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Mon, 13 Aug 2007 04:52 EST

1、請記得，若是男人對不起你，請堅決與他分手。你還得記住，千萬不要發脾氣，要溫柔地分手。若發脾氣，你們分手的理由會定位于性格不合，若溫柔地分手，你們不過是無緣，不過是世間遺憾。親愛的，多給男人一點遺憾。對于遺憾，一直都是男人心中一道淒美的風景線。男人們大多不懂珍惜，信奉得不到的才是最美的，失去的總有詩意。讓他失去你，比你失去他要在心理上占優勢。

2、不要試圖去征服一個30歲以上、從未結過婚、至今也沒有固定女友的男人。這種男人不是性無能就是愛無能，而且多數有性取向方面的心理暗疾。親愛的，別做一個受傷的女性。

3、看一個男人愛不愛你的最好方面，是看他是否把你帶入他的世界、他的生活當中。

4、收服男人就得對他好，俗話說，柔能克剛。但不要時時、事事都好，只要在他生病時照顧他就行了。記住，千萬不能太慣男人了，不要讓他習以為常，以為這是你該做的、喜歡做的。

5、這世間有個詞叫神話，想知道什麼是神話？請聽男人向你表達愛意！這世間還有個詞叫傳說，想知道什麼是傳說？請聽男人對你的承諾！這世間的女人都有夢境，而夢境，就是女人接觸到神話和傳說時的反應。

6、作為女人其實應該相信男人。就像願意相信世界和平會到來，雖然你也知道，現在世界戰爭不斷。

7、每個女人，一生至少要傻一次。傻兩次及以上者，不是女人，是母豬，活該被騙被甩。若是已經上當的，就最好抱著“酒後失身，何必當真”的心態，這樣，雖然不能擁有愛情，但至少挽回了面子。

8、如果你給男友(老公)打電話遇到不回、關機等情況，完全沒有必要再打第二次，因為破壞人家的歡樂時光實在是件不好的事情，關鍵是讓你自己很沒面子。

9、千萬不要翻看男人的手機短信，不要查崗不要跟蹤追擊，不要讓男人覺得你十分在乎他，要讓他在乎你關注你才對。

10、千萬不要相信別人告訴你的關于男友(老公)的緋聞，除非當場抓住。如果你想繼續，就請你先一致對外，趕走外來侵犯者，最後再解決內部矛盾。家醜不可外揚，男人也想保持唯一的一點面子。如果你覺得不可忍受，就想怎麼發洩就怎麼發洩，要讓這個惡劣的男人知道背叛女人後的悲慘下場。

11、千萬不要在出差時想給對方驚喜，不要搞突然襲擊，不要不打招呼地回來或去看望對方。我相信所有的女人都不願意看到一些讓自己後悔一生的場面。

12、親愛的女士們，男人這種動物，很容易讓我們看走眼。開始時，你以為他是白馬王子，最後才發現是白眼蛤蟆。但這世上也有優秀的男人，他溫柔、善良、體貼、富有情趣，極有責任感，最好還能有些家產，但最最重要的是他愛你。這時候，記得一定要抓緊一切機會，想方設法嫁給你愛的這個他！女士們努力吧！十個男人七個傻，八個呆，九個壞，剩下的這個可是人人愛呀！

唔知點算, 可能自己想多了.

Mon, 13 Aug 2007 04:00 EST

星期六晚上發生了一件事.

朋友S 向我"表白", 不確定他是酒後壯了膽, 還是當時別有用心, 反正"酒醉三分醒". 朋友S知道自己做了什麼, 說了什麼.

當時有一刻我有感動, 不是因為我喜歡他, 而係我都想有一個更穩定的關係. 再現實d, 朋友S肯定可以給我更富太o既生活.

您是我同 Gil o既朋友呀, 為什麼您要咁樣呀?

好感動!

Wed, 25 Jul 2007 05:09 EST

剛剛打給媽媽,

媽 : 喂....

我 : 喂, 係咪o係檔口呀?

媽 : 係呀....... (好似唔知我係呀水咁..)

我問 : 您知唔知我係邊個呀?

媽 : 梗係知啦! 我個寶貝女嘛!!! (興奮地)

我真係講唔出野, 嗚咽左, 好感動, 勁想喊!

but o係公司, 唔喊得........!

everyday a stimulate

Mon, 28 May 2007 20:20 EST

I found this message today:-

"Hi mb. Go to cinema now. Will call you when finish. Kisses"

Obviously this message is sent by Gil to the lady on Sunday before I went to the movie with Gil. By the way, the initial of the lady's name is NOT "mb". What the hell is that?!?!

I am trying not to think the meaning of "mb". But this is annoying and struggling in my whole body again

Damn it!

leave him or not?

Tue, 22 May 2007 23:32 EST

Whenever I "fight" with Gil, whole morning (at least) my heart doesn't feel good and getting nervous all time.

Normally I was not going to react; just pretend nothing has happened & trying to make jokes. Today I kept silence but kind of bad face to Gil.

I was in dilemma and strugling in my heart. This is because I feel sorry after I had such reacts. However, at a moment, I was thinking "Why I can't do that? He was doing something worse which hurts me much!". All of a sudden, another voice came out "You should not think like this. Can't count and compare things like this. Be rational and most important: You love him ma."

Ummm... Does this action reflect something? Like I have less patience than the past?

I want to leave him or not?

好想知道

Thu, 26 Apr 2007 07:00 EST

突然好想......
好想有個人, 識我&Gil, 可以走埋去好大聲咁問...

"Hi, Gil! How are you? Where is Liz?"

好想知道Gil會點答;
更加想知道"Camilla"有咩反應?!?!?!

後感

Tue, 24 Apr 2007 09:01 EST

在飛機上看了the Holidays這一套電影, 說得很到肉:-

當佢對您唔好, 明明知道佢同您講大話o既時候, 您會充耳不聞, 好似咩都聽唔到, 睇唔到咁; 當佢係咁易對您好, 好似幾錫您o既時候, 您就開心到曉飛上天咁, 開心指數升到過千億倍, 有咩事都唔再care.

所以到最後... 傷o既都係自己.

真係好到肉, 兩大滴淚珠立刻掉下來... 雖然咁講好似對身邊o個個唔公平, 我真係好無奈......

原來我而家都係擁有一個好畸形, 好唔健康o既關係, 以前自己都唔覺得係d咩野; 現在, 突然之間, 好想要一段比較正常, 健康o既關係, 起碼您要走的時候, 可以從男朋友的眼睛裡看到佢多麼捨不得! so warm, so sweet!

suggestion

Sat, 24 Mar 2007 04:44 EST

Hi, my dear assistant!            c.c. my boss

For "the client that I only want to concentrate taking care of" (MK), we have to indicate MK style# and every details of the fabric when sending s/o, swatch or yardage to them. Construction, WEIGHT and cuttable width are very important information and MUST be correct.

~ if our information is not correct, need to find out the reason(s) with mill, then tell MK. Meantime, pse make sure that our recap, email to both MK and mill, our P/I, P/O are amended imm.
~ pse mark the purpose for MK when sending out:-
    s/o, h/l, l/d: color approval? pattern layout/repeat approval? or both??
    yardage: presentation sample? fit sample? AD sample? Bulk approval? Bulk
washing? Bulk testing? Retesting?
    pse make sure DATE and NBR OF SUBMISSION marked correctly in forms and
labels.
~ when send cutting to mill for checking or making h/l, s/o, yardages, pse
make sure face/back, warp/weft direction.
~ when you cutting l/d, h/l, s/o, pse also make sure face/back, warp/weft
direction because color shows diff. during diff. angles. For corduroy, pse
be careful that MK (Kohls/Sonoma) needs to stick by nep down (逆毛對色).
~ when we get price, quote price, get/submit s/o or yardages, pse MUST
UPDATE in recap. It could remind us what we should chase and what we can
submit to MK. (ST370605 corduroy courtland L/D is a good example: we already
asked mill to make l/d and ready in our file, but didn't mark in recap. As
a result, if I didn't find out, think that all of us should have had
forgotten to submit MK!)
~ must do filing EVERYTHING & DAILY BASIS, maybe you cannot file imm.
Print out and place in ur tray, file before lunch once, and before you
leaving once.
~ pse place in CORRECT section for easy referal for all doc., esp. s/o
submission. Even our comment to mill, MK comment, buyer comment, pse attach
to related submission because many times we need to have BIG discussions
with MK/buyer/mill.

Know it may not be easy, pse improve above, if any questions, feel free to
ask me.

When incoming emails from MK, pse not just read the email and made it as
"unread". Like when you do comprehension in school, pse try to get the KEY
words when interpreting msg. HIGHLIGHT the key words and try to MEMORIZE
them. Buyer name, style #, season, fabric details, motivations of this
email etc. Those infos help you ALOT to know next action you need to take
or maybe follow up with mill imm. Also you could know how to filing more
efficiently.

Pse not just help me to write message (e.g. comments to mill/remarks to MK).
Also pay attention to the details. It is because everything is 大同小異.
Also clients/mills may make mistakes too. Therefore, when translating the
message to the parties, BE MORE & MORE CAREFUL & COMPREHENSIVE.Keep on
practising and learning, you can handle the cases by yourself and know how
to communicate with clients&mills by word and voice. Thanks!

Best regards,
Liz

脫節

Thu, 22 Mar 2007 07:30 EST

好想落筆, 卻發現不知道寫什麼好.

家人 - 個個都好好, 現在大部分時間沒有與家人同住, 所以見面時都唔會鬧交 (其實淨係講緊我阿媽, 同細佬妹就NO PROBLEM). 就算同GIL分開, 我想我也會搬出外面, 租個地方住, 已經想好大概在沙田/大圍火車站沿線. 哈哈 !

朋友 - 謝謝上週陪我一起的, 給我ADVICE的朋友! 因為上週我實在不知所措!SORRY! 我知自己實在太懶了! 放假的時候多想自己一個! 平日的時候太緊張, 我個樣又愈來愈殘, 唔多想大家見到... 同埋覺得自己脫左節? 什麼叫 GAG? 唔問我妹都唔知係咩!

工作 - 嘔血! 唔想提, 太多問題! 空運一大堆, 好驚老板在我來年的花紅扣掉! 前日仲俾廠激到喊. 反省: 我太軟弱嗎? 還是我不懂工作上與人溝通的技巧?

GIL - 上個星期惹怒了他, 我的心情很低落, 連妹妹都驚說我很憔悴! 好不容易星期五晚轉接又突然間大家相安無事, 和好如初. 今個星期他出TRIP, 而且他每年兩次的"大旅遊"日子快到, 整個4月都應該見他不到, 唔知會點, 還未來得及用何種心情面對...

在每一天日日如是的情況下, 真係好無聊.

P.S 今天感冒加發燒, 待在家中休息. 整個星期都沒有碰酒 (去MES AMIS), 現在在家喝悶酒 (GIL瑞士買來的啤梨酒).

恭喜發財

Wed, 21 Feb 2007 01:03 EST

恭喜發財!

金豬年祝大家順順利利! 平平安安!

昨晚凌晨由沙巴 (kota kinabalu)回來, 個假期好relax, 第一次玩掏手潛水, 好好玩! 我而家好tan 呀! 哈哈! 希望可以keep耐d啦. 不過右眼皮膚發炎, 腫左, 好樣衰 !

希望可以快d好番, 因為星期日又飛喇, business trip to USA, 要飛3個省, 唔想去, 零下拾幾廿度! 都唔知咩鬼地方! 未去已經想快D番黎香港!

各位, wish me good luck, thanks!

時下年青人

Thu, 11 Jan 2007 20:54 EST

subject: TO LIZ

1月10日, 你交落比;我做的事情我已按時辦妥! <下刪其匯報的工作>

我想說, 你交給我做的事, 我會做好,

但你沒清楚交待是交給我做的事, 我無時間去理, 你明白你給我做的事, 大多是花時間去完成的,

WING所有東西都掉給我時,

如你有需要, 請自取吧..

這樣, 你早上和中午費時間同我交待工作才能發揮到作用!

這樣才有效率!

希望你明我講什麼!

THANKS
XXX

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申報:

(1) "時下年青人" = 本人新的 (來了約兩個星期) ASSISTANT MERCHANDISER (芳齡20); 本人= SENIOR MERCHANDISER (殘花敗柳 24) <--限指本人, 請讀者勿對號入座 ~haha~.
(2) 一切外來包裹已事前通知"時下年青人"統籌.
(3) "時下年青人"不太懂得分配工作, 掌握時間點的能力暫未能運用自如, 所以安排了早午各一次BRIEFING, 告訴"時下年青人"要做的工作, 半天內回覆進度和結果, 再安排下一個步驟之工序.

事原: COURIER快於10分鐘內上門取件時, 發現有大貨竟然丟在"時下年青人"座位的地下, 整個下午都沒有人告訴本人有此大貨已到公司. 本人得到的即時回覆 : "我以為您見到"和上列EMAIL.

本人即時回應: 震怒 ! <可怒也 !!!>

飛了

Mon, 30 Oct 2006 03:09 EST

您終於飛了, 放您指定的悠長假期.

說實話, 每天想起, 心裡都會默默流淚. 雖然每一次您都要我相信您, 但係您知道嗎? 理性的信任和內心的難過可是兩回事??

好難, 好難 ! 趁您離開前跟您說了感覺, 希望您可以理解.

爆忙? 爆亡?

Sat, 28 Oct 2006 02:35 EST

好似我不太怎麼講工作上的事.

其實我最近................. 爆忙 ! 爆爆爆爆爆爆忙 !

做了 senior 差不多一年多, 基本上做的範疇都差不多, 都是業務、跟單的工作, 可以說我 hea左一排. 可是現在, 單多了, 對客戶、工廠也更多了, 好多時候是自己做決策、分配的工作; 相對要負的責任也重了很多. 時間又不夠用, 人手也不夠. (Assisttant 已經走了) 壓力真的很大.

同時, 都開始了 executive的範疇, 每件事情做回應前都要想得透徹、長遠一點, 要令客戶、suppliers覺得我有 "誠信", 要"靠得住"; 香港/國內同事慢慢知道我的"地位". 慶幸的是自己的人緣都不錯, 所有人對我都.....託賴啦 ! 但是要一直維持, 從而建立所有人的信任, 呢種"撐落去"的精神真係好難好難~ (斎講就真係話咁易~)

真係好多野, 太多野要兼顧 (業務、行政、人事) 講真, 真係做唔完, 冇可能日日清晒d野.

好想好想快d適應, 自己可以到達另一個層次 !

加油 !

Tell me

Thu, 26 Oct 2006 21:45 EST

You tell me :

~ to find a young man; you are old for me !
~ you are missing home... very much !
~ you are no good for me !
~ I am living in Hong Kong while you are not, and will not !

What's wrong with you? Do you really MEAN it? You are MEAN !

醉了說的話，可以當真嗎．．．？

究竟係佢放假, 定係我放假??

Sun, 22 Oct 2006 23:42 EST

23/10 - 24/10.......Shanghai trip
29/10...................Lantau obeisance
29/10 - 8/11.........Bahrain trip
3/11 - 8/11...........Shanghai trip

突然間大家不約而同地好似十分唔得閒咁, 點算?

同埋幾時到我放長假呀??