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Teacher Who Had Sex with Student Arrested Again

Blog posted by CFlower , 12/5/2007 (www.gabbybabble.com)

Debra Lafave, who was convicted of having sex with a 14-year-old student was arrested on Tuesday for "inappropriate but non-sexual contact" with a teenage coworker. The Hillsborough County Sheriff's Office reported that she

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1/1/2008 6:17 AM
Dan, 17
Kamloops, British Columbia
Canada

/facepalm

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You lot that agree to this are just as SICK as the teacher!!
12/6/2007 6:04 PM
Mark, 47
United Kingdom

Damn you people that think this is ok! Eigher way you look at it, it is sex with an underage kid. I agree with my mate (Funkorelic.) If this has been a male teacher hitting on a younger female pupil (Student, or whatever you want to call it) and if it had been 1 of your own children no doubt your views would be lot lot different to what they are now. (Or would they?) Which comes to my next 2 questions.) Who's the pedo's out of you lot, and like my good friend says- are you on drugs!! And yes the Us has got some stupid laws admittedly.. 17 years- a minor!! Over here 16 is the legal age for consent to have sex. Under that age in any country i agree should be against the law.

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Who da FUNK is FINKORELIC??
12/7/2007 1:16 AM
FUNKORELIC, 50
Derby
United Kingdom

Well Mark, not quite as subtle as my approach to this subject, but for some reason even your reply has not stopped the comments & replies of condonation in favour of this sex offender! So I now post this for all to read.

I was not fully informed of all the facts regarding this case prior to first reading the topic, but having now researched quite a few news articles about it, I now know exactly what I knew when I posted my first reply, in that I was fully justified in what I said. The basis of this tragic and equally disgusting story according to most news articles is that in 2004 Debra Lafave was accused of having sex with a 14-year-old boy both at the Greco Middle Schools in Temple Terrace, where she taught reading, and also in a car driven by the student's cousin in Ocala. The teenage victim told investigators that he and Lafave got to know each other during a class trip in May, and their sexual relationship began June 3. Sometime prior to the trial, her attorney told the judge that to give the court a true sense of the case, that in the near future he anticipated and planned to file a notice of insanity plea as a defense strategy for Lafave, and that there was some work being done by a doctor. Allegedly Lafave has some profound emotional issues that are not her fault. And her attorney also said that he thought once anyone reads what the doctors have to say, they will understand a lot more about what happened. One factor that her defense were considering was to invoke an insanity plea because of the recent trauma Lafave's family had been through at that time. Her pregnant sister was killed in a drunken driving accident three years before she committed these offences, and that Lafave was in court for the driver's trial alongside the rest of her family. And apparently, Lafave also blamed her prior mistakes of sex offending to bipolar disorder, which is associated with intense and irregular mood swings, along with hypersexuality and poor judgment during manic episodes. The trial was originally scheduled for December 6th 2004, but a delay was requested by her attorney. Prosecutors said at the time that the new defense tactic could push the trial back quite a few months. Lafave was released on bail and was suspended without pay from the school where she worked. If convicted, she could have faced up to 15 years in prison and a $10,000 fine on each of the FIVE charges against her. Lafave was also facing possible similar charges in Marion County in connection with the alleged incident in the car in Ocala. At her trial she dropped the insanity ploy and pleaded guilty to two charges of lewd and lascivious battery in November 2004, and she got off quite lightly with a sentence of three years of house arrest and a seven year probation order, the conditions of which she has subsequently broken.
Lafave is at present working as a receptionist in her mothers barbershop in Ruskin, where she now lives, and is also attending a sex-offender treatment programme and is said to be making steady progress. She could face up to 15 years in prison for her probation violation.

WELL THAT'S THE FACTS OF THE CASE AS FAR AS I AM AWARE. (Please notify me if you're reading this and know of any mistakes).

As for the people who have posted comments that condone this peadophile and her sexual criminal offences, or those who choose to make excuses for her behaviour because you may think she has some traumatic baggage from her past, please bear in mind these few things. Victims of sexual abuse are not forced to disclose what has happened to them, and I'm quite sure that they would find it to be as equally traumatic in disclosure as the actual abuse itself. Given the fact that the insanity plea was dropped, it must have seemed a complete waste of time by her defence that she would be acquitted if they pursued it. But then we all know how 'fucked up' the U.S. law is regarding plea bargains etc. Could someone answer this for me, does everyone who has had a close family member killed by a drunk-driver, or even in some other more sadistic manner, go out and sexually abuse children, I don't think so. It is purely and simply the choice of an adult to do that. As the 14 year old victim will rightly so never be named, we therefore do not know how this experience has affected him, and I would ask you to question your own distorted thinking if you can only assume that he wanted this to happen to him, and that he is not damaged in anyway.
But don't take my word for it, read these facts:-

http://www.emaxhealth.com/22/18724.html

Children and teens are effected mentally and physically by sexual, emotional and physical abuse.
While the case of Debra Lafave this time is about a probation violation, what about the mental and physical effects of child and teenage sexual abuse?
Sexual abuse affects at least one of every 10 families in the United States. In Missouri, more than 2,100 cases are reported each year, but it is estimated that nine in 10 cases are never reported.
Any sexual contact between an adult and an unconsenting person is considered abuse and any sexual contact between an adult and a minor, regardless of consent, is abuse. Sexual abuse also includes indecent exposure, pornography, obscene phone calls, or exposure to sexual acts.
Like rape, sexual abuse is a form of violence. It effects span generations with many victims of childhood sexual abuse experiencing emotional problems years later as adults.
Some of the physical effects of sexual abuse are immediately apparent and can include bruises, cuts, burns, injury to genitals, damage to reproductive and other internal organs, pregnancy, and sexually transmitted diseases.
The psychological effects of sexual abuse may appear immediately, but often are delayed. Sexual abuse can destroy trust and warp the victim's perception of a normal, loving relationship. Victims frequently feel they are at fault for the abuse and have low self-esteem. These feelings can lead to depression, eating and sleeping disorders, and suicide attempts.
Victims may fall into a pattern of searching out marital and sexual partners who abuse them. They may find it difficult to form meaningful and lasting relationships with members of the opposite sex or to have normal sexual relations. They may use sex to gain attention or affection and may see themselves worthy only as sex objects.
Victims also resort to defense mechanisms to blot the incidents from their mind. These repressed feelings of anger and guilt may lead to physical and psychological problems. Physically, repressed feelings may cause ulcers, colitis, and migraine headaches, for example.
Psychologically, repressed memories of abuse may resurface as symptoms of other mental illnesses. Unless a history of abuse is revealed, a victim may be treated for a mental illness while the real cause of the symptoms goes untreated.

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Re: WHO THE HELL IS FINKORELIC??
12/7/2007 10:11 AM
Mark, 47
United Kingdom

Lol, sorry Mick. Look, have changed it to your correct nickname. Indeed I agree with your latest post too. So much of what you say is so damn true.

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lol
12/6/2007 1:11 PM
Walter, 105
Washington
United States

the funny thing is the only reason she's arrested was cause she was talking to a minor co-worker(17 yrs old..female) UNSUPERVISED! which for like no reason goes against her probation.

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12/6/2007 11:05 AM
Psykryph, 106
Guangzhou, Guangdong
China

Hahah, I'd do her....I wish she was the one who "abused" me. I think abuse should be based on what the "abused" has to say about it. If that boy had no problem with it, I don't really think it's abuse.

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12/6/2007 9:36 AM
Vuk, 21
Beograd
SERBIA

Oh, come on, do you really think that this boy is in any way damaged by having slept with his teacher? Jeez, I remember when I was 14, I had a couple of hot teachers, if only they were so horny :)

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lol
12/6/2007 7:57 AM
simo, 23
Charlotte, North Carolina
United States

i thought in some cultures the 14y old student would get arrested instead.lol

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whoa
12/6/2007 7:03 AM
jang, 20
Makati City
Philippines

maybe she was rejected or maybe she was also abused in her childhood days...

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really look at her!
12/6/2007 4:56 AM
Rhonda, 38
Kamloops, British Columbia
Canada

No woman of advanced age should sleep with a teen. I am an older woman that gets alot of offers from teens, and although flattering, I turn them down. Guys my own age, don't pay me any attention so I understand how it happens. It is still wrong.

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Female Nonce.....
12/6/2007 4:16 AM
FUNKORELIC, 50
Derby
United Kingdom

Having just read a few replies to this topic, in which some of you men have made it quite obvious that you think it's ok for this woman to have sexually abused this 14 year old boy, I wonder if your attitude would be any different if it was a male teacher and a 14 year old girl, perhaps even one of your own relations. So in calling the boy a 'Lucky Dog' & wishing she was your teacher, or that you had one like her when you was at school, I have only one thing to ask you......
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sex age regs
12/6/2007 3:20 AM
Grant, 55
Mexico

Stupid pious US laws against nature, hang the law makers!!!!!

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