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- Username: shirleycsw
- Name: Shirley
- Country: Malaysia
- Age: 27
- Gender: Female
- Member Since:
Wednesday, Jun 16 2004
Last Visit:
Sunday, Sep 7 2008
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快樂的秘訣*
花時間思考--這是智慧的根源
花時間工作--這是成功的代價
花時間助人--這是快樂的泉源
花時間閱讀--這是知識的基礎
花時間去笑--這是去除煩憂的妙藥
花時間健身--這是財富與生命的保障
花時間沉思--這是淨化心靈，身心合一的捷徑
花時間娛樂--這是享受人生，永保青春的祕方
花時間愛人--這是生命最動人的樂章
花時間計畫--這是如何有時間做前九件事的要訣
若沒有相同的感動與興趣，那在一起一定很無趣～～
經歷同樣的感動，婚姻才能經營長久～～
一個微雨的清晨，有一個很要好的朋友突然打電話給我。
電話彼端的他，情緒有點低沉：「我決定向我太太提出離婚的要求。」
在離婚率偏高的現代，聽到這種消息，我的反應並不是很詫異...意外的倒是他告訴我的理由。
「你知道嗎？結婚這十幾年來，我幾乎沒有和我太太有過什麼共同的感動了。
我們不曾一起閱讀過一本書，談過其中任何一個有趣的章節。
我們甚至很少一起看電影，更別提看完電影之後曾經就其中某一個場景、某一個片段，
交換過什麼感動的心得。」
聽到這裡，我能深刻體會他的悲哀。
也許，這也是所有婚姻很典型的問題，從一開始的熱烈不知不覺走到疲乏的地步。
一朝醒來，當初最親密的枕邊人，因為日漸減少共鳴而變得面目可憎。
最珍貴的歲月，因為逐漸缺乏了分享感動而變得乏善可陳。
經營感情和婚姻的玄妙之處，就在於如何讓兩個獨立的個體，擁有各自的空間，
卻能因為共同分享的經驗，將兩人相繫、讓兩人相惜。
在平凡中，體會趣味。
在尋常間，流露真情。
說穿了，這個道理和經營友誼並沒有太大不同。
一對知己、一雙伴侶，在本質上其實是很相近的。
除了深愛對方以外，還有愛上有其他共同的愛好。
我曾經在報上，看過一則消息，報導台灣一對夫婦，他們原本經營一家中小型的企業，
非常成功。
他們因為同時愛上旅行，於是在業務穩定之後，把公司全部交給員工經營，
夫妻倆從此千山萬水、夫唱婦隨。
還有一對國外的夫婦，丈夫愛上帆船，太太受到感動，也產生興趣，
後來兩個就搭上帆船，浪跡天涯。
伴侶間能夠培養共同的興趣，以愛情擴展生命的版圖，
不再把生活的焦點全部集中在對方身上，
一起關注在彼此都覺得有趣的事物上，真是莫大的幸福。
有一對情侶決定要結婚了，他們跋山涉水、不遠千里去拜訪一位先知，
向他請教長相廝守的秘訣。
先知以慈藹的眼光看看他們，卻說了一句表面上聽來無情、實際上卻富饒深意的話。
他說：「你們不要只是愛著對方，還要共同愛上別的東西。」
別的東西？別的東西究竟是什麼，絕對因人而異。
可能是一本書、一項有趣的戶外活動、或是一種令人著迷的嗜好。
而最能持久、最不乏味的東西，其實就是生命的本身。
一起熱愛生活，擁有充沛的能量，分享心靈的喜悅，將是恆久維繫感情於不墜的最大力量
- I must say that Shirley was the first lady who really impressed me on Zorpia by her decent photos and through her website I found few very good friends. Thanks Shirley for being friendly. Cheers
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If one day you feel like crying... Call me.
I don`t promise that I will make you
laugh,
But I can cry with you.
If one day you want to run away
Don`t be afraid to call me.
I don`t promise to ask you to stop...
But I can run with you.
If one day you don`t want to listen to
anyone... Call me.
I promise to be there for you. And I
promise to be very quiet.
But if one day you call...
And there is no answer...
Come fast to see me.
Perhaps I need you.
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- About me:single....simple......sexy....(ohhh....not sexy and not ugly)
- Interests:making friend
- I'm looking for:av one...jus wan be fren.....
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- Dating Status:Single
- Body Type:Average
- Eye Color:Brown
- Height:5'4
- Religion:Buddhist
- Smoking Habit:no
- Drinking Habit:social
- Interested in Meeting for:Friends
- Currently Living with:Parents
- In a social setting, I'm:Shy at first, but warm up quickly
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- Sense of humor:Friendly, Clever / Quick Witted
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Friday,May 26 2006, 10:10:10 AMHP ~~ LOST
To who hv my contact number ( i using back my old number), please msg me and let me know ur contact number and your name pls..... Many many thxxxxx ohh.....
Friday,Apr 14 2006, 07:06:50 AMLife
Long time i no blog any website liao, dunno how to start....always logon then logout only....no check mail no reply mail....but today i spend sometime to check mail and reply mail to my frens...some of the mail almost 4 mths b4....i so sorry to them....take a long time to reply..anyway, jus wan to tell you, i fine here....my life so wonderful now....i happy now.....sure i hope your happy too....
any news update me too...maybe i take another long period to check my mail and reply to you...but i stil wan to know all baout you....keep in touch....
Monday,Apr 11 2005, 11:16:40 AMwell, is time 7.00pm...i should rest at home...
well, is time 7.00pm...i should rest at home at this time....but i still at office now....clear all the rubbish work...ship...many work to do...still cant finish the rubbish.....
damn tired.....from early of this month i bz until now stil cant finish the work...who know1 ppl need handle 3 ppls work? i'm the one....bz like the hell.....dunno how to explain the situation...until now company still havent hire ppl come to help me( who can intro somebody in?)...i really wan give up of this job liao....really tired tired tired and tired...i jus can ...
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Posted at 7/22/2008 3:04 AMHello
Posted at 5/6/2008 10:35 AMRe: hello.
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- Shirley
- 27, Shah Alam, Malaysia
busy time is gone liao la...now cannot said too free oso cannot said bz lo... hehe....
u thought i so old til forget who are you meh.....actually i seldom logon zorpia lo....
today toooo free then nothing to do....check and check saw ur msg li....
so, how are you ah....me stil like old look lo....you stil work at overseas ah?
Posted at 5/6/2008 11:02 AMRe: Re: hello.
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- DK
- 26, Malaysia
HUH....Really a MS BUSY.. why so busy oh???
BUSY ON DATING IS IT???HAHA...
WEI i dint say u old leh!!! SEE ur face also know lah...
SO YOUNG FACE!!! LOOK LIKE 21TH!!!
OIC..why seldom logon zorpia leh?
Today sooo free?
MAKAN ULAR leh????hahaha....
ME here very very boring already !!!
i went back here (sudan)on 25th FEB 2008!!
More then 2month!!!NOTHING TO DO HERE!!!
Acuatlly i came back just for taking some ducoment back to malaysia but untill now havent sign yet!!!
VERY VERY BORING!!!!
Still working at oversea?
Ya,my next country may be Australia or Maldives.But still get to back to malaysia for holiday first!!
hehe....
May i have a QUESTION?
When will u MARRY?
HAHAHA.....
dont forget me ohhh!!! JUST KIDDING!!!
BY THE WAY
TAKE CARE
dkchan:P.............
Posted at 5/8/2008 10:21 AMRe: Re: Re: hello.
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- Shirley
- 27, Shah Alam, Malaysia
haha....u need caps lock "SO YOUNG FACE!!!LOOK LIKE 21TH!!! meh? i so paiseh 1 la... wahahaha....
busy is b'cos my lady boss now is maternity leave and one of my collague resigned oledi need assits their work as well plus my own work too lo... but my work shot shot one de... when free really free til dunno wat to do....when bz will bz like hell one.....
you so good...can go so many country....the country(sudan) so slow ah? about 2 mths stil nt sign all document to u?
about marry.....haih....damn sad la....until now stil no find someone wanna marry with me de.... any good guy intro to me or nt? hehe.... back to u.....when ur turn ah? wanna be "diamond single wong" ah?
ok la...is time to back home la...take care la....bye...
Posted at 5/18/2008 3:17 AMRe: Re: Re: Re: hello.
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- DK
- 26, Malaysia
HEHE.....That true mah nonit to paiseh mah!!!
OIC!!!then now very very free lah izzit?
given me busy better then free loh!!!
Free ah!! U will feel very very boring leh!!!
Eh.. whr good?? i miss malaysia alot leh!!!
If malaysia can offer me good ah sure i will work at malaysia loh...
SUDAN AH here not convenience to say ohhh...
i worry the sudaness view my homepage...hehe
AHHH...SI WAI wor such pretty gal wor...how come this can happen on u?
GUY to intro ahhh???? SURE GOT BUT U MUST intro for me 1st loh...me already many many yr dint couple liau..me such a lonely guy lehhhh......SO PITY LEHhhhh....
"diamond single wong"????
I dont have diamond loh ..i just had stone on my hand ...
HAHAHAHA.....
WEI DONT FORGET INTRO GAL FOR ME OH ...
oklah ..
i need to check in lohhhh
i mean need to departure liau lohhhh....
will arrival malaysia tommorow!!!!!
TAKE CARE
Posted at 3/1/2008 1:25 AMhalo ... pretty
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- lai
- 29, Singapore, Singapore
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- kaled
- 38, bngaze, Libyan Arab Jamahiriya
3 days ago
kaled, 37
bngaze
Libyan Arab Jamahiriya
HeLlO
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Libyan Arab Jamahiriya
3 days ago
kaled, 37
bngaze
Libyan Arab Jamahiriya
HeLlO
i see that u have a very nice name and simple homepage.
i will be very glad if u accept to be friends
so iam asking u now do u like to be
F.........Friends
R.........Responsible
I..........Intelligent
E.........Exciting to be Around
N.........Nice Always
D.........Dependable
S.........Smiles a Lot
F.........Friendly Personality
O.........Outstanding
R.........Really Great Memories
E.........Excellent Listener
V.........Very Kind
E.........Enjoyable
R.........Remember our friendship
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plz accept my flower its for u
-=-=-=-=-=-take care-=-=-=-=-=-
(¯`v´¯)
`*.¸.*´
¸.•´¸.•*¨) ¸.•*¨)
(¸.•´ (¸.•´ .•´ ¸¸.•¨¯`•
_____****__________**** ______
___***____***____***__ *** ____
__***________*****______***___
_***__________**_________***_
_***_______ JUST _________***_
_***________ TO__________***_
__***_______SAY ________***__
___***______nice________***____
____***___ *profile*_____***_____
______***___________***_______
________***_______***_________
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so iam now waiting for ur answer
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::: (\_(\ ...*...*...*...*...*...*...*...*...*...*...*...*
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¸.•*´¨`*•.¸¸.•*´¨`*•.¸¸.•*´¨`*•.¸¸.•*´¨`*•.¸¸.•*´¨`*• or add me at
kli_1243@hotmail.com
kli_1243@yahoo.com
thanks
benghazi
Libyan Arab Jamahiriya
