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Monday,Jul 18 2005, 06:30:12 AMtRuTh AbOuT LoVinG
tRuTh AbOuT LoVinG
Message: PaSaLaMaTaN m0 ang mga ta0ng NaKaSaKiT
say0... Bakit kaya minsan ang sarap
magmahal kahit
walang kapalit..?naisip mo na un?kala mo okey
lang..pero sobrang hirap; to mga
tanong..realization nalang;
Masarap magmahal hindi ba? Kahit ikaw hindi ka
sigurado sa pag-ibig na taong mahal na mahal
mo.
Minsan iniisip mo nalang na pag dating ng
tamang
panahon magiging maayos din ang lahat. Sana
nga!
ng hindi ka naman mukhang tanga na umaasa sa
wala.
Minsan din ang sarap sarap isipin na minamahal
ka ng taong mahal mo..! yung tipong..kayo nalang
sana at hindi ang babaeng nakikita mong
kasama nya; na masaya at kala ang buong
mundo ay
kanilang kanila;
Minsan din ang sarap bumalik sa nakaraan yung
tipong..masaya pa kayo, parang mga batang
walang problema..kung meron man parang;
against all
odds; ang settings; pero may nakabitin parin
tanong..ano kayang nangyari?;
pero ang kadalasang kasagutan..e.
1.kasi di pala kami para sa isat-isa;
2. Nagkamali ako sa kanya;
3. iniwan lang nya ko ;
4. may iba na syang mahal;
5. niloko lang nya ko;
6. Di ako gusto ng parents nya;
7.ayoko na puro nalang kami away;
8.masyado nya kong sinasaktan;
9.nagsawa na sya sakin;
pero ito pinaka masakit;.
10.hindi pala nya talaga ako mahal,
(parang panakip butas,)
grabehan hindi ba? Pero kailan
kaya natin maririnig na nagpapasalamat ang
isang umiibig sa taong nakasakit at sinaktan sya;
minsan naisip din kaya natin na ;kung ano ang
kahalagahan ng isang bagay? Yung kailangang
bigyan ng halaga habang nandyan pa!minsan
kasi saka lang natin nalalaman ang isang worth
ng
isang bagay pag wala nato satin..!
kaya minsan din isipin natin yung mga sinasabi ,
kinikilos , ginagawa natin kasi hindi lahat ng
tao kayang tanggapin kung ano at paano natin
ginagawa ang isang bagay..!subukan nating
magpasalamat sa kabila ng lahat;
A. kung sinaktan ka nya..magpasalamat ka dahil
sya ang dahilan para tumibay ka;
B.kung niloko ka nya..patawarin mo at
pasalamatan mo..dahil kung hindi sa kanya hindi
mo mararamdam ang sakit na pwede ding
maramdaman
ng iba..atleast hindi mo gagawain sa iba;
C.kung hindi ka nya minahal..pasalamatan mo!
dahil atleast kahit papano nafeel mo na minahal
ka nya kahit hindi; pasalamat sya dahil ikaw
minahal mo sya ng buong buo;
minsan kailangan lang natin harapin kung ano
man ang nakasakit sa atin..piliting
kalimutan..piliting harapin; kung ano ang
noon..noon lang yun; iba ang ngayon..!dahil kung
nasaktan ka man noon;ngayon magiingat kana
at alam mo na kung ano dapat at hindi para hindi
masaktan.
mahalin mo ang mga taong nakasakit sayo dahil
sila ang dahilan para maging matibay ka!para sa
susunod di kana basta basta; di padalos dalos.
pasalamatan mo ang taong nakasakit sayo..
sino ba ang mas mahalaga, ang taong mahal mo
o ang taong gusto mong mahalin?
ang taong kasama mo buong araw o ang taong
iniicip mo bago matapos ang araw?
siya bang kasakasama mo sa lhat ng ginagawa
mo o siyang dahilan ng lahat ng galaw at
ginagawa mo?
sino ba ang mas mhalaga...ung taong nais mong
makasama habang buhay o ung taong hindi mo
makita ang habang buhay kapag wala cya?
cno ang mas matimbang...ung taong pag kasama
mo'y parang kay bilis ng oras o ung taong tuwing
iniicp mo'y parang kay bagal ng oras?
ano ang susundin mo...ang dinidikta mo sa puso
mo o ang dinidikta ng puso mo syo?
sya ba un laging pumapasok sa icp mo o cya un
laging laman ng panaginip mo?
cno nga ba...ang taong nagpaluha syo, o ang
taong nagpunas sa minsang pagluha mo?
cno sa kanila...ang taong nagpapatawa syo o ang
taong dahilan ng lahat ng iyong emosyon?
cno nga bang pipiliin mo??? ANG TAONG
MULING NAGBUKAS NG PUSO MO...O ANG
TAONG MATAGAL NG NANDOON?
Monday,Jul 18 2005, 06:27:16 AMThings learned from intergender friendships:
Things learned from intergender friendships: THE PREMISE of this article lies on the principle that sometimes, loving a person doesn't mean it has to be romantic and loving a person for the rest of your life doesn't mean you have to end up marrying them. Can a man and a woman just be friends? I'd say yes and they should be. Hindi dahil kinaibigan ka, liligawan ka na. Not every guy who befriends you has an ulterior motive. Get over yourself. Don't flatter yourself. There is a reason why he befriended you, but don't automatically assume that it's because he wants to be your so-called boyfriend. If this will be the principle you'll follow every time someone asks you to be his friend, you're gonna miss a great deal from the friendship. Hindi dahil mabait sa iyo, nililigawan ka na. There are people who are naturally sweet and kind. There are people who are innately good and no matter how wicked you seem, they just find it so easy to be kind to you. It doesn't mean he is courting you. Don't put yourself through unnecessary stress trying to figure out if he's courting you or not. Because I think if he is, you won't have to guess, you'll know and you'll be very certain about it. Hindi dahil he talks to you a lot, he loves you na. You don't befriend a person if you absolutely abhor him, right? Chances are you make sense when he talks to you, or you're probably very patient listening to him. The two of you probably connect on some level but why does it always have to be assumed to be romantic? Being two intelligent, mature human beings, you need to accept that it's nice to share a cup of coffee over a stimulating conversation, and that you don't have to automatically put romantic connotation to it. Relieve yourself of the pressure. It's just coffee and a shared interest. Hindi dahil cute ang friend mo, crush/love mo na siya. This is the most amusing thing that hit me lately. People always assume that because your friend is cute or should I say, hot (because cute is a word you describe your high school crush while hot is a word you use to describe a hunk), "lakas amats mo na for repapips!" Let me just say this, at least from my own personal experience, I'm just nearsighted, I haven't gone blind. I can still appreciate God's creation! However, there will always be weird things, crazy things, stupid things that will keep you, believe me, from having a crush on him. First of all, you'd know his history with women, enough to judge what's good for you. Second, don't you just hate it when a guy who's absolutely always put together, who looks intelligent enough pronounces the word country as "kawntri" and the word mango as "meynggo." Call me crazy for judging a person just because he can't pronounce these words right. I admit, I'm crazy. Hindi dahil you hang out with each other most of the time, you'd end up being boyfriend-girlfriend. Self-explanatory... There are a thousand, no million different reasons why things don't always turn out that way. There is no one proven formula. For all we know, the reason why he likes hanging out with you is because he likes getting kikay tips from you. He probably plans on being kikay himself and he needs a mentor. A dinner with a guy friend does not necessarily mean equate to a date. Especially if you're paying for your share no. Hello? Three things to consider: the place, the topic and how the two of you actually planned to meet. First, how it was planned. If it were a date expect that he would ask you out at least three days before the actual date to give you some lead time, to give you the notion that you are not just a filler on his schedule. Second, the place. If it were a real date, the both of you would want real food and a place where you could really talk things through. Don't go out with a guy to a movie on Friday night if you're really serious about him. Going to a movie is more like treating him like a "filler" just because you had nothing to do on a Friday night so you might as well go out. Topic. Ha! You wouldn't be talking about chikang artista, chikang opisina or argue if the one girl's boobs are real or not. You would be probably talking about sensible, quite personal stuff. "I therefore conclude that platonic relationships are never complicated;people just have tendencies to complicate them."
THE PREMISE of this article lies on the principle that sometimes, loving a person doesn't mean it has to be romantic and loving a person for the rest of your life doesn't mean you have to end up marrying them. Can a man and a woman just be friends? I'd say yes and they should be.
Hindi dahil kinaibigan ka, liligawan ka na. Not every guy who befriends you has an ulterior motive. Get over yourself. Don't flatter yourself. There is a reason why he befriended you, but don't automatically assume that it's because he wants to be your so-called boyfriend. If this will be the principle you'll follow every time someone asks you to be his friend, you're gonna miss a great deal from the friendship.
Hindi dahil mabait sa iyo, nililigawan ka na. There are people who are naturally sweet and kind. There are people who are innately good and no matter how wicked you seem, they just find it so easy to be kind to you. It doesn't mean he is courting you. Don't put yourself through unnecessary stress trying to figure out if he's courting you or not. Because I think if he is, you won't have to guess, you'll know and you'll be very certain about it.
Hindi dahil he talks to you a lot, he loves you na. You don't befriend a person if you absolutely abhor him, right? Chances are you make sense when he talks to you, or you're probably very patient listening to him. The two of you probably connect on some level but why does it always have to be assumed to be romantic? Being two intelligent, mature human beings, you need to accept that it's nice to share a cup of coffee over a stimulating conversation, and that you don't have to automatically put
romantic connotation to it. Relieve yourself of the pressure. It's just coffee and a shared interest.
Hindi dahil cute ang friend mo, crush/love mo na siya. This is the most amusing thing that hit me lately. People always assume that because your friend is cute or should I say, hot (because cute is a word you describe your high school crush while hot is a word you use to describe a hunk), "lakas amats mo na for repapips!" Let me just say this, at least from my own personal experience, I'm just nearsighted, I haven't gone blind. I can still appreciate God's creation! However, there will always be weird things, crazy things, stupid things that will keep you, believe me, from
having a crush on him. First of all, you'd know his history with women, enough to judge what's good for you. Second, don't you just hate it when a guy who's absolutely always put together, who looks intelligent enough pronounces the word country as "kawntri" and the word mango as "meynggo." Call me crazy for judging a person just because he can't pronounce these words right. I admit, I'm crazy.
Hindi dahil you hang out with each other most of the time, you'd end up being boyfriend-girlfriend. Self-explanatory... There are a thousand, no million different reasons why things don't always turn out that way. There is no one proven formula. For all we know, the reason why he likes hanging out with you is because he likes getting kikay tips from you. He probably plans on being kikay himself and he needs a mentor.
A dinner with a guy friend does not necessarily mean equate to a date. Especially if you're paying for your share no. Hello? Three things to consider: the place, the topic and how the two of you actually planned to meet. First, how it was planned. If it were a date expect that he would ask you out at least three days before the actual date to give you some lead time, to give you the notion that you are not just a filler on his schedule. Second, the place. If it were a real date, the both of you would want real food and a place where you could really talk things through. Don't go out with a guy to a movie on Friday night if you're really serious about him. Going to a movie is more like treating him like a "filler" just because you had nothing to do on a Friday night so you might as well go out. Topic. Ha! You wouldn't be talking about chikang artista, chikang opisina or argue if the one girl's boobs are real or not. You would be probably talking about sensible, quite personal stuff.
"I therefore conclude that platonic relationships are never complicated;people just have tendencies to complicate them."