As a northern woman, perhaps it is male chauvinism of accepting the northern man at heart, can not say what complex this is one kind to come up, in a word if the man does house work and can not accept a bit instead! It is a few years to get married like this, everybody divides the work clearly, live together peacefully, and think affectionate!
I husband say, want, take chilli sauce at yesterday, promise, go, buy today actually, but anything has been delayed in the daytime, so that he has not had the thick chilli sauce either while reaching supper, send one light temper for this reason, I think one's own personality so fine that let people admire sometimes, have a meal and go to the supermarket to buy back that bottle of thick chilli sauce hurriedly, finish the task at long last!
In fact the psychology is uneven too sometimes, just I know ---I is in his heart, he who just went out when it is cold will call and remind me to " wear more clothes " ; It is good which taste of hotel is had on the outside, he will want to take me to eat; What special of snack there is, so long as he has eaten, he is sure to take back to give to me Certainly the most important thing is his support to my undertaking! In a sense, he is a good friend who really understands me! Just this good friend has some minor defects too, need me to overcome!
Perhaps there are not so many moving things in ordinary life, two pieces of time that people stay together are long, the initial love will be turned into the kindred too! Everybody does not live very easily in the real world, especially the man, their psychological pressure is much greater than that of the woman, my husband is that one is energetic in colleague's eyes, do not know the worried person, what others saw is only his appearance! If wants to disguise by the person most on intimate terms by oneself, that person is not too tired in life! Home is everybody's quiet and comfortable harbour, the pressure of working will be relieved at home, all unhappiness will be dissolved under family's care! The true essence of the marriage is liking, understanding, paying, and supporting!
The marriage means changing, if two people are both like hedgehog, how can embrace together and get warm when winter cominging! Whenever now my best friend - When the husband adult displays his minor defect again, I think ----This is other a kind of behavior loved of his, because of loving, he will display his truest oneself in front of me, and I have responsibility that let my lover is natural, true, happy and having fulfillments in front of me, make old one o'clock such as man such as he, what would it matter? !
Haha, the husband's another tenderness only belongs to his wife, belong to his family, we are happy, because we are taken as the wives of people (husband) ,There are family who care about us!