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Monday,May 25 2009, 01:24:15 PMTerrible Sight

Two weekends ago I was walking down the street when I noticed a crowd of people looking up at the side of a hotel not far from mine.  Then I noticed two police cars and one ambulance.  So since everyone else standing there was looking up, I looked up as I got nearer. All I could see was an open window.  My only thought was that someone was trying to jump.  So since I didn't see anything, I started walking away when someone tapped me on the shoulder and pointed up the driveway a little bit.  There on the cement was a man's body, blood everywhere.  They were just starting to cover his body with a cloth of some type.

I walked away but as I did, I turned around to notice the crowd was getting bigger with people just standing and staring at the lifeless body and the blood on the driveway.  Some of them even had small children with them and were pointing out the body to the children.  This I couldn't believe.  If I had a child with me, I would have covered his/her eyes so as not to see this.  I can't imagine the effect this sight must have had on a child's mind.

It's always so sad when someone takes their own life.  They seem to think that this is a way to end their hardships or misery.  They don't realize the effect this will have on others in their lives, their family, their friends, etc.  Suicide has a terrible effect on so many people.

I just hope I never have to witness such a thing again.

Friday,May 15 2009, 05:26:20 AMI'm Changing Jobs

After four years and working in two large modern hotels in Xi'an, I have decided it is time for me to move on.

I was offered a teaching position at Xi'an International Studies University. I accepted it. So, hopefully, on September 1st, I will begin teaching classes there. Since I have been in Xi'an for this long, and I know the city better than most natives, I was asked to be a member of the faculty in the "tourism and travel" college. I think that is going to be so interesting and so much fun.

I know I will enjoy the new environment. I was a teacher ...

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11/6/2009 2:45 PM:)

SolemnWanderer
Roshni Royal Zorpian  108, Nonsense makes the world go around., United Kingdom

11/6/2009 3:10 PMRe: :)

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
OMG, what a fantastic sign. I can't believe after all these years, they would remind people of this fact. They could so easily blame it all on Texas. LOL

11/6/2009 3:17 PMRe: Re: :)

SolemnWanderer
Roshni Royal Zorpian  108, Nonsense makes the world go around., United Kingdom
hahahahaha
I love the sign...it seems soo right :)

10/26/2009 7:25 AMhello

weihanchuzhi
雨晰 24, Xian, Shaanxi, China
hi,Ron, a new week start! hope everything is well with you,especially your computer. hehe...

10/28/2009 3:49 AMRe: hello

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
Hi, yes a new week, although it is Wednesday already, and so it is half over with. Only had one class this morning, so now I'm home doing laundry. Seems chores at home never finish. Hope your week is going well.

10/25/2009 2:41 PMhappy monday ron!!

hanayuri
kisses 39, Manila, Philippines

10/24/2009 11:21 AM:)

SolemnWanderer
Roshni Royal Zorpian  108, Nonsense makes the world go around., United Kingdom

10/24/2009 1:14 PMRe: :)

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
Wow, that looks like me in the tub, but who can that "old" woman be? I don't know any old women, LOL

7/31/2009 4:41 AMHey

zfjllhg
Linda 23, Xian, Shaanxi, China
Hey Ron/You have changed your job ?Tianna ,you didn"t tell me .But I think you must like it .

7/31/2009 4:46 AMRe: Hey

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
Hey yourself.
Well, maybe if you showed your head more than once or twice a year, you would know things.
I left the hotel at the end of the contract and start at "XISU" the first of September. Looking forward to it. Got a new apartment by DayAnTa, as a matter of fact, I can see it all lit up at night from my windows.
Where are you? It says Xi'an here, but I don't think so. When are you getting married?

7/31/2009 4:57 AMRe: Re: Hey

zfjllhg
Linda 23, Xian, Shaanxi, China
Will you change the telephone number ?I will go and have some sleep now because I have classes this afternoon,ok?

7/31/2009 4:58 AMRe: Re: Re: Hey

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
Same phone number I've had for over 4 years now.

7/31/2009 5:02 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Hey

zfjllhg
Linda 23, Xian, Shaanxi, China
ok,you know mine too.message me when you come back

7/31/2009 5:02 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: Hey

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
Oh NO! Your husband will get jealous and beat me.

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7/31/2009 4:50 AMRe: Re: Hey

zfjllhg
Linda 23, Xian, Shaanxi, China
I got married on 20th May .I have told you .

7/31/2009 4:53 AMRe: Re: Re: Hey

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
I don't believe you did tell me. Who did you marry? Is he the same guy I met?

7/31/2009 4:55 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Hey

zfjllhg
Linda 23, Xian, Shaanxi, China
yes,hehe

7/31/2009 4:58 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: Hey

zfjllhg
Linda 23, Xian, Shaanxi, China
Ok,mei wen ti .you are a good uncle ,always.ha ha

7/31/2009 4:56 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: Hey

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
Wh "he he"? Isn't this the guy who was always too busy to spend time with you?
When is the baby coming? I want to be an uncle again.

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7/10/2009 2:38 AMHi

IcyFreedom
PJ 102, China
Hi Uncle Ron! long time no see....
How are you doing?

7/10/2009 1:00 PMRe: Hi

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
Hello PJ. Just busy these days. Changing jobs, changing houses, so busy man. Tomorrow I will fly home for a few weeks. I need to go shopping. I'm too big to buy clothes in China, seems most folks here are short.

7/11/2009 4:39 AMRe: Re: Hi

IcyFreedom
PJ 102, China
haha... so that you have a chance back to home and go shopping

7/12/2009 1:49 AMRe: Re: Re: Hi

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
Yes, home again means lots of shopping. I'll be a poor man soon, I'm sure, hehe. But no matter when I only get to shop once a year.

7/13/2009 5:31 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Hi

IcyFreedom
PJ 102, China
haha....
I am poor but I go shopping everyday even I don't know what I should buy.
So, I being not only poor but also crazy...

7/13/2009 2:23 PMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: Hi

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
Oh, tian na! Now I must buy you an airplane ticket? I will be so poor then because I won't have any money to buy you pretty things!

7/14/2009 4:18 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Hi

IcyFreedom
PJ 102, China
oh.... so sad... can't shopping together

7/13/2009 7:09 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: Hi

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
yes, let's go shopping, I think it is worth it, also. Welcome to Xi'an, many shops here, hehe

7/13/2009 7:21 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Hi

IcyFreedom
PJ 102, China
Will you pay me air ticket?
(seems PJ not in a pretty heart, haha...)

7/13/2009 6:34 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: Hi

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
I know you are a pretty girl because you have a pretty heart. A pretty heart makes any girl pretty. But a pretty girl without a pretty heart is not pretty in my eyes.

7/13/2009 6:42 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Hi

IcyFreedom
PJ 102, China
haha....Now I know I am pretty and worth a fashion show for Uncel Ron!

Let's go shopping! in Xian or somewhere?

7/13/2009 6:22 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: Hi

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
Of course, I would love to join you. You can try on many clothes for me and I can watch pretty girl fashion show then.

7/13/2009 6:30 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Hi

IcyFreedom
PJ 102, China
haha, such a fashion show won't free. u must pay for those clothes if I can't stop myself take them home and you don't know if it's worth as you don't know I am a pretty girl or not.

7/13/2009 6:07 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: Hi

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
No, shopping is fun, even when you buy nothing. It is good relaxation. Can just be free and look at many things like I do.

7/13/2009 6:17 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Hi

IcyFreedom
PJ 102, China
well... since Uncle Ron saying that, my heart can at ease about this matter...

going to shopping ! care to join?

7/13/2009 5:55 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: Hi

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
Hey, shopping is fun. And do you know I even like to go shopping with girls. It's like a private little fashion show for me. I always tell them to try on many things.

7/13/2009 6:02 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Hi

IcyFreedom
PJ 102, China
when doing shopping but don't know what to buy just can't help go to shopping mall everyday.
don't you think it may like get sick?

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7/9/2009 10:03 AMhi,nice to meet you

weihanchuzhi
雨晰 24, Xian, Shaanxi, China
hi,nice to meet you.you live in Xi'an,me too,It is a very beautiful city.I am very happy you like China,and Chinese culture.Hope you have a good life in Xi'an.

8/24/2009 2:20 PMRe: hi,nice to meet you

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
Hi, I forgot you put this on my page. Thanks for dropping by and checking my page. Yes, I really do like Xi'an 364 days a year, but I always have at least one bad one a year. But it would be that way anywhere I am, I suppose.
It's nice to be able to meet you here. Hope you can join in on some forums and speak out what you think. Don't be shy. But just watch out for some of the guys. They don't mean harm, but they have a strange way of saying things.

10/30/2009 8:19 AMRe: Re: hi,nice to meet you

weihanchuzhi
雨晰 24, Xian, Shaanxi, China
Thank you very much,Ron.You are really very nice.Okey,thank you for your suggestion ,i wil try, and pay attention.

6/25/2009 3:12 AMHello Ron

Happychina2009
Happy 26, Nanning, Guangxi, China
Hi Ron, nice to meet you here on Zorpia. I found you in the group called "I see china" and found out that you are the moderator of the group and live in Xi'an, right? that is so nice and I think you must like China and chinese culture. People who visits my homepageare just interested in pretty girls there, seems they are not so interested in Chinese culture, pity! But I think you are not. Enjoy your life in China

6/30/2009 2:19 PMRe: Hello Ron

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
Hi Happy, thanks for visiting my page and your kind words. Yes, I love Xi'an very much. I have been here over 4 years now. I worked at two different hotels in the city but ended my contract with the last one on the 25th. On September 1, I will start a teaching position at Xi'an international Studies University. I'm looking forward to it. I was a teacher at home. I was a Service Manager, but too many hours, too many days. I couldn't keep up with it anymore.
So now I rented a house in a new building and new area and am getting moved in. Such a lot of work for a poor old man, lol !
I am not "the" moderator of I See China, that's Yang Yang, she does a great job. I just try to support her if she needs any, but she doesn't need it often
Hope to see you around sometime. Have a happy day, week, month, year, life.

9/1/2009 8:49 AMRe: Re: Hello Ron

Happychina2009
Happy 26, Nanning, Guangxi, China
Hello Ron, Just browsing "I see china" and see that you are online. It seems not to see you here very much. And I learned from our talking before that you would be a teacher in a university in Xian from today on, how's things going today on today?

9/1/2009 9:06 AMRe: Re: Re: Hello Ron

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
Hi. Yes, I started at the university, yesterday actually. I have such great classes so far. I will really enjoy it, I'm sure. I am teaching two different courses designed around oral English. The students are all 3rd and 4th year university students, so their English is already pretty good. So I have a good year head of me, I think.
How about you? What's new in your life?

9/1/2009 9:15 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Hello Ron

Happychina2009
Happy 26, Nanning, Guangxi, China
That is nice then. I think you must enjoy it too.
I am also just back to work after my marriage. And also start new life too. :). but I don't feel like that I am already in marriage life. Maybe I will know and learn it soon.

11/6/2009 2:53 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: Hello Ron

Happychina2009
Happy 26, Nanning, Guangxi, China
Hi Ron, long time no see. Just dropping by. How are you? how's your teaching job in the university? and by the way, do you have a wife to get married and worry about? he he

9/2/2009 4:31 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: Hello Ron

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
Never be sorry to ask me a question. I am happy to answer anything you ask me. Hope dinner was good.

9/1/2009 9:56 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: Hello Ron

Happychina2009
Happy 26, Nanning, Guangxi, China
I am sorry for my question again. I think it is not a suitable one to ask you.
It is about 6:00pm, I need to prepare dinner. Have a nice day and enjoy your life.

9/1/2009 9:36 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: Hello Ron

Happychina2009
Happy 26, Nanning, Guangxi, China
you don't have one to worry? you mean you have no wife? sorry for my question if it is not a suitable one.
But my husband does will be angry with me if I married you.:)

9/1/2009 9:29 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: Hello Ron

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
I don't have one to worry about. Ha Ha, the problem is all yours

9/1/2009 9:24 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: Hello Ron

Happychina2009
Happy 26, Nanning, Guangxi, China
he he, you are humorous, I am not able to marry you NOW! Otherwise, my husband will be angry with me or your wife will divorce with you!

9/1/2009 9:17 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: Hello Ron

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
Oh I didn't know you were getting married!! Congratulations.
Don't worry, the feeling of being married will come soon.
I guess that means you won't marry me now? LOL

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7/1/2009 3:36 AMRe: Re: Hello Ron

Happychina2009
Happy 26, Nanning, Guangxi, China
Hello Ron, thanks for your kind words too. Wish you a happy new start in the school soon. And I think you must like the new job too. I am a assistant in a training center. Mainly dealing with documents. There are mainly middle school students in the center to improve their study. Some of them are good and some of them are not. Sometimes I am very busy, sometimes not. Hope to see you around sometimes too.
Enjoy your life in China

2/16/2009 12:48 AMheeey

tundebunde76
Tunturi Royal Zorpian Verified Zorpian 33, “A mind is like a parachute, if it's not open, u're fucked.”, Niue
ur back here! long time no see! welcome!

2/16/2009 1:59 AMRe: heeey

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
Heeey Yourself,

Yes, I'm back, but not as much as before. It just all got so boring, same crap everyday from the same people. So I gave it a break. But coming back, I found so much of the same forums, bleeding hearts, stupid questions, favorite this or that, etc. Ha Ha, seems not much changes. But it's been a nice break, so I come on everyday to see what's going on.
Thanks for the welcome back. I've missed you and many others. Also noticed that some have really tamed themselves a bit. And noticed that some are still on every forum posted, but only for one comment then gone, and the comment is the same.
Hope to see you around now.

2/16/2009 9:31 AMRe: Re: heeey

tundebunde76
Tunturi Royal Zorpian Verified Zorpian 33, “A mind is like a parachute, if it's not open, u're fucked.”, Niue
:)) aw ur observations are very accurate sir :)) beside giving back responses I rarely go to the forum to check for new topics. That's the curse of My zorpia as well since I tend to check the topics that my friends are commenting and I rarely go into convo;s like we used to have, either kidding around or sharing our two pence. Hey I noticed Aireen has gone from zorpia, if u are in contact with her please send her my hugs and tell her I wish her all the best in her life.
Have a great new week and see u around ;)

2/20/2009 4:29 AMRe: Re: Re: heeey

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
Yes, it seems forums are not so interesting, same old same old. But I did make a fatal mistake and comment on a page without noticing the originator, it was the Filipina girl who lives in Japan. The one who always wants her pictures all over them. And then I got a smart-ass comment back from her when it wasn't her I was responding to, so I simply shut up. I don't need that aggravation in my life anymore.
Aireen got a full time permanent job, I'm happy for her. I think it's with a bank or something where she can use her education and ability. So she has no time anymore I guess. Once in a while she will send me a message but it's been a long time now.
Hope things are going well with you. Remember to keep your parachute AND your mind open at all times. Otherwise life is so boring, haha.

2/20/2009 1:35 PMRe: Re: Re: Re: heeey

tundebunde76
Tunturi Royal Zorpian Verified Zorpian 33, “A mind is like a parachute, if it's not open, u're fucked.”, Niue
Lolz aw futt ! sorry :)) and this happened right when u came back grrr well I think she is a lil tamed now or she seems like that to me, just today I had a convo with her ..maybe things are turning for the better ;) but my hats off for making the wise choice ;) I always say we all have our s**t around us so why ruin our playtime here. its good to see u back, hope to see more of u ;)
oh I'm so happy for her! u know anything about how her class reunion went? she was very excited about that one, it happened sometimes at the end of last year when I wasn't here and by the time I came back she was gone.I hope everything was as she expected!
With me things are tricky lol they are trying my patience and my sanity but I'm trying to hang in and stay focused so I wont loose it and go wacko :)) but some changes might come my way soon ;)
wish U a great weekend!

4/13/2009 1:11 PMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: heeey

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
OMG!! Has it been at least a month since I last checked in here? I'm ashamed.
Prisoner meaning I'm working too many hours and too many days a week. Seems contracts don't always mean much to some people.
So with that in mind, I informed the hotel I would not stay when my contract expires in June. I have accepted a position at the Xi'an International Studies University in the Travel and Tourism College. Really am looking forward to it.
Did YOUR changes come about? I hope if they did, they are all for the better.

3/13/2009 3:45 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: heeey

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
Hi, believe it or not, Aireen came online yesterday during a work break or lunch or something. She seems to be enjoying the job at the bank, which is great. I told her you said hello. She's just so busy with work and keeping up with her two kids, it's hard for her to get online. When she worked at the net cafe it was easy, she was onlilne all the time. Different situation now. I just came on to Zorpia today after a couple weeks. Seems I just can't push the button very much anymore.
Things are going okay for me these days. Weekend will start for me in 7 hours, so I'm looking forward to my two days off, I need it after being "held prisoner' in the hotel all week.

3/13/2009 9:41 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: heeey

tundebunde76
Tunturi Royal Zorpian Verified Zorpian 33, “A mind is like a parachute, if it's not open, u're fucked.”, Niue
:)) those are mighty good news!
:( I see what u mean about zorp. not too provoking anymore or very rarely.
lol prisoner? why so? some conference going on that kept u indoors? wish u a great weekend! hope ur gonna have some well deserved relaxation.

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2/8/2009 10:46 PMRon!

matvey
MatiesVerified Zorpian 29, Beijing, Beijing, China
Happy Birthday, Sir! Wish you all the best in this life: strong health, love and success!

2/10/2009 3:45 AMRe: Ron!

roninxian
Ron 108, Xian, Shaanxi, China
Thank you very much, Sir. Nice to have a friend like you. I don't know how it shows my birthday, but I'm trying to find a way not to. I usually like to keep my birthday secret. When you've had as many as I have, you don't like to see them come so much.
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