why do we always hurt the ones we love?

dear, even i dont know why we need to suffer this kind of pain... untill we are living our heart will not stop beating...

If it is not a real lasting healthy relationship, then you should let it go and not dwell on it.
If the other person hurts you, then they were not really in love with you or true to you. OK so it hurt, now learn from the hurt and move right on along. Living well is best, do not let them continue to drag you down.

because the ones we love is the ones we expect less of doing what they do to us, which in turns ends up in hurt when we mess up in life

It is quite simple once we all come to an understanding. The problem is the extremities. We start holding up and starve the other, so as to choose the best. Thus the hunger in us builds up and so does the hunger in the other.

And the moment we like someone, we don't want to be without the person, since we dun wish to be on the search with hunger again. Thus we become possessive, in order not to lose the other and start closing all the slip roads to cage the person. The insecurity makes us call the person often to ensure sincerity and loyalty. Thus we start inflicting pain on the other.. even for small things, until it snaps..

This is not love, but possessiveness due to starvation.

One needs to give freedom to gain freedom.

There will be no rain, if we start bottling all the water. Lot is to let it evaporate and it will soon revert as showers.

confusion and incompatibility is the main factor to this kind of scenario...communication is the best cure to this kind of problems. and it must be always hot and burning with love,,,

We have small wewe in china

Poor Za3ror....
You do have abig dillema....small...whatever it is..and soo soo big wall....

it is human nature to be greedy

and it is greed which makes us hurt those we love

Everyone is a lil bit masochistic anti-social bastard.

even in the name of love../where we were all created....

ok...

hmmm
love dosnt hurt when u have the right person beside u...
u just have to choose right
=)

they are the ones closest to you.. so usually they are the ones that get hurt.. (closest to the bomb will be hurt the most yes?)

it isn't a matter of hurting , forgetting, or moving on...
can either one of these be avoided..?so ..happy all the time...

love makes us blind...we always overlook the bad things they possess..all of a sudden..we wake up....shattered...broken and used up...

don't fall in love...thats the best solution.
Love sucks big time!!

if u can teach ur heart not to fall...yes why not..
but the reality is....even if the brain is above the heart it is the heart that is always right...because it's always right.....hehe
yes ur right.....love makes us sick...

I have done that! I have tought my heart not to fall in love...
I am soo happy for that. I feel free and happy :)

No more rubbish for me..lolzz

welll...u can teach ur heart...i hope that others can do that too...hmmmm....how does it feel roshni without the love in ur heart...well..just asking.....no malicious thoughts ok..?

who knows..those who read ur comments will learn from them and will follow ur steps...

i think.....i still wanna fall in love...maybe...

I still have plenty of love in my heart...for my family...for friends...for people in need. I cuddle my nieces and nephews...my mum...my sisters...it feels like heaven. What I don't want anymore...to fall in love with a guy. Guys are troube...or perhaps I am trouble...lollzz. I am not a reltionship material...:)

To be honest...at the moment...for next 3 years I don't have time to fall in love with a guy...I am too much focused to my carreer...I don't have time to go through some silly meningless romantic whinings..:)

it's nice to hear that roshni..everything u said just right...we do love..but we also hurt the ones we love...our parents...brothers..sisters..family..we hurt them in different ways...
why do we do that...why do we hurt the ones we love...?is there really an answer to this question..?

Do we? I donno...
I never hurt people I love...lollzz
No...honestly...I don't. I get along with people well.

But in theory...I suppose...too much control nd possesiveness can creat problem. Jealousy, greed...u know the usual stuff.

yeah right..the usual stuff...

we live evryday of our lives trying to be perfect but still there are moments that we make mistakes n that create a problem between siblings..parents..friends...
n because of this...they r hurt in an easy way...n we dont even know about it...

knight rider was right...we always hurt the ones we love because they are the ones close to us....but this is not intentional...
im sure...