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Saturday,Jun 25 2005, 04:41:58 PMQ&A

Question: I enjoy having sex with my boyfriend, but I've started to feel vaginal burning during and after the act. It's become so painful I don't even want to make love with him anymore. What can I do? It might help to know that I'm on the Pill, and we don't use condoms.

Answer: Your discomfort could be due to lack of lubrication. Certain medications, including birth-control pills, can cause down-there dryness. So talk to you doc about whether the Pill could be contributing to your condition, make sure that you prolong foreplay until you're well lubricated and use lube to ease the friction during penetration.
Certain personal products, such as feminine spray or douches, could also cause the burning sensation. So, if you use any of these products, stop for a while and see if the discomfort subsides.
It's also possible, though not very likely, that your man's ejaculate is irritating your supersensitive vaginal lining. To test this theory, use a condom (polyurethane if you're allergic to latex and make sure it's not lubricated with the spermicide nonoxynol-9) consistently for a few sack sessions and see if the pain stops.
If none of the above suggestions does the trick, get checked out by your ob-gyn. You could be suffering from vulvodynia (a condition characterized by vaginal burning) or some form of vaginitis (any infection or inflammation of the vagina, which also causes burning).

Friday,Jun 24 2005, 06:13:09 PMSex Tips from Men

  • Moaning is great, but when you talk dirty and really let me know what I'm doing to turn you on, that really turns me on.  It not only fills me in on what you love most, but it also just sounds so damn hot.
    Straddle me, face my toes and arch your back.  Then take my hands and put them wherever you want them.

     

  • During doggie-style, instead of spreading your knees far apart, lie down straight so your legs are close together.  The closer your legs are to each other, the tighter it feels for me.

     

  • Squeeze my biceps and triceps while we're doing it missionary-style.  It makes me feel like a strong, macho man.

     

  • Whenever you clench your vaginal muscles during sex, your inner walls firmly grip my penis.  That extra pressure makes penetration even more sensational for me.

     

  • If a woman rubs and squeezes her breasts when she's on top, it shows me she enjoys her own body and isn't afraid to take matters into her own hands.

     

Friday,Jun 24 2005, 05:52:03 PMErotic

I got this from a special stranger and just loved it! I hope he doesn't get mad at me for this... i won't post his name.

Sexy

"Your breathing becomes heavier; As I kiss up and down your thigh; You begin to moan and groan; And the sound makes me high. I move up your stomach to your brests; And there I begin to kiss; I do it once again; Not one spot do I miss. You begin to sqirm around; You know your climax is near; Your body says that it is time; Your climax is almost here. Suddenly it hits; And it really blows your mind; You're oblivious to all around you; You've left the world far behind. We both enjoy the climax; Our bodies pressed as if we are one; All we know now is each other; And we make love up 'til dawn."

Thursday,Jun 9 2005, 05:26:04 PMVibrating Condom Ring

 

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Thursday,Jun 9 2005, 05:17:51 PMUse condoms!!

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