
> >indirectly
> > > >the killer of his mother.
> > > > >
> > > > > Hubby moved into mother's room and came home every night with a
> >strong
> > > >liquor smell on him. And me, I am buried under the guilt and self pity
> >and
> > > >could hardly breathe. I wanted to explain to him, tell him that we are
> > > >going
> > > >to have our baby soon, but each time, I saw the dead look in his eyes,
> >all
> > > >the words I have at the brink of my mouth just fell back in. I had
> >rather
> > > >he
> > > >hit me real hard or give me a big and thorough scolding though none of
> > > >these
> > > >events happening had been my fault at all.
> > > > >
> > > > > Many days of suffocating silence went by and as the days went by,
> >hubby
> > > >came home later and later. The deadlock between us continues, we were
> > > >living
> > > >together like strangers who don't know each other. I am like the dead
> >knot
> > > >in his heart.
> > > > >
> > > > > One day, I passed by a western restaurant, looking into the glass
> > > >window,
> > > >I saw hubby and a girl I didn't know sitting facing each other and he
> >very
> > > >lightly brushed her hair for her, I understood what it meant.
> > > > >
> > > > > After recovering from that moment of shock, I entered the
> >restaurant,
> > > >stood in front of my hubby and stared hard at him, not a tear in my
> >eyes.
> >I
> > > >have nothing to say to him, and there is no need to say anything. The
> >girl
> > > >looked at me, looks at hubby, stands up and wanted to go, hubby
> >stretched
> > > >out his hand and stopped her. He stared back at me, challenging me. I
> >can
> > > >only hear my slow heart beat, beating, one by one as if at the brink
> of
> > > >death. I eventually backed down, if I had stood that any longer, I
> will
> > > >collapse together with the baby inside me.
> > > > >
> > > > > That night, he did not come home, he had chosen to use that as a
> way
> >to
> > > >indicate to me. Following mother's death so did our love for each
> >other.
> >He
> > > >did not come home anymore after that. Sometimes, when I returned home
> >from
> > > >work, I can tell that the cupboard had been touched - he had returned
> >to
> > > >take some of his stuff.
> > > > >
> > > > > I no longer wish to call him; the initial desire to explain
> >everything
> > > >to
> > > >him had vanished. I lived alone; I go for my medical checkups alone,
> my
> > > >heart breaks again and again every time I see a guy carefully helping
> >his
> > > >wife through the physical examination. My office colleagues hinted to
> >me
> >to
> > > >consider aborting the baby, I told them No, I will not. I insisted on
> > > >having
> > > >to this baby, perhaps it is my way of repaying mother for causing her
> > > >death.
> > > >
> > > > >
> > > > > One day, I came home and I saw hubby sitting in the living room.
> The
> > > >whole
> > > >house was filled with cigarette smoke. On the coffee table, there was
> >this
> > > >piece of paper. I know what it is all about without even looking at
> it.
> > >
> > > >&g! t;
> > > > > In the two months plus of living alone, I have gradually learned to
> >find
> > > >peace within myself. I looked at him, removed my hat and said: "You
> >wait
> > > >for
> > > >a while, I will sign." He looked at me, mixed feelings in his eyes,
> >just
> > > >like mine. As I hang up my coat, I keep repeating to myself "You
> cannot
> > > >cry,
> > > >you cannot cry..." my eyes hurt terribly, but I refused to let tears
> >come
> > > >out from there.
> > > > >
> > > > > After I hung up my coat, hubby's eyes stared fixed at my bulging
> >tummy.
> > > >I
> > > >smiled, walked over to the coffee table and pull the paper towards me.
> > > >Without even looking at what it says, I signed my name on it and
> pushed
> >the
> > > >paper to him.
> > > > >
> > > > > "LD, you are pregnant?" Since mother's accident, this is the first
> >time
> > > >he
> > > >spoke to me. I could not control my tears any further and they fell
> >like
> > > >raindrops.
> > > > >
> > > > > I said: "Yes, but its ok, you can leave now."
> > > > >
> > > > > He did not go, in the dark, we sat, facing each other. Hubby slowly
> > > >moved
> > > >over me, his tears wet the blanket. In my heart, everything seems so
> >far
> > > >away, so far that even if I sprint, I could never reach them. I cannot
> > > >remember how many times he repeated "sorry" to me. I had really
> >originally
> > > >thought that I would forgive him, but now I can't.
> > > > >
> > > > > In the western restaurant, in front of that girl, that cold look in
> >his
> > > >eyes, I will never forget, ever. We have drawn such deep scares in
> each
> > > >other's heart. For me, its unintentional; for him, totally
> intentional.
> > > > >
> > > > > I had been waiting for this moment of reconciliation, but I
> realized
> > > >now,
> > > >what had gone past is gone forever and could not repeated. Other than
> >the
> > > >thought of the baby inside me that would bring some warmth to my
> heart,
> >I
> > > >am
> > > >totally cold towards him, I no longer eat anything he buys for me, I
> >don't
> > > >take any presents from him and I stopped talking to him.
> > > > >
> > > > > From the moment I signed on that piece of paper, marriage and love
> >had
> > > >vanished from my heart. Sometimes, hubby will try to come into the
> >bedroom,
> > > >but when he walks in, I will walk out to the living room. He had no
> >choice
> > > >but to sleep in mother's room.
> > > > >
> > > > > At night, from his room, I can hear light sounds of groaning, I
> kept
> > > >quiet. This used to be his trick; last time, whenever I ignore him, he
> > > >would
> > > >fake illness and I will surrender and find out what is wrong with him,
>
> >he
> > > >would then grab me and laugh. He has forgotten that last time; I cared
> >for
> > > >him and am concerned because there is love, but now, what is there
> >between
> > > >us?
> > > > >
> > > > > Hubby's groaning came on and off continuing all the way till baby
> >was
> > > >born. Almost everyday, he would buy something for the baby, infant
> > > >products,
> > > >children products and books that kids like to read. Bags and gags of
> it
> > > >stacked inside his room till it is full. I know he is trying to use
> >this
> >to
> > > >reach out to me, but I am no longer moved by his actions.
> > > > >
> > > > > He has no choice but to lock himself in his room and I can hear his
> > > >typing
> > > >away on his computer keyboard, maybe he is now addicted to web
> surfing,
> >but
> > > >none of that matters to me anymore.
> > > > >
> > > > > It was sometime towards the end of spring in the following year,
> one
> > > >late
> > > >night, I screamed because of a sudden stomach pain, hubby came rushing
> >into
> > > >the room, it is like he did not change and sleep, and had been waiting
> >for
> > > >this moment. He carried me and ran down the stairs, stopped a car,
> >holding
> > > >my hand very tightly and kept wiping the sweat off my brown,
> throughout
> >the
> > > >journey to the hospital.
> > > > >
> > > > > Once we reached the hospital, he carried me and hurried into the
> > > >delivery
> > > >suite. Lying on the back of his skinny but warmth body, a thought
> >crossed
> > > >my
> > > >mind: In my lifetime, who else would love me as much as he did?
> > > > >
> > > > > He held the delivery suite door opened and watch me go in, his warm
> >eyes
> > > >caused me to managed a smile at him despite my contraction pain.
> > > > >
> > > > > Coming out of the delivery room, hubby looked at our son, and me,
> >his
> > > >eyes
> > > >tear with joy and he kept smiling. I reached out and touched his hand.
> > > >Hubby
> > > >looked at me, smiling and then he slowly collapsed onto the floor. I
> >cried
> > > >out for him in pain..> . He smiled, but without opening that tired
> eyes
> >of
> > > >his. I had thought that I would never shed any tear for him, but the
> >truth
> > > >is, I have never felt a deeper pain cutting through my body at that
> >moment.
> > > > >
> > > > > Doctor said that by the time hubby discovered he had liver cancer,
> >it
> > > >was
> > > >already in terminal stage and it was a miracle that he managed to last
> >this
> > > >long. I asked the doctor when did he first discover he had cancer?
> >Doctor
> > > >said about 5 months ago and consoled me saying: "Prepare for his
> >funeral."
> > > > >
> > > > > I disregarded the nurse's objection and rushed home, I went into
> his
> > > >room
> > > >and checked his computer, and a suffocating pain hits me. Hubby's
> >cancer
> > > >was
> > > >discovered 5 months ago, his groaning was real, and I had thought
> >that...
> > > >the computer showed over 200 thousand words he wrote for our son:
> > > > >
> > > > > "Son, just for you, I have persisted, to be able to take a look at
> >you
> > > >before I fall, is my biggest wish now.... I know that in your life,
> you
> > > >will
> > > >have many happiness and maybe some setbacks, if only I can accompany
> >you
> > > >throughout that journey, how nice would it be. But daddy now no long
> >has
> > > >that chance. Daddy has written inside here all the possible
> >difficulties
> > > >and
> > > >problems you may encounter during your lifetime, when you meet with
> >these
> > > >problems, you can refer to daddy's suggestion...
> > > > >
> > > > > Son, after writing these 200 thousand words, I feel as if I have
> > > >accompanied you throughout your life journey. And to be honest, daddy
> >is
> > > >very happy. Do love your mother, she has suffered, she is the one who
> >loves
> > > >you most and also the one who loves me most..."
> > > > >
> > > > > From play school to primary school, to secondary, university, to
> >work
> > > >and
> > > >even in dealing with questions of love, everything big and small was
> > > >written! there.
> > > > >
> > > > > Hubby has also written a letter for me:
> > > > >
> > > > > "My dear, to marry you is my biggest happiness, forgive me for the
> >pain
> > > >I
> > > >have caused you, forgive me for not telling you my illness, because I
> >want
> > > >to see you be in a joyful mood waiting for the arrival of our baby...
> >My
> > > >dear, if you cried, it means that you have forgiven me and I would
> >smile,
> > > >thank you for loving me... These presents, I'm afraid I cannot give
> >them
> >to
> > > >our son personally, could you help me to give some of them to him
> every
> > > >year, the dates on what to give when are all written on the
> >packaging..."
> > > > >
> > > > > Going back to the hospital, hubby is still in coma. I brought our
> >son
> > > >over
> > > >and place him beside him. I said: "Open your eyes and smile, I want
> our
> >son
> > > >to remember being in the warmth of your arms..."
> > > > >
> > > > > He struggled to open his eyes and managed a weak smile. Our son
> >still
> >in
> > > >his arms was happily waving his tiny hands in the air. I press the
> >button
> > > >on
> > > >the camera and the sound of the shutter rang though the air as tears
> >slowly
> > > >rolled down my face...
> > > > >
> > > > > A fatal misunderstanding and the person who love me the most in
> this
> > > >world
> > > >is gone forever.
> > > > >
> > > > > The end...

11 Views | Post Comments | Share with Friends | Recommend

Sunday,Oct 17 2004, 02:44:43 AMTHINK ABOUT THIS: 1. At least 5 people in...

THINK ABOUT THIS:


1. At least 5 people in this world love you so much they would die for you.

2. At least 15 people in this world love you, in some way.



3. The only reason anyone would ever hate you, is because they want to be just like you.


4. A smile from you, can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you.



5. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep.




6. You mean the world to someone.




7. Without you, someone may not be living.



8. You are special and unique, in your own way.




9. Someone that you don't know even exists, loves you.



10. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good comes from it.



11. When you think the world has turned it's back on you, take a look, you most likely turned your back on the world.



12. When you think you have no chance at getting what you want, you probably won't get it, but if you believe in yourself, you probably sooner or later will get it.


13. Always remember complements you received, forget about the rude remarks.




14. Always tell someone how you feel about them, you will feel much better when they know.




15. If you have a great friend, take the time to let them know that they're great.



*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*


SEND THIS LETTER TO AS MANY PEOPLE AS YOU CARE ABOUT..

YOU WON'T GET ANY GOOD LUCK,

OR YOUR CRUSH WON'T SUDDENLY LIKE YOU,


BUT YOU'LL BRIGHTEN UP SOMEONE'S DAY,


AND MIGHT CHANGE THEIR PERSPECTIVE ON LIFE.


TO ALL MY FRIENDS, I LOVE YOU ALL LOTZ!


*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*

| | | | |
Inbox

Get the latest updates from MSN

9 Views | Post Comments | Share with Friends | Recommend

Saturday,Oct 16 2004, 07:06:32 PMWhat would u do if ur girlfriend is 2 timing...

What would u do if ur girlfriend is 2 timing you ?

What would you do if you cannot seem to trust her ?

What would you do if people reported that she was seen kissing another man ?

what would you do if she admits somethings but not all , and has absolutely no remorse about it ?

What would you do if your initial inclination is to smash and destroy but has absolutely shattered heart and no more will to cause chaos n entropy ?

What would you do if these happened when u just lost your job within days ?

What would you do ?

7 Views | Post Comments | Share with Friends | Recommend