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Wed, 26 Oct 2005 01:59 EST

A boy and a girl
The best of friends
From elementary to high school
From beginning to end
Through all these years
Their friendship grew
They both felt the same
But neither knew
Each waking moment
Since the day that they met
They both loved each other
Sunrise to sunset
He was all she had
In her terrible life
He was the one
Who kept her from her knife
She was his angel
She made him smile
Though life threw him curves
She made it worth all the while
Then one day
Things went terribly wrong
The next few weeks
Were like a very sad song
He made her jealous
On purpose he tried
When the girl asked "do you love her?"
On purpose he lied
He played with jealousy
Like it was a game
Little did he know
Things would never be the same
His plan was working
But he had no clue
How wrong things would go
The damage he'd do
Then one night she broke down
Feeling very alone
Just her and the blade
No one was home
She dialled his number
He answered "hello"
She told him she loved him
Then hung up the phone
He raced to her house
But came a minute too late
Found her lying in blood
And her heart had no rate
Beside her was a note
And in it her confession
Her love for this boy
Her only obsession
As he read the note
He knelt down and cried
Grabbed her knife
And that night they both died
She was found in his arms
Both of them dead
Under her note
His handwriting said
" i loved her so
She never knew
All this time
I loved her too"

a life lesson to remember

Mon, 17 Oct 2005 04:09 EST

> >                        A story tells that two friends
> > >
> > >                                 were walking
> > >
> > >                              through the desert
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >                           During some point of the
> > >
> > >                             journey they had an
> > >
> > >                           argument, and one friend
> > >
> > >                            slapped the other one
> > >
> > >                                 in the face.
> > >
> > >                           The one who got slapped
> > >
> > >                            was hurt, but without
> > >
> > >                               saying anything,
> > >
> > >                              wrote in the sand:
> > >
> > >                             TODAY MY BEST FRIEND
> > >
> > >                           SLAPPED ME IN THE FACE.
> > >
> > >                             They kept on walking
> > >
> > >                          until they found an oasis,
> > >
> > >                              where they decided
> > >
> > >                               to take a bath.
> > >
> > >                             The one who had been
> > >
> > >                           slapped got stuck in the
> > >
> > >                          mire and started drowning,
> > >
> > >                          but the friend saved him.
> > >
> > >                           After he recovered from
> > >
> > >                              the near drowning,
> > >
> > >                             he wrote on a stone:
> > >
> > >                             TODAY MY BEST FRIEND
> > >
> > >                                SAVED MY LIFE.
> > >
> > >                          The friend who had slapped
> > >
> > >                          and saved his best friend
> > >
> > >                        asked him, "After I hurt you,
> > >
> > >                        you wrote in the sand and now,
> > >
> > >                         you write on a stone, why?"
> > >
> > >                           The other friend replied
> > >
> > >                            "When someone hurts us
> > >
> > >                           we should write it down
> > >
> > >                            in sand where winds of
> > >
> > >                       forgiveness can erase it away.
> > >
> > >                            But, when someone does
> > >
> > >                            something good for us,
> > >
> > >                         we must engrave it in stone
> > >
> > >                                where no wind
> > >
> > >                             can ever erase it."
> > >
> > >                                LEARN TO WRITE
> > >
> > >                                YOUR HURTS IN
> > >
> > >                               THE SAND AND TO
> > >
> > >                                  CARVE YOUR
> > >
> > >                              BENEFITS IN STONE.

a tragik love story...how heartbreaking

Thu, 13 Oct 2005 20:39 EST

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One RaiNy dai whiLe hE waS dwiVing,he Saw aHn eLderly cOupLe shaRing aN uMbreLLa iN thE raIn waLkin tU suM deStinAtiOn. Even wit thE uMbreLLa, dey waS stiLL drEnChed. It diDn`t taKe hiM daT lOng tOo rEaLise thOse weRe hiS X-girLfwenS paRentz.With a HeaRt iN getTin baK @ deM, he DrOve sLowLi paSt the cOuple,waItin fOr dEm tOo spOt hIm in hiS lUxery sEdan.He wAnted deM tOo knOw he waSn`t thE saMe anymOre,he hAd hIs Own cOmpani, Cah, CondO, ect... hE haD madE it iN lIfe !!
ThE gUy diDn`t rEaLiSe bhU the cOupLe waS waLkin 2 a CemetaRy, sOo hE gOt Out Ov hiS Cah aHn fOllowEd deM.... aHn he Saw hIs X-giRlfwen. A fOto Ov heR sweEtli sMiling aS ever...frOm heR tOmbstOne, aHn he Saw hIs preCiOus paPer cRaneS plaCed iN a bOttLe bEside hEr. Her paRents Sawhim; hE waLked Over ahN akSed waH waS gOin On??? whUY haD diSz hapPned?!! TheY Xplained shE haD nOt leFt fOr paRiS aT aLL, shE waS iLL striCken wiT caNceR. In heR hEarT, shE beLieved daT hE wuD maKe iT suMdai,ahN shE diD nOt waN heR iLLnesS tOo B hiS ObstaCle..therefOre shE haD chOsen tOo leaVe hiM. She haD wanTed heR paRentS tOo puT thE papErcraNes Beside heR soO daT if One dai faTe brinGs hiM baK toO her agAin, he Cud taKe suM Ov thOse baK wit hiM aS a remiNder Ov wat dEy haD 2getHer aHn daT shE stiLL luBed hiMz. thE guUy juS wepT...

Please Don`t Hurt Ur Girl

Sun, 09 Oct 2005 06:01 EST

If ur girl is willing to be with through all pain n problems...
it means she really loves u n she is willing to
endure all the pain u face....
would u wanna let go off ur girl...the only one who loves u truly?
if ur girl is happy for u no matter what ur happy about...
it means that she is willing to share ur joy n
happiness even if at that moment she is goin
through pain....
would u wanna let go off ur girl...the only one who truly loves u?
if ur girl tells u that she loves the way u hold,touch
n embrace her...
it means that she is letting u know that ur special
to her n that she loves everything about u.....
would u wanna let go of ur girl...
the only one who loves u?
if ur girl always says that ur better than
her in all fields; it
means that she always wans to b number two after
u n she always wans u there to guide her through
her life n most importantly she respects u....
would u wanna let go of ur girl....
the only one who loves u?
if ur girl never gives up n always waits for u
patiently no matter how long it takes for u to come
back to her...
it means that she never wanna b without u n ur the
only one in her heart n the one she truly loves......
would u wanna let go of ur girl...
the only one who loves u?
if ur girl never asks u why u never say 'i love u' to
her as often as she does it...
means that she's trying her best to understand ur
situation n she doesnt want u to get sick of her
complaning. It means she really loves u n she's so
damn understanding....
would u wanna let go of ur girl...
the only one who loves u?
if ur girl never rushes u into a relationship even
after u confess ur feelings to her just bcoz u told
her to wait for u till ur work is done...
it means dat she is willing to wait for u for
the rest of her life just to hear the word yes i
wanna b with u bcoz she loves only u n she's willing to
sacrifice it....
would u wanna let go of ur girl...
the only one who loves u?
if ur girl cries for u just becoz she misses u...
it means that she always wans to be wit u n she
only feels secure when she's wit u....
would u wanna let go of ur girl....
the only one who loves u?
there is a lot that a girl would do for a guy she
loves but sometimes guys just dun seem 2
understand that.pliz dun let go of ur girls bcoz u
might just kill her soul.....plz dun hurt her!!!

"I Love You" in many of languaes

Fri, 07 Oct 2005 10:55 EST

I Love You, In Many Languages:

English - I love you
Afrikaans - Ek het jou lief
Albanian - Te dua
Arabic - Ana behibak (to male)
Arabic - Ana behibek (to female)
Armenian - Yes kez sirumen
Bambara - M'bi fe
Bangla - Aamee tuma ke bhalo aashi
Belarusian - Ya tabe kahayu
Bisaya - Nahigugma ako kanimo
Bulgarian - Obicham te
Cambodian - Soro lahn nhee ah
Cantonese Chinese - Ngo oi ney
Catalan - T'estimo
Cheyenne - Ne mohotatse
Chichewa - Ndimakukonda
Corsican - Ti tengu caru (to male)
Creol - Mi aime jou
Croatian - Volim te
Czech - Miluji te
Danish - Jeg Elsker Dig
Dutch - Ik hou van jou
Esperanto - Mi amas vin
Estonian - Ma armastan sind
Ethiopian - Afgreki'
Faroese - Eg elski teg
Farsi - Doset daram
Filipi no - Mahal kita
Finnish - Mina rakastan sinua
French - Je t'aime, Je t'adore
Gaelic - Ta gra agam ort
Georgian - Mikvarhar
German - Ich liebe dich
Greek - S'agapo
Gujarati - Hoo thunay prem karoo choo
Hiligaynon - Palangga ko ikaw
Hawaiian - Aloha wau ia oi
Hebrew - Ani ohev otah (to female)
Hebrew - Ani ohev et otha (to male)
Hiligaynon - Guina higugma ko ikaw
Hindi - Hum Tumhe Pyar Karte hae
Hmong - Kuv hlub koj
Hopi - Nu' umi unangwa'ta
Hungarian - Szeretlek
Icelandic - Eg elska tig
Ilonggo - Palangga ko ikaw
Indonesian - Saya cinta padamu
Inuit - Negligevapse
Irish - Taim i' ngra leat
Italian - Ti amo
Japanese - Aishiteru
Kannada - Naanu ninna preetisuttene
Kapampangan - Kaluguran daka
Kiswahili - Nakupenda
Konkani - Tu magel moga cho
Korean - Sarang Heyo
Latin - Te amo
Latvian - Es tevi miilu
Lebanese - Bahibak
Lithuanian - Tave myliu
Malay - Aku cinta
padamu
Malayalam - Njan Ninne Premikunnu
Mandarin - Wo ai ni
Marathi - Me tula prem karto
Mohawk - Kanbhik
Moroccan - Ana moajaba bik
Nahuatl - Ni mits neki
Navaho - Ayor anosh'ni
Norwegian - Jeg Elsker Deg
Pandacan - Syota na kita!!
Pangasinan - Inaru Taka
Papiamento - Mi ta stimabo
Persian - Doo-set daaram
Pig Latin - Iay ovlay ouyay
Polish - Kocham Ciebie
Portuguese - Eu te amo
Romanian - Te ubesk
Russian - Ya tebya liubliu
Scot Gaelic - Tha gra\dh agam ort
Serbian - Volim te
Setswana - Ke a go rata
Sign Language - ,\,,/ (represents position
of fingers
when signing'I Love You')
Sindhi - Maa tokhe pyar kendo ahyan
Sioux - Techihhila
Slovak - Lu`bim ta
Slovenian - Ljubim te
Spanish - Te quiero / Te amo
Swahili - Ninapenda wewe
Swedish - Jag alskar dig
Swiss-German - Ich lieb Di
Tagalog - Mahal kita
Taiwanese - Wa ga ei li
Tahitian - Ua Here Vau Ia Oe
Tamil - Nan unnai kathalikaraen
Telugu - Nenu ninnu premistunnanu
Thai - Chan rak khun (to male)
Thai - Phom rak khun (to female)
Turkish - Seni Seviyorum
Ukrainian - Ya tebe kahayu
Urdu - mai aap say pyaar karta hoo
Vietnamese - Anh ye^u em (to female)
Vietnamese - Em ye^u anh (to male)
Welsh - 'Rwy'n dy garu
Yiddish - Ikh hob dikh
Yoruba - Mo ni fe

MY MOM: touching story;how could a son b so cruel

Tue, 20 Sep 2005 10:29 EST

My mom only had one eye. i hated
her... she was
such an embarrassment.. my mom ran a
small
shop at a flea market. she collected little
weeds
and such to sell... anything for the money we
needed. she was such an embarrassment.
there
was this one day during elementary school..

it was field day, and my mom came. i was so
embarrassed. how could she do this to me? i
threw
her a hateful look and ran out.

the next day at school...
"your mom only has one eye?!?!" ..and they
taunted me. i wished that my mom would just
disappear from this world so i said to my
mom,
"mom.. why dont you have the other eye?! if
you're
only gonna make me a laughingstock, why
dont
you just die?!!!"
my mom did not respond..
i guess i felt a little bad, but at the same time,
it
felt good to think that i had said what i'd
wanted to
say all this time.. maybe it was because my
mom
hadnt punished me, but i didnt think that i had
hurt
her feelings very badly.

that night...
i woke up, and went to the kitchen to get a
glass
of water. my mom was crying there, so quietly,
as
if
she was afraid that she might wake me. i took
a
look at her, then turned away. because of the
thing
i had said to her earlier, there was something
pinching at me in the corner of my heart.
even so, i hated my mother who was crying
out of
her one eye. so i told myself that i would grow
up
and become successful.
cause i hated my one-eyed mom and our
desperate poverty..

then i studied real hard.
i left my mother and came to Seoul and
studied,
and got accepted in the Seoul University with
all
the confidence i had.

then, i got married.
i bought a house of my own.
then i had kids, too..
now i'm living happily as a successful man.
i like it here because it's a place that doesnt
remind me of my mom.

this happiness was getting bigger and bigger,
when..

what?!
who's this?!
...it was my mother...
..still with her one eye.
it felt as if the whole sky was falling apart on
me.
my little girl ran away, scared of my mom's
eye.
and i asked her,

"who are you?!"
"i dont know you!!!" as if trying to make that
real. i
screamed at her," how dare you come to my
house and scare my daughter!"

"GET OUT OF HERE! NOW!!!"

and to this, my mother quietly answered, "oh,
i'm
so sorry. i may have gotten the wrong
address,"
and she disappeared out of sight.

thank goodness... she doesnt recognize me..
i was quite relieved.

i told myself that i wasnt going to care, or think
about this for the rest of my life.
then a wave of relief came upon me...

one day, a letter regarding a school reunion
came
to my house. so, lying to my wife that i was
going
on a business trip, i went. after the reunion, i
went
down to the old shack, that i used to call a
house...just out of curiosity

there, i found my mother fallen on the cold
ground.
but i did not shed a single tear.
she had a piece of paper in her hand.... it was
a
letter to me.

my son...
i think my life has been long enough now..

and... i wont visit Seoul anymore... but would it
be
too much to ask if i wanted you to come visit
me
once in a while? i miss you so much.. and i
was
so
glad when i heard you were coming for the
reunion.
but i decided not to go to the school. ...for you..
.
and i'm sorry that i only have one eye, and i
was
an embarrassment for you.

you see, when you were very little, you got into
an
accident, and lost your eye. as a mom, i
couldnt
stand watching you having to grow up with
only
one
eye... so i gave you mine...
i was so proud of my son that was seeing a
whole
new world for me, in my place, with that eye. i
was
never upset at you for anything you did.. the
couple
times that you were angry with me.. i thought
to
myself, 'it's because he loves me..'

my son... oh, my son...

special friend

Fri, 16 Sep 2005 00:52 EST

I have
this special
friend
named
John.
He was very sweet and caring. He always
checked on me and treated me a 'special'
person.
Suddenly I realized, I was falling for him. On
March
14, he proposed to me and we became a
couple.
He remained sweet and loving to me. Every
14th
of the month he would say, "Cheska, I have
to tell
you something..." but will not continue it and
say it
was nothing. I became curious, was he
about to
break up with me? But I continued to trust
him. our
graduation is coming -- on March 14, 4 years
later.
I knew that after this night, my family and I
would
be leaving for the states. We knew this time
would
come, and I never expected it to hurt so
much. But
I have to go and leave him. We promised to
stay
in
touch and never forget each other. he gave
me a
box of chocolates, flowers, pictures of us
together
and a locket. and so, I left with memories of
John
in my heart. We always e- mailed each other
and
communicated. I told him how I loved life
here, I
partied every Friday with my friends, went
shopping...I was living the life I always
wished I
had. But I was never able to read John's last
letter
because of my hectic schedule. I promised
myself
to read it when I found the time. Then
suddenly, it
stopped (his letters and e-mails). I was
wondering
why he isn't writing to me anymore. But I
understand maybe he has work to do. He
didn't
even greet me on March 14. After several
months
still without communication, I found time to
read
his last letter and it was the most shocking
moment in my life -- Cheska, This is my last
letter
to you. remember when I was supposed to
tell you
something important but was never able to
do so?
I wanted to tell you that my "moment" (it
means
death) is March 14, exactly 1 year later after
you
left and 5 years after I proposed to you. That
was
what the doctor said. I have this sickness, I
forgot
what it was called. All I know is that I'm going
to
die soon. I'm not telling you to come back
after
reading this letter, I just wanted to let you
know
that
I will always love you and that forever you will
be in
my heart. I love you Cheska. Thank you for
changing me. Thank you for everything.
Goodbye
I'm gonna miss you. Lots of love, John. I
wanted to
cry and shout his name. March 14 was 3
months
ago! He died 3 months ago! And I never
knew
because I was so busy enjoying my life here
when
someone I loved so much was suffering
from an
unidentified sickness. Up to this day I still
feel
guilty, I could have been right beside John
when
he was ill, but I was here partying and eating
my
heart out. I was so guilty. He died. John died.
Until
his last breath he wanted to be with me. But I
wasn't there. I went back to the Philippines
and
visited his grave. In it was written, "To John,
who
loved Cheska so much, may he forever rest
in
peace" And he died on March 14. March 14,
when
this day comes, I cry, laugh, think and feel
guilty,
this day I feel mixed emotions. I hate myself.
Why
do I have to read his last letter when it was
too
late? Why do I have to leave anyway? These
questions keep going on my mind. But I can
do
nothing now. John is up there. I guess he
wanted
me to be happy. I still love John. And I miss
him
so
much....He handed her 12 roses, 11 real and
1
fake and said, "I'll love you till the last one
dies."

PROPHECY

Fri, 09 Sep 2005 22:06 EST

UtOpia prezents... PRophecy! ish gunna gOo Orffz pPlz... 24th sep @ supadOme...all d hard stufFz [hardcOres hard trancE ect] 1oPm an finishz at 6amz. breEze & styles, dOugal, dj iSaac r jus tu name a few dat`ll b der... ish guNa rOck!! can`t wait ^_^

a man wins the lottery

Tue, 06 Sep 2005 22:05 EST

Man rushes home, bursting through the front door of his house
yelling to his wife, "Pack your bags baby, I just won the lottery!
All $9,500,000.... Woooohooo!!!!" " That's fantastic darling" she replies, "Do I pack for the beach or the mountains?" "Who cares", he replies, " Just f*ck off ".

Bcuz Ur Mai FREND~

Tue, 06 Sep 2005 21:46 EST

When YoO R Sad...I Will Help YoO Plot Revenge Against The SorRy Ba*!ard Who Made YoO Sad ^_^

When YoO R WorRied...I Will Tell YoO HorRible StOries AbOut How Much Werse It Could Be & ToO StOp WhinNing.

When YoO Shmile I`ll KnOw... YoO Finally Got Laid.

When YoO R Confused.. I Will Use Little Werds ToO Xplain it ToO Ur DumbASsz.

When YoO R Sick...Stay Awai FrOm Me Until YoO R Well Again...I Dun Want Wateva YoO Have.

When YoO Fall...I Will Point & Laugh At Ur StoOpid AsSz...

This Iz Mai Oath I Pledge Till The End, Whuy YoO May Ask? Bcuz Ur Mai Frend!~

Dad`s Poem [sad america 9/11]

Sun, 28 Aug 2005 02:53 EST

>Dad's Poem
>
>Her hair was up in a pony tail, her favorite dress tied with a bow,
>Today was Daddy's Day at school, and she couldn't wait to go.
>
>But her mommy tried to tell her, that she probably should stay home.
>Why the kids might not understand, if she went to school alone.
>
>But she was not afraid; she knew just what to say.
>What to tell her classmates of why he wasn't there today.
>
>But still her mother worried,for her to face this day alone.
>And that was why once again,she tried to keep her daughter home.
>
>But the little girl went to school eager to tell them all.
>About a dad she never sees a dad who never calls.
>
>There were daddies along the wall in back, for everyone to meet.
>Children squirming impatiently, anxious in their seats.
>
>One by one the teacher called a student from the class.
>To introduce their daddy, as seconds slowly passed.
>
>At last the teacher called her name, every child turned to stare.
>Each of them was searching, a man who wasn't there.
>
>"Where's her daddy at?" she heard a boy call out.
>"She probably doesn't have one," another student dared to shout.
>
>And from somewhere near the back, she heard a daddy say,
>"Looks like another deadbeat dad, too busy to waste his day."
>
>The words did not offend her, as she smiled up at her Mom.
>And looked back at her teacher, who told her to go on.
>
>And with hands behind her back, slowly she began to speak.
>And out from the mouth of a child, came words incredibly unique.
>
>"My Daddy couldn't be here, because he lives so far away.
>But I know he wishes he could be, since this is such a special day.
>
>And though you cannot meet him, I wanted you to know.
>All about my daddy, and how much he loves me so.
>
>He loved to tell me stories he taught me to ride my bike.
>He surprised me with pink roses, and taught me to fly a kite.
>
>We used to share fudge sundaes, and ice cream in a cone.
>And though you cannot see him. I'm not standing here alone.
>
>"Cause my daddy's always with me, even though we are apart
>I know because he told me, he'll forever be in my heart"
>
>With that, her little hand reached up, and lay across her chest.
>Feeling her own heartbeat, beneath her favorite dress.
>
>And from somewhere here in the crowd of dads, her mother stood in
>tears.
>Proudly watching her daughter, who was wise beyond her years.
>
>For she stood up for the love of a man not in her life.
>Doing what was best for her, doing what was right.
>
>And when she dropped her hand back down, staring straight into the
>crowd.
>She finished with a voice so soft, but its message clear and loud.
>
>"I love my daddy very much, he's my shining star.
>And if he could, he'd be here, but heaven's just too far.
>
>You see he was a policeman and died just this past year.
>When airplanes hit the towers and taught Americans to fear.
>
>But sometimes when I close my eyes, it's like he never went away."
>And then she closed her eyes, and saw him there that day.
>
>And to her mothers amazement, she witnessed with surprise.
>A room full of daddies and children, all starting to close their
>eyes.
>
>Who knows what they saw before them, who knows what they felt
>inside.
>Perhaps for merely a second, they saw him at her side.
>
>"I know you're with me Daddy, "to the silence she called out.
>And what happened next made believers, of those once filled with
>doubt.
>
>Not one in that room could explain it, for each of their eyes had
>been
>closed.
>But there on the desk beside her, was a fragrant long-stemmed pink
>rose.
>
>And a child was blessed, if only for a moment, by the love of her
>shining
>star.
>And given the gift of believing, that heaven is never too far.

have you ever ??~

Tue, 09 Aug 2005 03:10 EST

HAVE YOoH EVER ?
Have yoOh ever fallen in love,
But yoOh knew they did not care.
Have yoOh ever felt like crying,
But yoOh knew you`d get nowhere.
Have yoOh ever watched them walk awai…
Not wanting them toOh go.
And whispered “ I love yoOh”, softly…
Not wanting them toOh know ?~
YoOh cried all night in misery,
And almost went insane.
There`s nothing in this world,
That causes so much pain.
If I could chose between love and death,
I think I`d rather die.
Love is fun but it hurts toOh much,
And the price yoOh pay is high.
So I say don`t fall in love,
YoOh`ll be hurt before it`s through.
YoOh see mai frend I ought toOh know,
I fell in love with yoOh.

GIRLZ xpekt sOo muCh! its true jus read dis!!

Fri, 05 Aug 2005 00:52 EST

It's not difficult to make a woman happy. A man only needs to be:

1. a friend

2. a companion

3. a lover

4. a brother

5. a father

6. a master

7. a chef

8. an electrician

9. a carpenter

10. a plumber

11. a mechanic

12. a decorator

13. a stylist

14. a sexologist

15. a gynecologist

16. a psychologist

17. a pest exterminator

18. a psychiatrist

19. a healer

20. a good listener

21. an organizer

22. a good father

23. very clean

24. sympathetic

25. athletic

26. warm

27. attentive

28. gallant

29. intelligent

30. funny

31. creative

32. tender

33. strong

34. understanding

35. tolerant

36. prudent

37. ambitious

38. capable

39. courageous

40. determined

41. true

42. dependable

43. passionate

44. compassionate

WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:

45. give her compliments regularly

46. love shopping

47. be honest

48. be very rich

49. not stress her out

50. not look at other girls

AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO:

51. give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself

52. give her lots of time, especially time for herself

53. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes

IT IS VERY IMPORTANT:

54. Never to forget:

* birthdays

* anniversaries

* arrangements she makes

HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY

1. Show up naked

2. Bring food and beer

3. Hand over the remote.

wat a swEet guy!! :))

Thu, 28 Jul 2005 05:01 EST

From the very beginning, the girl's family objected strongly on her dating this guy.
Saying that it has got to do with family background & that the girl will have to suffer for the rest of
herlife if she were to be with him.
Due to family's pressure, the couple quarrel very often.
Though the girl love the guy deeply, but she always ask him:
"How deep is your love for me?"
As the guy is not good with his words,this often causes the girl to be very upset.
With that & the family's pressure, the girls often vent her anger on him.
As for him,he only endure it in silence.
After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated & decided to further his studies in overseas.
Before leaving, he proposed to the girl:
"I'm not very good with words.
But all I know is that I love you.
If you allow me,I will take care of you for the rest of my life.
As for your family,I'll try my best to talk them round.
Will you marry me?"
The girl agreed, & with the guy's determination,the family finally gave in & agreed to let
them get married.
So before he leaves,they got engaged.
The girl went out to the working society,where as the guy was overseas, continuing his studies.
They sent their love through emails & phone calls.
Though it's hard, but both never thought of giving up.
One day, while the girl was on her way to work,she was knocked down by a car that lost control.
When she woke up, she saw her parents beside her bed.
She realized that she was badly injured.
Seeing her mum crying,she wanted to comfort her.
But she realized that all that could come out of her mouth was just a sigh.
She has lost her voice...... The doctor says that the impact on her brain has caused her to
lose her voice.
Listening to her parents' comfort,but with nothing coming out from her, she broke down.
During the stay in hospital,besides silence cry ...it's still just silence cry that companied her.
Upon reaching home, everything seems to be the same.
Except for the ringing tone of the phone.
Which pierced into her heart every time it rang.
She does not wish to let the guy know.
& not wanting to be a burden to him, she wrote a letter to him
saying that she does not wish to wait any longer.
With that, she sent the ring back to him.
In return, the guy sent millions & millions of reply, and countless of phone calls, all the girl
could do, besides crying, is still crying....
The parents decided to move away,hoping that she could eventually forget everything & be happy.
With a new environment,the girl learns sign language & started a new life.
Telling her everyday that she must forget the guy.
One day,her friend came & told her that he's back.
She asked her friend not to let him know what happened to her.
Since then, there wasn't anymore news of him.
A year has passed & her friend came with an envelope, containing an invitation card
for the guy's wedding.
The girl was shattered.
When she open the letter, she saw her name in it instead.
When she was about to ask her friend what's going on, she saw the guy standing in front of her.
He used sign language telling her "I've spent a year's time to learn sign language.
Just to let you know that I've not forgotten our promise.
Let me have the chance to be your voice.
I Love You.
With that, he slipped the ring back into her finger.
The girl finally smiled.

sweet poemz

Tue, 12 Jul 2005 05:44 EST

We all want to fall in love. Why?
Because that experience makes us feel completely alive,
where every sense is heightened,
and every emotion is magnified.
Our everyday reality is shattered
and we are flying into the heavens.
It may only last a moment, an hour, or an afternoon,
but that doesn't diminish its value,
because we are left with memories
that we treasure for the rest of our lives.

Love is like an eternal flame,
once it is lit,
it will continue to burn for all time.

*Every girl wants to be able to go to her man in sweats, hair a m.e.s.s, make up running down her face, eyes red from crying, and the first thing he says is "Baby your beautiful"*

.:L.o.v.e comes to those who still hope,Although they've been disappointed;
To those who still believe, Although they've been betrayed;

To those who still love, Although they've been hurt:.

.:Sometimes it's hard when you're so deep inside
To see all you can lose in a blink of an eye
Dreams could be s.h.a.t.t.e.r.e.d
You could be gone
How would I s u r v i v e
Cause you're where I belong:.

°Wait For The Boy Who P.u.r.s.u.e.s You,
The One Who Will Make An Ordinary Moment Seem Magical,
The Kind Of Boy That Brings Out The Best In You And Makes You Want To Be A Better Person.
Wait For The Boy Who Will Be Your Best Friend,
Wait For The Person Who Will Drop Everything To Be With You At Anytime Of The Day No Matter What The Circumstances.
Wait For The Boy Who Makes You Smile Like No Other And When He Smiles You Know He N.e.e.d.s You.
Wait For The Boy Who Wants To Show You Off To The World When You're Wearing Sweats And No Makeup.
Most Of All Wait For The Boy Who Will Put You At The Center Of His Universe, Cause Obviously He's At The Center Of Yours°

FOREVER

True love can be described
As one that will never fade;
One that brings excitement,
Like a romantic escapade.
One that expresses happiness,
Despite lovers being far or near;
One that delivers comfort,
Whenever one sheds a tear.
Without a doubt in one`s mind,
It can be described in many wais.
But mai love for yooh could never be
Described in such a mere, simple phrase.
For what heart holds is perpetual;
Like the universe`s sun forever glowing.
A true love that will never cease tooh exist,
Lilke a waterfall; forever flowing,
For what was ignited bai your touch;
By your heart`s own loyal feelings,
Was the radient spark of an eternal flame
And undying love…forever burning.

HAVE YOoH EVER ?
Have yoOh ever fallen in love,
But yoOh knew they did not care.
Have yoOh ever felt like crying,
But yoOh knew you`d get nowhere.
Have yoOh ever watched them walk awai…
Not wanting them toOh go.
And whispered “ I love yoOh”, softly…
Not wanting them toOh know ?~
YoOh cried all night in misery,
And almost went insane.
There`s nothing in this world,
That causes so much pain.
If I could chose between love and death,
I think I`d rather die.
Love is fun but it hurts toOh much,
And the price yoOh pay is high.
So I say don`t fall in love,
YoOh`ll be hurt before it`s through.
YoOh see mai frend I ought toOh know,
I fell in love with yoOh.