Tuesday,Jul 10 2007, 05:33:00 AMWhen ‘Friends’ Hurt YoU

When ‘Friends’ Hurt YoU

It is a horrible feeling when people who are supposed o be your FRIENDS hurt you.

Actually, two things are the worst; when your friends set out to hurt you on purpose, the other is when no matter you do for them, how much you love them, all they do is decide to treat you badly,,,  it hurts when they take a lot and give very little.

No matter how hard you try,, you always do your best for them, you help them, pray for them, listen to their problems, be there for them when they need you, and yet all decide to express their gratitude and honour your friendship in a NASTY way, by doing NASTY things, ignoring you, deleting you from their lives, as if nothing has happened.

I believe that you never know people in life,,, even when you think you do,,

Life does teach us a lot,, each day we learn and we see new things, let's learn from our lessons.

This is not the true meaning of friendship though!! Is it?? Is this the real meaning of FRIENDSHIP?

Have things changed to the worst? Or is it that old day’s people were so loving?

Real and true friendship involves accountability, truth and forgiveness.

Real friendship looks at the heart, not just the ‘Packaging’. Friends love for love’s sake, not just for what it can get in return; true friendship is challenging and exiting. It risks, it overlooks faults, and it loves unconditionally, it also involves being truthful even though it may hurt.

Your Friend accepts you as you are.

Believe in ‘YOU’

Calls you to say ‘hello’

Doesn’t give up on you

Forgives your mistakes

Gives unconditionally

Helps you

Keeps you close at ‘heart’

Loves you for who ‘you’ are

Makes a difference in your ‘life’

Never judge you

Offers support

Raise your spirits

Tells you the truth when you need to hear it

Understands you

Finally walks beside you hand in hand .

 …………….You proved me right……………..