Wow,I can't believe that every site that I go on,I try and make it perfectly clear that I am NOT interested in men that are so much younger than I am.

I thought that if I tried a new site that maybe I could talk with some mature men that are not only interested in talking about sex,thiers or mine. I don't mind talking openly with anyone,if I know them,and they are age appropriate.

Never did I ever get on a site to be a young mean,or an od mans fantasy for that matter.I did not get on here,or anywhere else to listen to men express thier fantasies about being with older women,or to here of thier first or last,or anything in betwee.

I know this may not be read by anyone,but when did the whole entire world become made up of sex freaks?????? I really thought that went out in the 60's and later.I thought the 2

90's was the so called sexual reveloution,and that when sexuallity became so mundain that the 2000's would go back to normallicy and sex would not be the main drive in people;s lives/

Personally I find it a turn off to have to respond to people that don't know me,and I ceratinly don't know them,and the first comments are about sex,and OOHHH you are so sexy!!! I want a person to get beyone the outward aperance,and try to get to know someone and something about someone before they start talking about things that shold not be talked about until and IF they get to know each other longer or better.

Just once it would be nice to have someone ask,or know the color of my eyes,BEFORE they start talking SEX

Tell me if I am crazy,but I have children that are older than the men contacting me and that makes me think that the only reason they are in contact is because they are looking for and hoping for a sugar momma or as I have been asked many time,that I would be a "experienced woman" "teacher" "a one time thing"

I am no ones good time thing,or an experince,or teacher unless I want to be,and for these younger men to think that if you are over 50 you are lonely,desperate,or guillaible just sickends me.

Would I be into a realtionship with a younger man????Well,yes,if that younger man,was a man,and not "OUT THERE" looking and passing it off as they are a gift to me...I am none of the things they are hoping.Least of all patient at this time and stage of my life. I am looking for a man to spend the rest of my life with and care for me,and let me care for him as best I can.If that includes,or is only rocking in our chairs on the porch,then so be it.

Men,get a clue,your approach does not endear you to older women,it turns them off,and DON"T believe everything you hear or see in the media.This is NOT a popular thing to do.It has been around for a long time,it is not a fad,it is something that older women have been made jokes about forever....If you want a chance for a future with a lady that is older than you are,I suggest you change your approach and become real,and put your fanasies on hold,and your llibido,and face the fact,that you may get what you want sooner if you aren't advertising..

Just a tip from a OLDER woman..LOL