They (women), Sorry for not mentioning homosexuals, but I don't know enough about their rules but who knows, maybe it's simmilar as they are just a male body with a female brain. Anyway, women may say they see alot of things but when it comes down to it, purely from a biological standpoint, women see opposites and simmilarities.

What I mean to say is that women will go for someone with simmilar attractiveness and intellegence. However they will go for someone with a dissimmilar genetic structure and immune system, this ensures that their child will have a good genes and be immune against a wider array of diseases.

-James

huh? If i hv a bf now, I juz want to see his real self. No hiding, no lies. Just the true self. I'll appreciate it very much if anyone would do that..

Ah but. Would you really appreciate him telling you the truth.

For example, if you had just bought something really expensive, like a nice dress or something and he hated it and you asked his opinion, would you want him to tell you the truth? Or would you prefer he tell you a lie to keep you happy?

-James

Naturally, I wouldn't be happy. But yes, I would want the truth. I will treasure his honesty more. Just don't lie to me. Love isn't about constantly pleasing your other half. It's much more than that. Would you want ur partner to lie to u and finally bursting it out someday when things doesn't work out?

No, but us men don't feel that we can tell the truth all the time exactly because of situations like that. We often want to keep the peace, either for selfish or non selfish reasons.

-James

Well, u're probably right. I'm just not the kind of girl that will create havoc over some stupid but truthful comment. But i do agree that some girls are just too fragile to accept the truth.

Yeah, exactly. Thank you and you're pretty unique you know, I admire that :).

-James

Thnx. You're sweet too. =)

Thank you very much!

-James

well i want to see his loyality, sensitivity, care and of course his love not only for me but to my family members as well coz i'm very attached to my family.