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drunkeneyes if uv been hurt by d person u luv, dnt hurt him in return.Prove 2 him dat he was wrong 2 let u go. Eventually he'll be hurt, realizing wat a fool he was 2 let sum1 lyk u slip frm his grip...

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  • About me:thE tEst oF fRiEndsHip dOseN't cOmeS wHen u R 2GethEr. It cOmEs wHeN u ParT waYs & u ReaLizE tHat dEsPitE tHe dIsTanCe, thE fRiEndshIp iS sTilL tHeRe... - -True friends are like Diamonds... they are real and rare. False friends are like leaves... they are scattered everywhere. - -FRIENDSHIP isn't how U forGet but how U forGive, Not how U liSten but how U UnderStand, Not what U see but how U feel, and not how U Let Go but how U hold oN!!! - -FriEndSHiP iS A PRiCeLeSs GiFt tHaT cAn'T Be BoUgHt Or SoLd, BuT To Have An UnDeRsTaNdiNg FriEnd iS FaR MoRe WoRtH tHaN GoLd~! - -If you need advice, text me... If you need a friend, call me... If you need me, come to me... If you need money... ........... THE SUBSCRIBER CANNOT BE REACHED! - -FRIENDSHIP is like a tree... It is not MEASURED on how TALL it could be, but is on how DEEP the ROOTS HAVE GROWN...Without courage, life is hard. Without love, life is hopeless. Without friends like you, life is impossible! - -this WORLD, where everything seems UNCERTAIN, only one thing is DEFINITE. You'll always be my FRIEND, beyond WORDS, beyond TIME & beyond DISTANCE! - -I believe in angels, the kind that heaven sends. I'm surrounded by angels but I call them my best friends. -Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was choice, but falling in love with you was completely out of my control. - -A memory lasts forever, and never does it die. True friends stay together and never say good bye. - -The ship that will never sink is my friendship with you. -I met U as a stranger, I leave U as a friend, as long as the world stands, our friendship nv ends. All friends nv split N even if they do they will meet again. - -I always thought loving some1 was the greatest feeling, but I realised tat loving a friend is even better, we lose ppl we love but we never lose true friends. - -EveRyDay I seE LoTs oF StRangErS PasSiNg By mE, ThiS mAkeS mE reAlisED tHat, LifE woUlD be BORING, WiThoUt A FriEnD LiKE U...- -DuRiNg OuR FrIeNdShIp, ThErE wIlL B TiMeS U wOn't SeE Me BeSiDe U, DuN ThInK I LeFt U BeHiNd, I JuSt ChOsE To WaLk BeHiNd U So I CaN CaTcH U WhEn U Fall...

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    Please pray tell what would you say
    if I were just to go away
    no note no trace no lipstick letter
    or maybe I could do on better,
    Maybe I could just erase
    everthing that all took place
    all the sadness all the pain
    I brought to you than who'd you blame,
    Without me here would you be sad
    or would it all just make you mad
    that I left without a fair goodbye
    without a chance for us to cry,
    For then no longer you'd demand
    for that one hundreth second chance
    as I'd be gone and you'd be here
    for then you must address your fears,
    I would no longer play the enablers role
    the one that keeps you "sane and whole"
    I would no longer be your glue
    that pieced together what we knew,
    So I shall leave no bow of grace
    I really must and hence save face
    as pride is ragged and barely there
    I cannot cry or shed a tear,
    I leave you with what you once said
    that you could henceforth wish me dead
    so hence don't cry or give a damn
    as when you read this to you I am.

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    Understand death has no use for time.
    No time is any better, any worse.
    Cancel twenty years or eighty-nine,
    Love's a loss one cannot reimburse.
    Each of us lives for an eternity,
    Dying only after our forever.
    Early or late, we vanish equally,
    All unconscious of the ties we sever,
    No longer either separate or together.

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    You killed yourself and didn't think of me.
    I can't blame you for that, and yet I do,
    What agony impelled you not to be?
    I loved you-wasn't that enough for you?
    Nor saw through my eyes what you made me see,
    Nor cared about my life when yours was through.
    And I must fight to keep my sanity,
    For what you did defines what must be true:
    I cannot think you did it selfishly;
    So great a sacrifice leaves nothing due.
    And I must sail across that bitter sea
    That leaves no trace of joy or residue.
    You killed yourself and didn't think of me,

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    When I was walking in the street, looking to my feet,
    Don't where I’m going or what I need,
    I saw lonely leaf seems like to me,
    So dry so shy, begin 2 die,
    Can’t fly, can’t do anything just cry.
    I looked at it, and keept asking why?
    Every one walk on it, and don’t care,
    About what it feels, there’s no fair.
    Always watching the leafs like it on the tree,
    Keep asking why I am not free.
    So dry so shy, begin 2 die,
    Can’t fly can’t do anything just cry.
    Why me always can’t find someone 2 share love with.

    It was all time there, and always think,
    Until that man, his heart seems pink,
    He picked it up 2 his home,
    His heart was his home with the smill of freedom,
    The place was safe, love wave, white cave,
    Where was a lot of dead happy leafs are prave,
    No more dry, no more shy, begin 2 fly,
    no fear 2 die , can do anything but cry.

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    How do you rid memories of the years past?
    To burn away thoughts of those you no longer want to remember.
    Is it easy to forget?

    She walks out tonight with her pen and paper in her hand,
    crying because she thought of him again.
    She wants to call her mom but its been years since they laid her down.
    She still remembers that day, and watching the coffin go down in the cold,
    cold, dark ground.

    She sits down on the edge of the couch,
    She started crying now,
    Takes a deep breath and looks around.

    “This isn’t the way I wanted my life to be,
    I wanted more adventure, more me,
    More of what I got now.”

    She looks around again, and starts to giggle,
    “I forgot there isn’t even anyone to listen to my sorrows.”
    As she Takes up her paper and pen,
    holds in her hand so tight,
    Closes her eyes and starts to write.

    I want to forget everything,
    her thoughts running through her mind,
    I want to go back,
    rewind time.

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    My eyes are the mirror to my soul
    touch the glass, it’s hard and cold
    It show no emotion, just what you want to see
    it doesn’t show my life, no faded memories
    the more speak, the more it breaks
    blinding pain, it’s more than i can take
    i close my eyes so you can’t see
    the things that make me whole, the pain and misery
    i step back and turn away
    you’ll never know what i tried to say.
  • Language:English, Arabic
  • Interests:Making Friends
  • Places I've Traveled To:Bahrain, Dubai
  • I'm looking for:Good Friends :)
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Monday,May 11 2009, 05:37:41 PMWhen and Why Do People Cheat? Is It Ever O.k?

This topic sort of came up in another thread about what constitutes cheating. As I read through the posts there, it wasn't really a question of what was or wasn't cheating. Everyone seems to have a pretty good idea of when they are crossing a line. It was really more a question of whether or not crossing that line is reasonable or justified based on a given situation.
In my view (and opposing views are welcome) there are two main categories of people who cheat with various subcategories below them:
- Sport
- Loneliness
The first category is really made up of people who enjoy the thrill of the chase; finding something new. They either enjoy, or need, to feel attractive and desired or have the need to conquer and succeed with the opposite sex. No comment here on whether this is right or wrong, just the motivations behind it. It is what it is.

Most of the people that I've met here, if not all, fall into the latter category. It isn't that they are selfish or gluttonous people. They don't want "more", they want "some". They've simply found themselves in a relationship that has left them isolated. And most have made various attempts at improving that relationship and only begin to consider looking outside of the relationship out of desperation. These are not "bad" people. They are simply hurting and want the hurt to stop.
This is a symptom of a larger problem, or set of problems. In our society, we make life-long promises when we get married with no room for revision as people grow and change...and then people grow and change. And, for many people, the problems begin there. Again, no comment on whether this practice is good or bad. It is what it is.

Is it wrong that one person in a marriage no longer wants physical intimacy? No. People who lose their sex drive are not malicious or sadistic. They may be depressed, have physical problems or have simply lost interest.
Is it wrong that the other person does still want physical intimacy? No. Feeling what you did when you became married is supposed to be the norm. It's part of the initial, albeit lofty, goal of having and holding each other forever.
What's wrong (unfair, unbalanced, etc.) is that one of those people is content and the other is not and the construct doesn't allow for this situation. Someone is left feeling alone and neglected, without any "acceptable" recourse outside of quiet desperation. Good, bad - right, wrong - that can't last. Chastity wasn't part of the deal.

Is cheating reasonable or justified in those situations? I think it's a slippery slope to say that it's ever really "o.k." In fact, it's a symptom that something bigger is very much not o.k. Is it reasonable? Absolutely. There is nothing unreasonable when someone is hungry and seeks food, or thirsty and seeks water or cold and puts on warmer clothing. When humans are uncomfortable, they seek comfort. And no matter how carefully you construct formal rules for marriage in a society, a lonely person will desire comfort. The problem is that they are lonely in what should be the cure for being alone - marriage. Solve that, and cheating won't be an issue.

For me, I think that finding comfort in the arms of another woman would be completely reasonable. But I also know that it would only medicate the symptoms and create new side-effects. I'd have two incomplete relationships and bring a third party into my hurt. It is possible for that to work to the advantage of everyone involved, but that certainly would be the exception to the rule.
Do you cheat? If so, how did you end up where you are? And is it helping or hurting you? I'm not sure if there are "right" or "wrong" answers here. Just people with problems, trying to find solutions.

Sunday,May 10 2009, 05:09:52 PMRight Now

I feel like my life is going absoloutely nowhere and I have noone to turn to for help.
I have the most amazing friends (one of the VERY few positive aspects of my life) but one of them is increasingly becoming worse with her self harm. I so desperately want her to get better..but its making me worse,but I just dont know what to do anymore.
I hate that I always feel alone. Im a failure and a liability.

when will it

Thursday,May 7 2009, 01:09:04 PMTHE STORY OF MY LIFE

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach a lesson or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be (possibly your roomate, neighbor, coworker, long-lost friend, lover or even a complete stranger) but when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment they will affect your life in some profound way. And sometimes things happen to you that may seem horrible, painful, and unfair at first but in reflection ...

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roro1234
ronay 29, Jabriya, Kuwait
على فكرة ذوقك على جدا فى اختيار الاغنيه بجد روعه
طلب اكيد سمعتيه قبل كدة كتير
ممكن اكون صديق صغير ولا طلبى مستحيل

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romianto
ram 21, Cairo, Egypt
hi whats up

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faisalsultan
friend 23, Salmiya, Kuwait
i m male, single, english speaking, never married, new in kuwait lawyer want a good n nice n decent friend in salmyia r kuwait.
55648107
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11/3/2009 4:33 PMhello

cleverbk
nate 25, fes, Morocco
hi how are you? im looking for a woman who is ready to be my friend and to learn from each other so if you accept me as a friend please send me your email id or i ll send you mine have a good time

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GURI 24, Ahmadi, Kuwait
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". KhALeD ( 23, Port Said, Egypt
how r u ? have nice time :)
im khaled 23 y single and working
, can we be friends ?

10/31/2009 11:49 AMالسلام عليكم

l69l69l69l69l
Saudi Arabia 34, Riyadh, Saudi Arabia
السلام عليكم

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مساء النور والإحساس

مساء الورد والود

هل بإمكانك تقرئين بياناتي المتواضعة

فإن أعجبتكي ونالت استحسانكي .. أضفيني

وإن لم تنل استحسانكي .. فيا ليتكي تخبريني بالخلل الذي عندي

تقبلي فائق احترامي وتحياتي

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10/21/2009 9:23 AMwhen

newfdkwt
addy 32, Kuwait, Kuwait
hey there how ru ...when r v goin to chat,,,,newfd@Msn.com..add me..or k2nanga@yahoo.com..peace

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addy 32, Kuwait, Kuwait
i am so waiting,,,,,,,when do we chat????

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addy 32, Kuwait, Kuwait
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