BE HONEST. What is your first thought when you see..

I feel sorry for them. It is not their fault, but they can do something about it.

yea it's not their fault,its the foods fault, or the resto/fastfood chain if you will:-P

Not that either. Maybe their body stores fat easier, maybe it is harder to lose the weight, whatever it is, I feel bad for them. It takes a lot of motivation to even lose two kg let alone 20. It must be very hard for them.

you said its not their fault but then said they could do something about it so if they can do something about it it is their fault

It isn't their fault that they put on weight. Everyone does. If you want to change that is up to you. Get me now?

i should have read on before i replied hehe , well first of all i wasnt criticizing what you said ;)
I have always been a little chubby and i never was a big candy eater to say it like that.. well i dont know where i got it from.. you should see my brothers .. they are really the opposite of me.. they live on candy, cookies, soda and junkfood and they are underweight ... one of them even has a BMI of 17!!

My brother is that way just naturally skinny.
i have to put a lot of work into keeping myself up physically.
personally i dont want rock hard abs and the like i want to be able to perform so i can do my job thats about it

Ok so that is why you insulted me based on my weight is it?????????

You are a fatso. Do not f*c* with me again, pig.

Listen you think a silly blonde wanna be wag can tell me what to think or say?

you do not bother me, you may of won by turning Richard against me but you know what's real.

so i will say what i wish.

how thick can you be coming into this topic lol..

two face tell me what does weight have to do with anything!!! really you have lost.

Hahahahaahahahahaha

BIGGEST JOX!!!

You always find me and always reply even though I dont come here very often anymore, you still reply to try and show people how tough you are because I wont reply to you.

Have an apple, apparently they are good for you and you wont put on weight...

You know it's true lol.. stupid Bitch.

But you are replying thicko...

Chunky:-)

Better than BITCHY LOL..

how are you ?

well yes they can do something about it ofcourse :) but its not that easy.. to be honest im fat -_- and i have been on a diet for like 2 months and i cant seem to lose much and i dont eat fastfood at all anymore, mostly salads, not much meat, etc and healthy alternatives and i do more exercising... and well i dont know it's not really helping me till now.. so its not like fat people dont want to change how they look , sometimes its just not that easy :(

Actually, it's good that you aren't losing weight quickly. Most often, if the weight comes off quickly it will come back quickly too. But if you are losing a little at a time, that indicates that your diet and lifestyle is healthy (like, not a crash diet, which is very unhealthy). Just keep at it and don't give up, and you are more likely to keep the weight off.

aww thank u :D i'm still holding on .. cause i really want to lose weight ; its just when some weeks pass and i dont lose or gain it just gets me down.. but ill make it :D

Yeah, you will. Keep that attitude. And if you are reducing the size of your meals, remember to take vitamins. You can do it, don't give up. :)

thanks :D

Welcome :)

Ok sometimes it really isn't their fault and sometimes it is. Some people just naturally get over weight because of their biological makeup. But some people do eat too much and don't exercise enough.
I have been chubby most of my life and it is a constant struggle for me to look good. I exercise everyday until I'm about to drop over. I only eat once a day. I never eat junk food unless it's like someone's birthday party. And still I can gain weight. I tried dieting the right way. Eatting all the right things and know what? I gained weight! So, slowly I started cutting out the food and increasing the exercise until I finally started losing some pounds. I just have to eat bearly enough to survive.... which sucks...

omg why they fat....and than i realize maybe is just not their fault

looks doesnt matter ,,..good heart is best.

Atherosclerosis is caused by fat and can cause blood clots in the heart leading to heart attack.

ohhh my hubby too fat now,afraid..i mean good heart is nice attitude,,thats why i say even fat i like them.if their nice

Tell him to lose weight :)

ok,..lazy exercise...eat lot.sleep lot when weekend.

Sounds more like something I'd want to do.

hehehehe,hey,..love him ...were only cold sometimes but am happy w/ him.and want to add girls jokeeeeeeee

some of us fat people have very good cholesterol levels

yea,my hubby dont eat meat mostly vegetables ...seems even fat ,,seems good health too.only exercise lazy

I exercise regularly, but still fat... but my cholesterol, blood pressure, etc are all good, so I don't care! :)

yea sometimes fat more healthy that thin,,it depends really ...but greatest thing to do exercise....no vices..and be happy w/ friends.

agreed =D

So, you won't agree with me that obesity can contribute to a less healthy body. I seriously don't care what people look like (I think you know that), but I could say that some smoking people are in better physical condition than non-smokers. That's not quite what I meant though. But,.. I guess it doesn't matter :) *hugs*

i dont think so...maybe in their mind only to think smokers healthy...yea @ fisrt agree but later you can get sickness from smoking coz your putting lot nicotine in ur body not like non smokers,their safe,.unless they can get cancer from food they eat.

Yeah, thank you lol :D

iam smoking too...it stops when i get pregnant but it comesback,too hard to give up..i been stop 4 years then it comeback...

I quit for 4 years myself. Stopped smoking a few times. Now I tend to smoke on weekends only. I should try getting pregnant.

hehehehehehehe,yea i hate the smell,even toothpaste,perfume...i vomit when i brush my teeth b4 iam preegy

sure it CAN, but it doesn't ALWAYS... my mom has always been overweight, and she's 59, still with good cholesterol :)

try drink tea specially green tea then walk in the mall about one hour untill 3 hour drink more water its clean ur body plus try have some fruit daily instead of rice and fatty food try apple which clean ur kidney banana has substance that elemenate stomach acidity, papaya prevent asthma and has potential vitamins to make ur blood flow more healty, and most of all pineapple slice or orange contain vitamin c responsible to make ur body stronger and generate food activity faster cleans and digest all remaining fats inside your body..

thanks Lloyd, but I do most of that already... and no need to walk at the mall when I walk on the treadmill instead. Papaya isn't widely available here, I live in a small town, and our stores don't carry it often

For quite some time, I am overweight.
Since I was diagnosed with a high blood sugar, I decided to monitor my food intake.
I minimized my rice, before I use to eat 2 cups a meal (for three times a day) now it was down to 1 cup a day only.
I hate to look on my old pictures, I looked like a balloon lol.
Now I feel so confident of my self.

that's good sweetie, glad you're feeling better :)

Thanks.
I got headaches before I managed my food intake.
Got so dizzy..
lol

well, good thing you got that worked out... we don't need you running around Zorpia in a state of dizziness! :P

I have a highblood pressure too,YET I'am thin and young:'(

Maybe you got a problem w/ your lifestyle.

fat and phat sounds same

pretty hot and tempting :D

;)

Not much, I just see them as another person, why should I give a sh*t about their weight?

im second of dat

Hmmm. Even though I tell my daughters not to judge them, I guess I do.
I first feel sad. I think most people struggle with weight. Either with gaining or not being able to gain. If it is caused by a medical issue I am more apt to be empathetic. The truth of the matter is we all turn to something...booze,drugs,sex,pornography,money... to ease our pain. Overweight individuals (if not by medical reasons) are masking some sort of pain that they feel in their life by overeating.
Society says thin is "sexy". Thin is "pretty". I think we need to change our thinking. I know I need to. Hurting others to make yourself feel better is just another way to self medicate. I have been there. Even today.

i just wanna add,your daughter is pretty;-P

LOL...where did that come from??

from the bottom of my heart!haha

HaHa! Well thank you,from the bottom of mine!

does she have myspace?

LOL...I can't devoldge that information.

eh,its just the myspace,not like I'm asking your address:-P
anyways its all cool:-P

LOL...donno. She's seein some guy named Nic. Let me think about it.

depends most of the time...

Honestly,what in my thoughts are...prone to HTN,stroke, heart dses. and other complications...i really pity them...every1 is unique underwt. or over wt. some of them are good and some of them are'nt and dont just the book by its cover...

5 lbs can be "over weight" .. so exactly how much over are we talk'n... 10 lbs.. 100 lbs.. 200 lbs? .. decide that and i'll answer this question :D

Nothing, he/she is overweight. That's all really, I suppose.

just astonished!!

My thoughts are like everyone else "Haven't they heard of dieting?" I disagree when people say its not their fault. I didn't hold a gun to their head and make them eat 10 cheeseburgers. I see it as gluttony, a sin, as we are all sinners and equal in the eyes of the lord.

define overweight pls... for some anorexic models i might be overweight too so hmm i don't yell or react odd when i look at myself in the mirror... duh

it depends on what are they wearing.

Good point

I don't really think anything. I honestly don't. I just see them. Along with all the skinny, average etc people. They're just people...of all shapes and sizes. :/ i don't even know lol

There are so many overweight individuals all over the world that I don't give it much thought when I see one of them. Sometimes I think it has to do with hereditary or overeating but I do not dwell on any particular thought when a see an overweight person; some people are born like that.

nothing :O)

First tought is - Ppl with more weight that they should have... Perfectly normal...
Food suck by the way but we eat it anyway and thant ask our selves this question "Why I got sick, Why I have heart problems, Why I get weaker every day" etc And yes, what is inside matters the most and their way of living!

Watch this video pls...

well its really all about the persons metabolism, one person could eat heaps and then just not put on weight another could eat heaps and gain weight.
It takes some people alot of physical and emotional effort to lose weight.
I have a low metabolism so I have to work really hard if I want to lose weight, its hard to get used to but sometimes you just gotta live with it.
So yeah when you see an overweith individual just remember they might be trying there hardest and they dont need insults which will only hurt them and lower there self esteem, therefore they will not have the will to do anything.

I don't know, I don't really think anything. Nothing that sticks in my mind. My mind is busy all the time, so I don't notice much.

uhhmmm... they should do something about it... not only to look good but also for health purposes....