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jmh123's Homepage http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123 Sat, 26 Jul 2008 14:53 EDT Sat, 26 Jul 2008 14:53 EDT Zorpia.com Please Read http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1677398 OK, here it is. If this offends you, it is probably because you are one of the liars and cheats that tries to get women to send you money or give their heart for you to just break. 1.) I am not looking for a boyfriend, lover, or husband. Don't tell me you love me, call me baby or sweety. 2.) I don't have a cam. Stop asking. 3.) I am not a bank. I will not help you transfer money from your account in the "US" to get it to you in wherever the heck you are. I also will not send you money to help you get to the United States, nor will I send you money to help you wherever it is you live. 4.) I am not a dating agency. I will not introduce you to my friends to help you try to find someone who will send you money or help with the "transfer of funds". 5.) I do not wish to have a boyfriend who is young enough to be my son. 6.) I am interested in friends only. I joined this site to make friends. I did not join this site hoping to find my mate, or wishing to be scammed and lose all the money I have. I am not stupid, and I don't appreciate you thinking that I am. 7.) Don't tell me that you've read my profile and find me interesting or sexy or whatever. As soon as I see "Your pic is very nice" or "You are so sexy" or "I found your profile interesting" but you start the message off with "Hi baby" or "Hi sweety", I KNOW you have not read my profile. 8.) When you say you are from the US, be real. I can tell immediately if you are lying or not. Your English totally gives you away. "Am Pete by name" is NOT the way an American would introduce himself. And saying that you were born in the US but ended up going to school somewhere else is NOT a valid excuse for your poor English. (I'm a teacher for God's sake. And I was born in the US, however, my first language was German as my mother is German. However, my English is good. As a matter of fact, it was my concentration when I was in college.) 9.) I have also found that many times, the photos that those of you who say you are from the United States and it proves that you aren't are stolen photos, and I even know what site from which many of them have been stolen. You also might want to check, as I have found the same photo you may be using being used by a few more. LOL, you are so laughable. You are trying to pick up on the wrong person here. You are trying to get help from the wrong person. I am educated, and I am well aware of how to search things out and find if they are real or not. I am also NOT stupid. I do not have much patience with you. I will play along for a while, but don't be surprised when I tell you that I know what you really are, and also don't be surprised to find yourself reported to Zorpia, Yahoo, or the FBI. Personal http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1677398 Sun, 06 May 2007 11:20 EDT Too too funny http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1648124 This is just getting too funny. I tell people that I am in a relationship, yet they still try to convince me that they love me. When I start to get pissy with them, they tell me that I am too hard and that they would not want to marry me. That is fine by me. I don't want to marry them anyway. THEN, they apologize when I tell them that if they don't like the way I am, I have nothing more to say. They don't want me to stop talking to them. Now there is one who started in about needing me to help him get his money from his bank sent to him in Africa where he is "working". He wants me to have his bank transfer his money to me and then I send it to him. Hmmm, sounds fishy to me anyway. But you see, he can't get it sent to him there because there is no online service. His bank can't send him his money directly to him via Western Union. So, he wants his bank to transfer the money to my account, I can keep some of the money since I am having financial difficulties and send the rest to him. I told him that I don't have a bank account because I had a friend screw up my credit so bad that I can't have an account now, so I can't have his bank send anything to my bank, as I don't have a bank. And he starts insisting that I have to open an account to be able to do this. I told him that he's not paying attention to what I'm saying, I can't open an account. He kept insisting, saying it was not my money that would be used, it's his to be sent to him.  He finally got that I can't open an account. He said that he was not asking me to send him my money. But then less than 5 minutes later, he's asking if I can send him money and he would pay me back. I told him NO. Geez, does he think I just fell off the turnip truck today? When I told him no, he said that I just didn't want to help a friend. I told him that a friend would not ask me to send him money, and someone I don't know would definitely not be asking me to send money. And to top it all off, I don't know him, therefore I don't trust him. He starts in about how I need to put the past behind me, etc. etc. The next night, he starts off about me being hard or whatever because I didn't instant message him first. I'm not going to instant message him first because I don't have him on my buddy list, so I don't know when he's online anyway. LOL  Anyway, he starts off bitching at me, so I bitched right back at him. He backed down, but then said I was not nice and was it just because he was a man? I said no, that I will tell anyone off that pisses me off, I don't care if that person is a man or a woman, I treat all the same way. He decided he likes that about me. Tells me that he loves me even though I have told him that I have a boyfriend. He figured he would marry me when he first contacted me, and that I was saying I had a boyfriend just to keep the pervs and scammers away. (In a way,he's right, but it doesn't stop them anyway, he's a case in point). Then he's all nicey nice again, and starts in about still needing his money sent to him. I told him I can't and won't help. Then today, he sends me a message when I was not at my computer. My computer had locked up and when i was able to get back to him, I said sorry, I was locked up and couldn't respond, and he says it 's nice that I could say I was sorry today. Weeeelllllllllll, wrong way to start a convo with me. I told him not to criticize me, and that I had nothing to be sorry about yesterday. He's the one who started things off badly yesterday, and it went from bad to worse. Now he's being all nicey nice again. It won't be long and the sucker will be blocked from being able to chat with me. I've almost had it with him. He will be blocked tonight if he starts in again about needing money sent to him. I've already told him to stop asking me about it. If he mentions it again, I will just say that's it, I'm through with you, good bye, and block his silly butt. Do these people think that they can start a convo by criticizing or basically calling you names and think that they are going to get what they want? And do they thing that we are so stupid or will just get tired of their constant nagging that we will give in to what they want? What these people need to realize about me is that when I've had more than enough, I will just tell them to suck a rotten egg and I will disappear from them.I am not one who will give them something for absolutely nothing. Hell I won't give them anything period.  They think that by saying they are from America, that they are pulling the wool over my eyes. Well, I am much smarter than that. I can tell by the broken English that they are not American. And on top of that, it's the same worn out old story. "I lost my wife in a terrible automobile accident 5 years ago. Now it is just my son and me and I am looking for a Mom for my son. I have been alone all these years and now wish to find a wife. I saw your profile and you seem to be the one for me. I love you." Oh, and then there are the "You're beauty is ...." and I have a primary picture of the stitches I have at the back of my head. Oh yeah, that is some kind of beautiful. LMAO These loser are just too much.      Personal http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1648124 Thu, 22 Feb 2007 00:14 EDT Unwanted stuff http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1639429 Alright already!!!! Stop with all the offline messages you are leaving me on my messenger. Some of you leave me 6 or more long off line messages a day. And then get upset because I don't respond to you. Give me a break, I don't have the time for all that. You are cutting and pasting things that you have received in emails or in messages from others, and probably posting them to a bunch of people. And to tell you the truth, it's annoying, I don't read them, I just cancel the offline messages and they are all erased. If you really have something to say to me, then say it, in an email preferrably. ALSO, stop sending me invites to join this site or that site. I just go to the block link and block those all also. If I want to join more sites I will, but I most certainly don't want to after the experience I've had with this one, and all the stupid guys who seem to think that I am desperate to find a man. I've got them saying I am their best friend, and I've barely talked to them. I am sick to death of people getting upset because I don't leave off line messages to them. I don't have anything to say, so why should I leave a message. I'm also tired of people messaging me when I am online with just a hi or hello and then don't say another blooming word. If you don't have anything to say, don't start a conversation. It's that simple. I tell you what, here's what you all do. If you are thinking that I am going to be interested in you as a boyfriend or potential husband, don't message me. If you think that I have to stay on line every spare moment I have on the chance that you may come on line just to say hi, don't message me. If you are going to be upset because I don't leave you a million off line messages a day, don't message me. If you think I am your best friend and we have hardly said a word to each other, don't message me. If all you have to say is hi and nothing else, don't message me. You are taking up hard drive space when you do that, and making me have to do more work in cleaning out things because of your silliness. Personal http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1639429 Sun, 28 Jan 2007 17:04 EDT STOP http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1636411 OK, here it is. STOP!!! Stop with all the same questions that I have already answered here. One last time for the answers. 1.) NO, I don't have a cam. I'm not getting one either. 2.) NO, I don't want a boyfriend or lover. I have a boyfriend thank you very much. 3.) NO, I don't want to be the mother to your son/daughter, I have a son and a daughter of my own. 4.) NO, I won't talk sex with you. 5.) NO, I don't have any pics to send you. What you see here is what you get. 6.) NO, I'm not your honey, baby, sweetheart, love. 7.) NO, I do not spend 24/7 online, so don't complain to me that I am not online when you are. ALSO, remember there are several hours time difference, I am at work when you are at home relaxing after a day's work. 8.) DON'T say my profile has interested you, you didn't read it. I can tell when you say you love me, you want to be with me, etc. Like I said, I HAVE A BOYFRIEND. 9.) Don't contact me just because of my picture. I've now changed it because I'm tired of all you guys going on just my picture. 10.) If you are under the age of say 35, don't expect me to accept your advances for more than friendship. YOU ARE TOO YOUNG FOR ME. AND if I find what you are saying to me offensive, then believe me, I will report you to Zorpia, and if it's in instant messages in Yahoo, I will report you there also. And then block you. Don't believe me? Try me, you will see that I am a woman of my words. 11.) Also, I can't help you out of your bad condition. Things aren't going so well for me either. I will not help you if it would mean that I must take food away from MY children or lose the shelter for MY children and myself. MY family comes first for me, as it should be. I am the mother, I am the bread winner, I am the only person I can rely on for my children's health and well-being. Have a good day and take care. Personal http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1636411 Fri, 19 Jan 2007 11:03 EDT Do Me a Favor http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1628909 OK everyone, do me one little favor please. Read this journal entry. I am going to summarize the others in it. First of all, I am not looking for a lover or a husband. Second, I am not going to help you with a business endeavor. Third, there are rules for engagement if you want to communicate with me, please read that journal entry. Fourth, I am not looking for a lover or a husband. Fifth, I don't cyber, I don't have a cam and I'm not going to get one either. Sixth, I'm not looking for someone who needs a mom for their kids. I'm almost finished raising my own. Seventh, I am not looking for a lover or a husband. (Do you get the hint?) And finally, don't go just on the picture you see. If you really want to impress me, read my homepage, profile, and journals. Then I will know that you are interested in more than just how I look. Thank you. Take care and have a Happy New Year. Personal http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1628909 Tue, 26 Dec 2006 20:51 EDT NO CAM http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1627830 NO I DO NOT HAVE A CAM. NO I WILL NOT GET A CAM. STOP ASKING, STOP HOUNDING ME ABOUT A CAM. GET A LIFE, GET OFF THE DAMN COMPUTER AND START DOING SOMETHING TO MEET PEOPLE, THEN YOU WON'T HAVE TO BUG ME ABOUT A DAMN CAM. GET YOUR ROCKS OFF WITH SOMEONE ELSE, IT WILL NOT BE ME!!!!!!! Personal http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1627830 Sat, 23 Dec 2006 13:05 EDT You wanna see my body http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1615500 Just so you know, all  you guys that wanna see my body. Take a good look at the above picture, you know, the one where I am standing and you can see me almost from the top of my head to my feet. That is all of my body that you are going to EVER see. :) You will just have to be satisfied with that. Take it or leave it, I don't care. Oh, and also, the profile pictures on here, those are ALL the pictures I have of me. So please don't ask me for more pictures, that's it, there are no more. There you have it. Personal http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1615500 Mon, 20 Nov 2006 08:11 EDT I guess I have to say it again http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1614205 I guess you all STILL don't get it. GUYS!!!! I don't say men cuz some of you are barely there. I do NOT CYBER!!!!! I am NOT LOOKING for a husband. I am NOT LOOKING for a lover. I do NOT HAVE a cam, nor am I going to get one just so you can "see my body". I do NOT DO that. PERIOD!!!!!!!!! I joined Zorpia to make friends, not to find my next husband and my latest lover. Do NOT contact me and say you just wanna be friends, and then start saying you love me.I do not love you, and I will not love you in just a few messages. ALSO, just so you know, when you start saying that, I just roll my eyes and laugh at you because you seem to think I am stupid and believe you. I don't, and don't give yourself the impression that I do. Thank you and move along. Personal http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1614205 Thu, 16 Nov 2006 20:23 EDT Not a rant http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1612371 OK, I got my rant out of my system. Now for my friends, I am hoping that you are all doing well. I keep you in my thoughts and prayers that all is well, or that things are improving. God knows what it is that you need, and my prayer is that He watches over you and attends to what it is that you are needing. I am doing ok. I am working on getting my life more organized, which includes my house. My children are not real pleased with me at this time, as I have been "nagging" them about jobs, loser boyfriend, getting their life in order so that I may finally begin to live mine. I am in the process of making some major changes in my life, and I am looking forward to those changes. I feel as if I am about to spread my own wings and fly, and not just keep swooping down to rescue my kids from their crashes. And to tell you the truth, there are some REAL aches my body is experiencing from trying to spread my own wings. But hopefully, as my muscles get used to being used, they won't ache so much. :) I hope that you all have a wonderful rest of the weekend, and that you have a glorious week. Take care of yourselves and your families. Smile, and laugh, it is a great day to be alive. :)   Personal http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1612371 Sun, 12 Nov 2006 09:58 EDT I GIVE UP http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1608243 I give up. All you silly men seem to think that I am stupid. Well, fine, go ahead and think that. BUT don't expect me to believe a word that you say. You can think what you want, that I am nothing  but  a stupid woman, or whatever. I know myself. YOU will NEVER know me. I won't let you in. How am I giving up? Well, let's put it this way, I don't have to be nice to people I don't know. I don't have to "flirt" with you just because you want me to. And, I won't feel bad because you just can't seem to understand that I don't fall for the b.s. coming from you. You contacted me first, it wasn't the other way around. And yet you expect me to be grateful that you took the time to contact me? Well, um, no, as a matter of fact, I am quite annoyed with all you wannabes who seem to think that I can do no wrong falling for your sweet words. Problem is, I know them all to be lies. I'm not that gullible. Pull that stuff on the young ones who have not lived life yet, who have not had this kind of b.s. pulled on them, you will have better luck with them, you will have your egos stroked as you stroke other parts of your anatomy. I am not a party of all of that. Personal http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1608243 Fri, 03 Nov 2006 00:00 EDT NOT LOOKING FOR A LOVER OR HUSBAND http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1590209 <h3>OK, PEOPLE JUST DON'T SEEM TO GET IT. I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A LOVER, I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A HUSBAND. PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME THINKING THAT I WILL FALL INSTANTLY IN LOVE WITH YOU JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE SAYING YOU LOVE ME OR CALLING ME SWEETHEART OR DEAR OR OTHER SUCH PET NAMES IN THE FIRST MESSAGE. I WON'T, IT DOES NOT IMPRESS ME. I WAS CALLED DEAR ALL THE TIME BY MY EX, THERE WAS NO FEELING BEHIND IT AND IT CARRIES NO SPECIAL MEANING FOR ME. OH YEAH, I AM ALSO NOT LOOKING FOR A LOVER WHO IS 20+ YEARS YOUNGER THAN I AM. I AM ALMOST DONE RAISING MY OWN KIDS, I DO NOT WANT TO TAKE ON YOU TO RAISE!!!!! I AM NOT STUPID, SO DON'T MAKE THE MISTAKE OF THINKING THAT SWEET WORDS WILL MAKE ME FALL FOR YOU.</h3> Romance & Relationships http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1590209 Fri, 15 Sep 2006 19:06 EDT A Blast from the Past http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1584745 It's just too cool, an old friend found me. Someone I haven't had any contact with for several years. She started searching the net, I'm not sure why she did. First, she found my son through a website he is a member of. Then she found a mutual friend of ours, who also happens to be a friend on my son's page of that website. She contacted that mutual friend, and found out how she can contact me. Imagine my surprise to come home from work that day, and find a message in one of my email inboxes saying this person wants to add me as a contact. It's been great to talk with her. There had been a lot of bad things happen to her over the years, but now things have turned around and are going much better for her. From the way it sounds, she now has a wonderful man in her life. I am so happy for her. On top of that, our mutual friend also gave me the happy news that she is now engaged. It makes me feel good to see that good things are finally happening to my friends that have had it really rough lately. I am just keeping my fingers crossed and working towards having good things happen for me also. It's been a rough 5 yrs. and it seems to get rougher. I try to keep a positive outlook on things. Sometimes that's not so easy to do. But I am making strides to get back into the swing of things. I look forward to the day when I will smile more often and more easily. I look forward to the day when I don't have so many worries about things. And I ESPECIALLY look forward to the day when my kids will KNOW how to fly on their own and this Momma Eagle's wings will be able to rest from the swooping down to save them, and will be used to let HER soar and float.   Personal http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1584745 Sat, 02 Sep 2006 20:42 EDT RULES FOR ENGAGEMENT http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1581613 OK, it is sad that I have had to resort to this, but here goes. I am tired of stupid people who think they can use me for whatever their purpose may be. These are the rules if you wish to contact me and count me as a friend. 1. Read my homepage before you bother to message me. And really read it, it will tell you a lot about who you are dealing with before you go any farther. Then if you think it is worth your time and mine, go ahead and message me. Otherwise, don't bother. I won't tolerate lies and deceit for long. 2. Be who you say you are. It doesn't take me long to figure out that you are lying about who you are and where you are from. If you are going to start things with lies, it has no HOPE of going anywhere but down the toilet. 3. Don't be telling me that you love me in an instant. I don't love you, and you start saying that kind of stuff you will soon be in the abyss of my ladder theory. Love is a potent word and I do not use it freely. I will only say it when I really mean it. Take it or leave it, if you can't accept that, LEAVE! 4. Don't be asking me for help in cashing checks, sending you money, or wanting to move in with me. I don't have time to play your games and I won't play your games. Again, you will end up sorry for even contacting me. 5. Don't get all pissy with me because I say I do not trust you. I DO NOT TRUST YOU from the very beginning. Trust is something that you must EARN from me, I do not give it away freely. Just like I do not give my love away freely. If you can not accept that, then don't bother me. 6. Be ready when I have had enough of your games to find yourself blocked from being able to message me. And then don't try to contact me under a different name. I will figure that out too. And you will be gone again. 7. Do not make the mistake of assuming that because I am a woman and I have blondish hair, that I am stupid. I am smarter than the likes of you, and I have no patience to mess with you. These are the rules for now. You can either accept them or not. If you choose to accept them, then be true. If you choose to accept them and not be true, then you accept the consequences. If you choose to not accept them, good, I don't have the time or patience for the likes of you anyway. Personal http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1581613 Sat, 26 Aug 2006 12:50 EDT People just don't get it http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1581304 I just don't understand what people are having such a hard time understanding about me. In particular, I am speaking about the stupid jerks who seem to think I am after all just a dumb woman. I have posted in my comments and now in my journal, that I do not wish to be bothered by the scammers and frauds. It is not so hard to understand, I DO NOT FALL FOR YOUR SOB STORIES, YOUR PRETTY WORDS AND YOUR CLAIMS OF LOVING ME!!!!! When I begin asking you for specific details, like where were you born when you are claiming to be from the US, don't get all surprised and start giving me some B.S. about being born in the US but educated elsewhere to explain why you write in broken English. I TEACH ENGLISH, FOR GOD'S SAKE, TO SPECIAL EDUCATION STUDENTS WHO HAVE A DIFFICULT TIME WITH THEIR OWN LANGUAGE (English). It's people like you that make me even more convinced that I am better off being single, never meeting another man because they are all liars. I want to make myself perfectly clear. Do not speak to me of not trusting you, I don't trust you. Trust is not something that is given at the drop of the hat. It is something that is earned and that one continues to work at keeping. Do not tell me that if I can't trust you, it is no use to go any further, especially if we had just began chatting. I am here to tell you right now, you are starting at I DON'T TRUST YOU, and if you want to get to know me better, then you are going to work at gaining my trust. BUT you WON'T gain that trust by starting things off with lies. I can pretty much sniff those out right away. If you are saying you are from America, then by God, your English better bear that out. It's because of people like you that I show up less and less on my messengers, because I am tired of the games you all are playing. It doesn't take me long before I am ignoring your silly games by putting you on my blocked list. Unfortunately, you put me in a bad mood. I have enough going on in my life to put me in a bad mood, I don't need your lies and your assuming that I am stupid to make matters worse for me. Keep it up people. We are very aware of your scams, and your games. There are a lot of sites out here on the web that inform those who want to know about your BS. And I am doing my part to inform others of it also. I have no problem in sharing what I have learned and sharing what sites are out there for information, and even how to report scammers to the FBI. I have done it before and have no problem with doing it again. Why don't you get real jobs and make your money the old fashioned way, by blood sweat and tears, like most of us do. Move along little people. Do not expect me to "love" you as you profess to "love" me. Do not expect me to trust you in 5 minutes of chatting. And do not expect me to "help" you with money or check cashing or whatever. And do NOT expect me to believe you are from the US and then say you are in Nigeria or whatever for business. OR send me an email, saying you are in the US when the ip addresses show you are sending from Africa or Israel or wherever. That's a pretty round about way of getting an email sent. Good bye losers. I do not wish to have anything to do with you. Miscellaneous http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1581304 Fri, 25 Aug 2006 22:09 EDT Tired of frauds http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1578609 <h1>Tired of Frauds</h1> I joined Zorpia in the hopes of making new friends all around the world. Instead, what I have had happen is having people contact me that are not who they say they are. They say they are from the US, but it turns out they are most definitely not. They say they want to be friends, but then they really just want help with money. They say they love me with the very first message, I'm sorry but that just does NOT happen in real life. I can figure this all out very quickly. I am so disappointed in society today. Whatever happened to truth, honesty, working for a living, and not using people just to gain for yourself? I have one person not from the US that seems to be genuine. That person has not asked for money, has not said that he's madly in love with me. Instead, this person was scammed by others, and I am helping him research that kind of information. I do not wish to communicate with people who start things off in deceit. And I wish they would all just leave me alone. I don't have the time, or the energy to waste on such things. Do not assume, that just because I am female that I am stupid. I have no tolerance for people who make such assumptions. I also have no tolerance for lies, deceit and frauds. Move along people. Don't waste my time, or yours. You are not going to get from me whatever it is that you seek. Personal http://www.zorpia.com/jmh123/journal/1578609 Sun, 20 Aug 2006 13:57 EDT