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Saturday,Feb 5 2005, 12:00:19 AMWhAT's LoV???? what is love??? here's the...
WhAT's LoV????
what is love??? here's the real answer..
For all you people who say, "I love you"
when you have no clue what love is
exactly!!!
thanks chris... now i understand wat LOVE
really is... unlike wat teenagers nowadays
used to express it... thier's r more like LUST,
SYMPATHY and INFACTUATION...
UR "PESTS" r exceptional though..
ahahaha.... esp one of them... :P Being in
love is like being in paradise... my dear
chris... rite? :P still remember PARADISE?
bet miss psycholity miss it much as well...
Are your palms sweaty, is your heart
racing and is your voice caught within
your chest?? It isn't love, it's LIKE.
You can't keep your eyes or hands off of
her/him?? It isn't love, it's LUST.
Are you proud, and eager to show
her/him off?? It isn't love, it's LUCK.
Do you want her because you know
she's/he's there?? It isn't love, it's
LONELINESS.
Are you with her/him because it's what
everyone wants?? It isn't love, it?s
LOYALTY.
Are you with her because she/he kissed
you, or held your hand? It isn't love, it's
LOW CONFIDENCE.
Do you stay for her/him confessions of
love, because you don't want to hurt
her/him? It isn't love, it's PITY.
Do you belong to her/him because the
sight of her/him makes your heart skip a
beat?? It isn't love, it's INFATUATION.
Do you pardon her faults because you
care about her/him? It isn't love, it's
FRIENDSHIP.
Do you tell her/him every day she is the
only one you think of? It isn't love, it's a
LIE.
Are you willing to give up all of your
favorite things for her sake? It isn't love,
it's CHARITY.
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Does your heart ache and break when
she's sad? Then it's LOVE.
Do you cry for her/his pain, even when
she's/he's strong? Then it's LOVE.
Do her/his eyes see your true heart, and
touch your soul so deeply it hurts? Then
it's LOVE.
Do you stay because a blinding,
incomprehensible mix of pain and
relation pulls you close and holds you to
her/him? Then it's LOVE.
Do you accept her/his faults because it's a
part of who she/he is? Then it's LOVE.
Are you attracted to others, but stay with
her/him faithfully without regret?? Then
it's LOVE.
Would you give her/him your heart, your
life, your death?? Then it's LOVE.
Now, if love is painful, and tortures us so,
why do we love? Why is it all we search
for in life? This pain, this agony? Why is
it all we long for? This torture, this
powerful death of self? Why? The answer
is so simple cause it's...LOVE. It is such
an addictive thing that even people who
are not having it wish to experience it
and share it with others as well.
Pass this to all your friends so they don't
make the same mistake with their LOVE
LIVES!! I like the dreams of the future
better than the history of the past...
Love hurts our feeling, but it's also the
reason our soul heal...
Dont say i love u when u don mean it.. it
hurts..
For all,
To love is to tolerate.
To love is to trust.
To love is to be honest.
To love is to be understanding.
To love is to give.
To love is to accept all faults.
To love.. It seems like its easy.. but u hav to
know the real meanin of it...
Friday,Feb 4 2005, 11:52:43 PMI asked God why I wasn't rich, and He showed...
I asked God why I wasn't rich,
and He showed me a man with the wealth of a
thousand kings,
who was lonely, and had no one to share it with.
I asked God why I wasn't beautiful,
and He showed me a woman more beautiful than
any other,
who was ugly because of her vanity.
I asked God why i didn't have a bigger house,
and he showed me a family of six,
who'd just been evicted from their tiny shack,
and were forced to live on the streets.
I asked God why I had to work,
and He showed me a man who couldn't find a
decent job,
because he'd never learned to read.
I asked God why I wasn't more popular,
and he showed me a socialite with a thousand
friends,
who all left at the moment the money and parties
were no longer there.
I asked God why I wasn't smarter,
and he showed me a natural born genius,
who was serving life in prison for making ill use of
his knowledge.
I asked God why He put up with a thannkless
sinner like me,
and He showed me His Bible, and his Son who
took my place at the judgment.
And I knew how much He loved me.
Then brighten up someone else day, in any way
you care to.
Remember, a candle loses nothing by lighting
another candle.
Just reach out and touch someone's life and
brighten up their day.
Friday,Feb 4 2005, 11:50:55 PMLoVe... When you think of your past love, you
LoVe...
When you think of your past love,
you
may view it
as a failure. But
when you find a new love, you view the
past as a
teacher. In the
game
of love, it doesn't really matter who won
or who
lost. What is
important is you know when to hold on
and when
to let go! You know
you
really love someone when you want him
or her to
be happy, even if
their
happines means that you're not part of it.
Everything happens for
the
best. If the person you love doesn't love
you back,
don't be afraid
to
love someone else again, for you'll never
know
unless you give it a
try. You'll never love a person you love
unless you
risk for love.
Love
strives in hurting. If you don't get hurt,
you don't
learn how to
love.
Love doesn't hurt all the time. Though
the hurting
is still there
to
test you, to help you grow. Don't find
love, let love
find you.
That's
why it's called falling in love because you
don't
force yourself to
fall. You just fall. You cannot finish a
book without
closing it's
chapters. If you want to go on, then you
have to
leave the past as
you
turn the pages. Love is not destroyed by a
single
failure or won by
a
single caress. It is a lifetime venture in
which we
are always
learning, discovering and growing. The
greatest
irony of love is
letting go when you need to hold on and
holding
on when you need to
let
go. We lose someone we love only when
we are
destined to find
someone
else who can love us even more than we
can love
ourselves. On
falling
out of love, take some time to heal and
then get
back on the horse.
But
don't ever make the same mistake of
riding the
same one that threw
you
the first time. To love is to risk rejections,
to live is
to risk
dying, to hope is to risk failure. But risk
must be
taken because
the
greatest hazard in life is risk nothing! To
reach for
another is to
risk involvement, to expose your feelings
is to
expose true self,
to
love is to risk not to be loved in return.
How to
define love: fall
but
do not stumble, be constant but not too
persistent, share and never
be
unfair, understand and try not to demand,
hurt but
never keep the
pain.
Love is like a knife. It can stab the heart
or it can
carve
wonderful
images into the soul that always last for a
lifetime.
Love is
supposed
to be the most wonderful feeling. It
should inspire
you and give
you
joy and strength. But sometimes the
things that
give you joy can
also
hurt you in the end. Loving people
means giving
them the freedom
who
they choose to be and where they choose
to be.
For all the
heartaches
and the tears, for gloomy days and
fruitless years,
you should give
thanks, for you know, that there were the
things
that helped you
grow.
Loving someone means giving him the
freedom to
find his way,
whether
it
leads towards you or away from you. Love
is a
painful risk to take
but
the risk must be taken no matter how
scary or
painful, for only
then
you'll experience the fullness of humanity
and that
is love. Only
love
can hurt your heart, fill you with desire
and tear
you apart. Only
love
can make you cry and only love knows
why. If
you're not ready to
cry,
if you're not ready to take the risk, if
you're not
ready to feel
the
pain, then you're not ready to fall in love.
There
was a time in
our
lives when we became afraid to fall in
love coz
every time we do,
we
get hurt, then I figured that's why it's
called falling
in love.
When
you decide to love, allow it to grow.
When you
promise to love,
refuse
to let it die!