Do you actually think that .....

its not that bad to accept them,so if you noticed that he/she not good enough after you accepted you can easilly delet them too.

well thats sort of true , but I think I prefer to know that person first before sending them a request .

yea ,good...i dont have time knowing them ,time consuming..its tired b4 to to receive lots of friend request and msgs.so start from now never online w/ my pic..

well i dun add somebody who never tal to me before.,
but i will add them when i kno they are m frens' fren also..

i dont accept any1 who dont talk to me

i used o just add ppl wen i was new here but then started getting abuse asking y add them if im married etc so now make it clear b4 i add anyone i want friends only nothing more

You're making a big deal out of it really.

People do it all the time.
Some are probably quite genuine and are mainly NEW members of Zorpia, and the see people's profiles and think they'd like to get to know that person. Others are just wanting a huge list of friends.
I do not accept new friends unless I have at least started to get to know them.
Nor should any one.
I keep a back log of applicants in case they do become friends to accept later. (heheh I must slim them down again it is nearly 50 lol)
*SMILES*