http://www.zorpia.com/Totemr Fri, 01 Jan 2010 22:28 EST Fri, 01 Jan 2010 22:28 EST Zorpia.com http://www.zorpia.com/Totemr/journal/1734320 <p>Here's da scoop!</p><p>My soon to be X-hubby and I were supposed to be &quot;working out our differences&quot;. </p><p>Two weeks later, he must have changed his mind and didn't bother to share it with me.</p><p>He went behind my back... (I would have been decent about it and told him, first)... It takes about two weeks to draw up divorce papers.</p><p>Well, he then goes and has me served the papers on Friday.&nbsp; He then takes off and is no-where to be found.</p><p>All this and it's the day before our daughter's 9th birthday.&nbsp; She asked&nbsp; me today why it couldn't have waited until after her birthday.</p><p>So...</p><p>I have my freedom now.&nbsp; I can take the kids where I want to; I can go to my family get-togethers and we'll do other things.</p><p>That's pretty much the main event in my life right now.&nbsp;</p> Personal http://www.zorpia.com/Totemr/journal/1734320 Sun, 07 Oct 2007 05:30 EST http://www.zorpia.com/Totemr/journal/1730339 Life lesson learned! <img src="http://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/24.gif" /><br /><br />When you're a big woman, never break out in a run after your children wearing flip-flops...<br /><br />One day, 'Lil Miss Diva (pictured with me) was so crabby that her daddy and I were tickling her in the clinic to get her to laugh (usually brightens her spirits when we do).<br /><br />I must get a twinkle of some kind in my eyes or some sort of look on my face because my kids always know when I'm going to be mischievous and go after them.<br /><br />So...On the way out of the building, 'Lil Miss Diva looks up at me, smiles that Oh... *s**t* smile and starts running. I, of course, start running after her.<br /><br />Well, I lose my balance and fall flat on my face in the middle of the hallway. LMAO Oh the hilarity!<br /><br />She comes back running asking if I'm okay. At this point I'm laughing so hard I couldn't speak.<br /><br />After my husband helps me up off of the floor, he says... &quot;not such a good idea after all, huh?&quot;<br /><br />LOL... All I got out of it was a missing bead or two from my flip-flops (DARN IT) and a 3&quot; rug burn on my arm.<br /><br />Surely the people on the first floor must have thought something blew up. LOLOL<br /><br />In the car she says... &quot;Mommy, you and Daddy are always full of surprises... I didn't think you could still run&quot;<br /><br />OMG... where do they come up with this stuff. hahahahahaha<br /><br /><br /><br />(and to think the old Totem would be positively mortified!!! Not the new one though... it is tooo funny!!)<br /> Personal http://www.zorpia.com/Totemr/journal/1730339 Mon, 24 Sep 2007 15:45 EST